kittyncat
Please do not give up! I an in the same stuation to you!
I think you might consult 健康院,private hospital prefer formula. My son was born in 仁‘安,he was fed with formula even after the breast feeding!
I am a poor mother too. Generally I can only pump 3 oz a time. I can only dream to pump 90 ml
My baby is 2 months old, he eats even more frequently than your baby. He refuses to sleep and just keep eating in the afternoon and at night. Because he sleeps less, he gains weight slowly. However, he is a 全人奶 bb, because 健康院 said his weight gaining is OK.
As for 鈣, just add more high-calcum food into your daily menu. Please do not worry about the baby, because your body will "auyomaticaaly" gives the first prioriyt to your baby. Therefore, Your boby will grab enough 鈣質 within your bones to produce healthy mother milk when your daily intake of 鈣質 is defficient。