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dordor20060906

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發表於 06-7-5 17:47 |只看該作者

sad......coz my husband is cheating

what will you do if you found your husband is cheating....on financial....and even dating with girls? this is not the first time....everytime he said he'll change and improve.....so disappointed.......what should I do now?

每個孩子也是父母的祝福，也是每個父母心中的小天使。“教養孩童走在當行的路上，到老也不偏離。“

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manmum

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發表於 06-7-5 21:59 |只看該作者

Re: sad......coz my husband is cheating

You should talk to him seriously.
Did u have any child?

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發表於 06-7-6 09:46 |只看該作者

Re: sad......coz my husband is cheating

How many times he promised will be changed and improved??

How many chance you given him before?

Will you trust him again ??

I guess you already have those answer!

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AggieMami

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發表於 06-7-6 10:13 |只看該作者

Re: sad......coz my husband is cheating

Hi Dordor,

I know you must be very upset. It seems that a lot of husbands are like that nowadays. There are so many sources that men and women can meet one another, for eg netfriend or even temptation from colleagues. I have been undergoing the same for 4 years from dating to having a baby now and therefore I have seeked for counselling service. It does help us a lot as it provides an opportunity for both parties to understand his/her own personality or the thinking of one another from a psychological point of view.

Please remember that if you have tried to do the best in the marriage, you should tell him and that it really hurts you. Also you should be firm that if he is continuing to do that it could destroy the relationship. What if you are the one to hang out with guys every night and what will be his friends' reaction? Let him think from another angle. Also, try to keep yourself busy, for eg. go to the salon for new hair style or buying some new clothes to make yourself pretty. He will then notice that you are changing too. Most important he must really care about you before he can correct his behaviour.

Good luck! We are always here to support you.

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發表於 06-7-6 12:07 |只看該作者

Re: sad......coz my husband is cheating

dordor20060906,

你大緊肚, bb就出世喇... 唔好諗咁多, 搵多d人傾下啦

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dordor20060906

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發表於 06-7-6 18:00 |只看該作者

Re: sad......coz my husband is cheating

thank you so much for your support. I'm better now coz I talked to him seriously. If he keeps on doing these things hurt me, our family will be broken. At this moment, I don't want to think it anymore. So tired and have to cheer myself up for the new born. Though frustration exists, I know I have to stand up and be strong.

每個孩子也是父母的祝福，也是每個父母心中的小天使。“教養孩童走在當行的路上，到老也不偏離。“

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