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royce


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發表於 06-6-23 09:51 |只看該作者

急！怎樣另到2歲囝囝跟新工人呢？

舊工人走了幾曰,但囝囝曰曰哭要
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mrsmak1997


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發表於 06-6-23 11:55 |只看該作者

Re: 急！怎樣另到2歲囝囝跟新工人呢？

Why you don't want the 舊工人? It really takes time for 2歲囝囝 to 跟新姐姐. You must let the 新姐姐 to play with the 囝囝 a lot to make them become friend.
Of course, the 新姐姐 must show herself like the child very much.
Best Regards, Mrs Mak1997 :-P :-D
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發表於 06-6-23 15:20 |只看該作者

Re: 急！怎樣另到2歲囝囝跟新工人呢？

royce ,

以前我情形跟你一樣, 比D時間囝囝和工人相處,一定可以,
我仔仔大約1個月時間先接受新工人,不過唔好想請返舊工人.
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royce


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發表於 06-6-23 15:48 |只看該作者

Re: 急！怎樣另到2歲囝囝跟新工人呢？

我本身無做

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mimi2005


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發表於 06-6-23 16:00 |只看該作者

Re: 急！怎樣另到2歲囝囝跟新工人呢？

我都想知
I am the same case with U
But new " sister " still not come .
I already fire the old " sister "
i am worry about this question also
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smallpiggie


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發表於 06-6-23 20:16 |只看該作者

Re: 急！怎樣另到2歲囝囝跟新工人呢？

royce, 我個女都係兩歲時要跟一個新姐姐, 我又係full-time mom, 不過我好好彩阿女用左兩日就跟新姐姐lu。

睇下我既經驗你岩唔岩用:
其實個姐姐我諗阿女都叫做有份揀 (一齊睇相同video), 揀既時候佢冇話鍾意, 但至少唔會喊; 跟住新姐姐黎之前我間中會比新姐姐張相阿女睇, 同佢講auntie要返鄉下見佢既仔女 -- 但呢一步而家你做唔返。

新姐姐黎第一日 (其實已經黃昏), 我帶埋阿女一齊去agent度接新姐姐, 我見阿女見到新姐姐冇喊, 我已經有多d信心可以順利過渡。不過我叫阿女同新姐姐say hello/ 拖手佢都抗拒。

第二日我就都比平時陪得女阿女, 因為要教新姐姐做野, 阿女就黐住我, 但我都有叫新姐姐一齊同我同阿女玩, 同埋brief新姐姐平時阿女鍾意玩乜野。阿女都仲唔係咁比新姐姐抱佢去洗手, 不過我同阿女講"你唔想姐姐抱你洗手, 媽媽响度時仲可以幫你, 但媽媽搵姐姐返黎幫手, 媽媽唔响度時你要比姐姐抱你洗手喇"。

第三日我就當平時咁朝早等工人自己陪阿女, 我留响房入面, 而且我叫新姐姐要單獨陪阿女時就真係唔做其他家務。我諗工人同阿女獨處左兩個鐘左右, 到我出房搵佢地0個陣, 姐姐正同阿女讀書, 而且姐姐同我講話朝早阿女已經比佢拖手同抱。

你試下叫新工人做番舊工人照顧阿仔既野, 如果阿仔反抗得好犀利, 你可以同工人一齊做一排, 但你一定要放手比工人去做, 你主要係旁觀同令阿仔有d安全感。如果你發覺工人都有一定能力照顧阿仔同同阿仔玩, 咁你就逐步增加阿仔同工人獨處既時間, 比工人同阿仔建立關係, 你可以話要去厠所, 落街買d野... 不過你講左話幾時會再出現就要keep your promise, 否則阿仔會好冇安全感。咁當然, 都要你個工人真係唔係唔鍾意照顧小朋友同同小朋友玩啦。
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eeyore_fy


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發表於 06-6-24 00:17 |只看該作者

Re: 急！怎樣另到2歲囝囝跟新工人呢？

我個case 就同你差唔多只不過我個係由保母湊! 初時我都好驚! 當請咗工人後就成日同阿仔講話保母唔得閒湊叫不過媽咪就搵咗個姐姐返嚟!當工人嚟嘅時候就同阿仔一齊接佢. 跟住就同佢講阿仔鍾意玩咩!我好好彩阿仔同佢相處咗2個鍾就同佢玩!不過沖涼或去 V V 就叫我! 咩都叫媽咪! 跟住我有D野就會開始叫姐姐試吓幫佢. 亦都要同佢講媽咪返工姐姐就會照顧你同你玩湊你放學咁羅!
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akycheung


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發表於 06-6-24 09:57 |只看該作者

Re: 急！怎樣另到2歲囝囝跟新工人呢？

I have the similar case when my son is 2. I bring him together to the agent to select the maid. The first time he saw her, he likes to play with her and allow her to carry him away without our sight. So I choose the current maid. The 1st day I took the maid to the school to pick him up. He can allow her to carry him home with my companion. The next day, I let him stay with the maid alone in the dining room for 2 hrs and they can cope with each other very soon. In the afternoon, I can go out for about 1 hour and let them stay at home. My son didn't cry when I leave and come back. On the third day, the maid can handle him by herself e.g. bathing, eating, playing...
But the worst case is she spoiled him a lot so my son very stick to her in a short time and this behaviour became worse and worse for these 6 months. Since I am a working mom, I just let them stay in their way and teach my son when I am back to home. My maid had been working in HK for over 14 years so she had all the "maid's problem", but at least my son didn't cry (not for a single time) when stay with her within these 6 months).
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royce


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發表於 06-6-24 10:03 |只看該作者

Re: 急！怎樣另到2歲囝囝跟新工人呢？

多謝各位媽咪意見，你
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Baby-Kitty


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發表於 06-6-24 13:05 |只看該作者

Re: 急！怎樣另到2歲囝囝跟新工人呢？

想問各位媽咪,同阿女一齊睇相同video揀工人,怕唔怕阿女同依家個工人講,怕依家個工人唔鍾意!
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smallpiggie


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發表於 06-6-25 01:33 |只看該作者

Re: 急！怎樣另到2歲囝囝跟新工人呢？

Baby-Kitty 寫道:
想問各位媽咪,同阿女一齊睇相同video揀工人,怕唔怕阿女同依家個工人講,怕依家個工人唔鍾意!


我個女0個時兩歲未到, 仲未識講咁多野, 而且舊工人都好少會問我同阿女去邊度。但如果你個女大D, 會同工人好好溝通, 咁就梗係要小心D。
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Baby-Kitty


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發表於 06-6-28 23:11 |只看該作者

Re: 急！怎樣另到2歲囝囝跟新工人呢？

Thx!
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QQ-baby


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發表於 06-6-28 23:23 |只看該作者

Re: 急！怎樣另到2歲囝囝跟新工人呢？

如果要小朋友跟新工人，一定要同小朋友一齊去挸，另外接工人時可以準備定小朋友最鍾意既野，扮係工人送比佢既，咁咪得囉！ :lol:
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恩禧媽媽


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發表於 06-6-29 20:32 |只看該作者

Re: 急！怎樣另到2歲囝囝跟新工人呢？

我個囡而家1歲,個工人o黎o左3個月,
我係全職媽媽,我個囡到而家都仲係唔係好跟工人,
見到我就一定要我抱同陪佢,
佢成日同個工人獨處一陣之後就會大叫大喊要搵我,
夜晚都係我自己湊返個囡,even佢晚晚瞓得唔好,喊醒好多次,
我個工人又比較蠢,又成日聽唔明我講o野,煮餸又麻麻,打掃just ok,所以而家好想換o左佢~

不過我覺得最緊要係bb同工人有冇緣份,以前請過好多part-time本地工人,阿囡真係試過第一次見其中一個工人就好鍾意,以後仲跟個工人都唔駛跟我,有d就普普通通,又有個,我個囡係直程唔比佢掂同抱,所以好似bb真係鐘意o既就會鍾意,同埋我覺得請個工人返o黎要先觀察佢做o野同個人得唔得,如果唔得,我都唔想bb咁快跟佢,以免第日要睇阿b份上留個工人係屋企~
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