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壓力下同老公大吵~~但他竟然~~ [複製鏈接]

Funghei

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壓力下同老公大吵但他竟然

我們家將面對很大的改變我決定重回家在中看2仔仔啦

其實我在這3個月的變化好大~從自己的理想的工作變回家中看仔~壓力令自己很不開心~~

今日終於爆發同老公吵了~~

我離家出走了一會~~~之後死死地氣回家我說了很多自己的壓力比老公知回家當全職媽媽之後家中所有經濟的壓力~~湊仔教仔的壓力~~

老公竟然好平靜~表示佢知道大家面對的難題~~佢知道我放棄了一份我理想的工作是很不開心~~但大家的決定是為了仔仔的~~而他亦全心全意為家人仔仔的生活~~~

:-( :-( :-(
我聽了不停 :-( 我心中明白老公所受的壓力絕不比我少~但他竟然可以勇敢的面對~~~

老公你好叻~~

我想我也要下定千千萬萬的決心~~~湊好對小仔仔~~

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揚莉煒媽咪

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Re: 壓力下同老公大吵但他竟然

你老公好好呀

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Re: 壓力下同老公大吵但他竟然

bb 是自己生的, 教他, 照顧他必然是自己的責佐任, 何來的壓力??

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Re: 壓力下同老公大吵但他竟然

妳有個咁識諗老公我"鄧"妳開心, 我明白有時返開工媽咪, 忽然全職湊仔係有d唔習慣, 不過, 我相信自已湊住d小朋友係好d. 妳第時見到成果之後, 一定無後悔今日的決定.

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發表於 06-7-23 17:12 |只看該作者

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funghei,

i totally understand you. giving up a good job and staying home to be a full time mother is not easy. i share similar experience with you. i feel very frustrated sometimes n think it is really silly of me to give up my career. it's not just about a job or career, it's a complete change one's lifestyle. fortunately i have a supportive husband as well.

but my children are very happy that i stay home to be with them even though it means they have more chance to be scolded by me now.

take care and be a happy mother!

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冇錯當全職媽媽只後收入嘅轉變係大,但係你可以在家伴住bb成長,e份親子嘅關係係好難得....
我都係全職mama離家！

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你好嗎

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係呀,全職媽媽嘅老公都係好大壓力架,所以大家都要互相體諒

唔好點評我

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Re: 壓力下同老公大吵但他竟然

算喇，諗開D喇，自己親身湊小朋友系有壓力，但陪住巨地一路睇到好多第一次，都有安慰概。。。我以前未又系，份工幾風光人工又好成日扮靚靚周圍玩。。。而家，同舊同事行街D人淨系望我身邊D女仔，邊個叫我自己選擇做湊仔婆。。。真系有甘耐風流有甘耐折墮 :-(

少奶奶的身份，丫頭的命...

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Re: 壓力下同老公大吵但他竟然

你好嗎寫道:
係呀,全職媽媽嘅老公都係好大壓力架,所以大家都要互相體諒

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露絲

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發表於 06-7-24 02:22 |只看該作者

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Funghei,

I really understand what yours feeling, because I was an accountant before 2 years ago.

I found out what was my need and I found out my sons need me so much. So I resigned my job.

But the first month, I felt depression because I did not do any household work before, therefore when I handled I diid not know how to do. My sons did not listen to me, my husband does not understand me, no support and no people help me, therefore, I have try to give up, but at last I did not give up until 1 year I could accept the lifestyle, and I knew what was my way, I planned the following year planning.

So I totally use 2 years to adjust my sons' lifestyle and they both have change they are better than before. They love me so much, I also love them so much. Although I am not a perfect mother but at least I really use my heart to find out what they need.

Don't give up~~~

Some people told me that before, if we need to become a full time mother, we can not really concentrate to our son/daughter, we need have our social or we need to have some course, or may be if we like to surfing the net we do it....make us happy and funny, then we will not have more depression.

Hardworking~~~~

露絲

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Funghei

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發表於 06-7-24 07:14 |只看該作者

Re: 壓力下同老公大吵但他竟然

多謝各位媽咪的支持

昨晚我成功第一次cook 魚煮了一餐飯比仔仔他們吃~很慚愧我都成30yrs 人了第一次cook魚~接觸魚的時間感覺很核突

但仔仔表示我make the food好好味

老公昨晚night shift回家後好開心~~'

我的第一次成功了~~~我一定一定會堅持~~控制自己的情緒

各位媽媽努力~~大家支持大家~~

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繼續努力！

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Re: 壓力下同老公大吵但他竟然

恭喜你有個肯開解你
又肯為你分擔壓力既老公

咁你就唔好諗咁多比心機把仔仔湊大
有乜問題就直接同老公講
唔好再鬱係心裡面

Funghei 寫道:
我們家將面對很大的改變我決定重回家在中看2仔仔啦

其實我在這3個月的變化好大~從自己的理想的工作變回家中看仔~壓力令自己很不開心~~

今日終於爆發同老公吵了~~ 我離家出走了一會~~~之後死死地氣回家我說了很多自己的壓力比老公知回家當全職媽媽之後家中所有經濟的壓力~~湊仔教仔的壓力~~

老公竟然好平靜~表示佢知道大家面對的難題~~佢知道我放棄了一份我理想的工作是很不開心~~但大家的決定是為了仔仔的~~而他亦全心全意為家人仔仔的生活~~~

:-( :-( :-(
我聽了不停 :-( 我心中明白老公所受的壓力絕不比我少~但他竟然可以勇敢的面對~~~ 老公你好叻~~

我想我也要下定千千萬萬的決心~~~湊好對小仔仔~~