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prettywife

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當你叫菲傭做野時...

好奇問下 ~

當你叫菲傭做野時...
佢通常答 'Yes, Mum' 定係
'OK, Mum'.

你覺得如果佢[size=medium]時時講 'OK, Mum'.
O 唔 OK

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發表於 06-6-27 14:15 |只看該作者

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My maid 通常答 'OK, Mum', it's no problem to me with this reply!

why you ask this? You feel not comfortable with her reply?

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發表於 06-6-27 14:21 |只看該作者

Re: 當你叫菲傭做野時...

我一叫佢個名時佢就會"yes, mum", 咁我講完之後佢就話 "ok, mum".

無 mug 問題.

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prettywife

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Re: 當你叫菲傭做野時...

she usually said 'OK, Mum' with an 'not ok' 眼神 + 語氣. that's why i'm asking. 'yes, mum' sounds like more 'obedient'

cheukcheukma 寫道:
My maid 通常答 'OK, Mum', it's no problem to me with this reply!

why you ask this? You feel not comfortable with her reply?

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同fd傾開﹐總括我都覺得宜家新一代既工人manner唔再好似舊時咁﹐以前果d﹐知道自己係咩位﹐做番一個helper應該做既野。宜家果d﹕

唔會主動稱呼僱主﹐行埋黎就講野﹐我地同任何人講野都會稱呼一下先啦。唔哎人﹐點知你同邊個講野﹐唔通成日留意你做乜﹐等你講﹖

對住 mum 稱呼 sir 做 he, 對住 sir 稱呼 mum 做 she, 真係叫一聲 mum/sir都咁辛苦

唔應人﹐仲用背脊對住人

俾完指示做野只講OK我就覺得唔OK﹐同prettywife一樣﹐因為講OK時態度同口面都唔多妥

做錯野永遠唔認錯﹐明顯係做錯又唔出聲當無事﹐其實講句sorry好簡單都唔講﹐到講sorry時又態度唔好﹐好似好委屈﹐仲要話“I'm sorry, I'm so sorry, Okay? What's more? What else do you want?"

出糧仲唔講多謝添呀

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發表於 06-6-27 16:46 |只看該作者

Re: 當你叫菲傭做野時...

有時仲係我面前, 講"your husband", 係我老公面前講"your wife" 等等, 都唔知咩野叫禮貎, 我哩個做左半年咋, 仲要對多佢年幾呀,

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Re: 當你叫菲傭做野時...

justjust 寫道:

唔應人﹐仲用背脊對住人

俾完指示做野只講OK我就覺得唔OK﹐同prettywife一樣﹐因為講OK時態度同口面都唔多妥

做錯野永遠唔認錯﹐明顯係做錯又唔出聲當無事﹐其實講句sorry好簡單都唔講
出糧仲唔講多謝添呀

[size=large]exactly the same! before i renewed her contract, i already told her what i don't want to see e.g. long face, never say sorry, etc and i told her the reason behind. basically it's simple manner and if one has done something wrong, he or she has to apologise. at that time, she 'understood' but soon they just forgot. about work, cooking, etc. she's quite smart and can work with initiative but i'm just not comfortable with something subtle...probably i need to brief her again :-x

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做錯野永遠唔認錯﹐明顯係做錯又唔出聲當無事﹐其實講句sorry好簡單都唔講

出糧仲唔講多謝添呀

非常同意

我個工人續咗約一次，我啱啱生咗個女，佢可能唔多like工作量多咗，又以為我實同佢續第二次約。

叫親佢擦玻璃窗10次有8次都跌咗個刷落街，跌咗一d唔會覺得唔好意思，仲要話我買個刷cheap，累佢跌野落街，sorry都冇聲。

d工人都係唔可以續約，一續約d工人態度就差，無晒熱誠、主動、積極同細心

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Re: 當你叫菲傭做野時...

印傭都係呀，唔講sorry架，你話佢做錯野，佢只會唔出聲。有次嬲起上來「的」佢返agent，叫agent訓話佢。

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聽倒你們ｄpost, 我有ｄworry, 因為我們想請番個黎幫手啊!

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FA8866

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好媽媽勳章醒目開學勳章

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Re: 當你叫菲傭做野時...

好彩我個bun無呢d啫.[img align=left]http://www.hk-laufamily.com/_119.gif[/img]佢到依家都係好有禮貌.
可能真係舊bun,好有分寸.完全無話發晦氣咁既,做錯野都即刻講sorry做番.不過我又無乜為意佢講o.k.mum定yes mum喎,好似兩樣都有架.