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複式洋房

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發表於 06-7-17 17:34 |只看該作者

再見亦是朋友?!

我同c6已經辦左離婚手續。
早前我爸入左院,亞女講左比佢知。
c6打尼找我,關心我亞爸。我同佢寒暄幾句便收線。
過左一個星期,又打尼問我,想唔想出新手機,佢地有員工優惠。
第2日,又打尼我mobile 2次,我冇reply佢。
第3日早上10點幾,又打尼我mobile度說 : 問我係唔係瞓緊攪,琴日打過尼找我。他星期二(即明天)約左亞女睇戲,想問我得唔得閒。
我答 : 唔去喇!便收線。

我同佢既距離,越尼越遠喇!所以越尼越唔想見佢。
只係想佢有定期比錢養個女,但又唔可以太硬咁話c6,怕太強硬叫佢冇咩唔好打尼找我,咁佢玩野時,真係一個仙都唔比就煩lor!真係茅盾!卻斷難斷,又委屈求存!


男爵府

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發表於 06-7-17 20:04 |只看該作者

Re: 再見亦是朋友?!

大人唔岩先離婚, 但有左小朋友, 既然已經行到呢一步, 有時可否委屈下, 當為個小朋友咪3人行囉, 都係一日半日, 個小朋友可能好開心; 大人黎講, 有時分開左可能仲易相處.


公爵府

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發表於 06-7-17 22:50 |只看該作者

Re: 再見亦是朋友?!

如果你地未結婚或者無仔女...當然唔需要再做朋友啦,但你地有個女女就好難亦無需要咁做


大宅

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4#
發表於 06-7-18 00:15 |只看該作者

Re: 再見亦是朋友?!

雖然你哋離左婚,佢唔係你老公,但佢阿女個Daddy,
咪睇阿女份上囉...你哋有問題都唔想個女唔開心吖.....
放開d la.....


複式洋房

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發表於 06-7-18 02:37 |只看該作者

Re: 再見亦是朋友?!

講真丫, 見返個c6冇咩問題丫, 當睇你個囡囡份上啦, 有一日half日既 family day 有咩唔好呀...你個囡囡都想一家三口出下街... 你好錫你囡囡ma? 錫既就要好好俾d開心既時光佢呀


複式洋房

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6#
發表於 06-7-18 09:48 |只看該作者

Re: 再見亦是朋友?!

其他我好憎佢,折磨左我幾年,我忍唔到先行尼一步!
咁仲有咩野可以做返朋友wor!之前5月底,我去奶奶度做節食飯,我眼尾都廢事望佢。
佢尼排做埋尼d野,都係想佢自己良心好過d姐!對佢自己既任性行為作出適當既付出!
而且佢之前同個女出街(即c6 + 亞女(14歲)),都有叫埋條女出尼!咁咪由得佢地3個扮family day lor!
而且亞女唔會好強迫我,例如同唔同佢老豆去街,或者之前我地離唔離婚好,亞女好釆都冇比壓力我!
而且唔知點解,我覺得佢越尼越醜樣!好唔想見佢!
今晚我打算會去我媽咪度食飯,見吓我爸媽好過!


大宅

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7#
發表於 06-7-18 14:42 |只看該作者

Re: 再見亦是朋友?!

Hi 無花果 ... May I ask how many years that you have been gone through for this "divorce procedure"? I have a big argument w my hubby last nite & i really can't stand him anymore.... in fact this is not the first time (i gave chance b4).. so i dun want to waste my time.. i packed my stuff last nite & went to my mum's place.... i dun know if i am correct or not....i have a child who is 3 yrs old... :-( :-(


複式洋房

積分: 290


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發表於 06-7-18 15:17 |只看該作者

Re: 再見亦是朋友?!

有時好視乎你急唔急攪手續,及懶唔懶攪手續!同埋想唔想用多d錢快快脆脆攪掂!

有d媽媽去家事法庭攪,好平,但可能會慢d。
而我係找律師攪,貴d,不過唔洗要走尼走去,我在5月中開始攪手續,我都係頭尾上左3次同一間律師樓,而家等張離婚証出,大約係今年年底12月啦!

有時做女人,忍到就忍,個個有小朋友既媽媽,都會為小朋友而比機會c6,但d c6就一d都唔珍惜。如果你忍唔到就唔好忍,無謂令你媽咪個女咁痛苦,不過有左小朋友,將來選男友或老公,要更小心,亦都要先理埋小朋友個感受先!什至預左單身都要冇悔!

你唔好哭喇!我以前都好似你咁,想起又哭,佢折磨緊我又哭。不過我而家比以前頭腦清醒,亦都冇為佢流一滴淚!
不過有時做回單身,會更加自由。不過我個人覺得至緊要女人有自己既工作會安全d!

唔好以為失婚等於咩都冇,我都係多得c6同我上左尼堂,先至知道,自己咁堅強!

你有咩詳細野,或傾計,可pm我都可以啊!


大宅

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發表於 06-7-19 10:44 |只看該作者

Re: 再見亦是朋友?!

Hi 無花果 thx for your comment....I will contact you when i have qs....:) may i ask have u got child?... i know i can be so free after divorce.. in fact i moved back to my own home & i feel a lot better....as i have so many things that wanted to do but i can't as i need to work at day time & look after my child after work .. but now... i can date my old frds... but my concern it's my child .. as i didn't take her w me as she is being looked after by my 99.. she is nice & nothing to do...


複式洋房

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發表於 06-7-19 15:30 |只看該作者

Re: 再見亦是朋友?!

monkeygirl :

我有一個14歲既女。
你而家搬左去你媽咪度,咁你3歲既囡囡由奶奶照顧?
你有冇做野?

各位 :

琴晚我返回我媽媽度食完飯,回家途中,我打去回家,睇吓亞女同佢老豆去完街未?
我說 : 亞女你回家喇!
亞女 : 我冇去
我說 : 你仲咩唔去啊?
亞女 : 我唔想去
我說 : 咁你同左你爸爸講未?
亞女 : 講左啊
我說 : 哦咁就ok啊!

唔知係唔係亞女怕c6叫埋條女出尼呢?


大宅

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發表於 06-7-19 16:07 |只看該作者

Re: 再見亦是朋友?!

無花果
我想問下你係雙方面同意離婚還是單方面攪的,其實我想知如果單方面攪會唔會慢D同麻煩D?
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複式洋房

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發表於 06-7-19 16:25 |只看該作者

Re: 再見亦是朋友?!

Melmel2004 寫道:
無花果
我想問下你係雙方面同意離婚還是單方面攪的,其實我想知如果單方面攪會唔會慢D同麻煩D?


我個case係,我忍唔住在年幾前趕佢走,未知佢有女人,近期,佢認左好耐之前有女人,我咪na na聲同佢攪離婚。其實我地分開左只有年幾,但如果雙方同意,就可以夾口工,話同律師講已分開左夠2年。基本上,律師都會信你地口講。
我地係雙方面同意,所以就快d!
單方面可以真係麻煩d,你最好問問律師,好多間都肯答人尼d問題啊!


大宅

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發表於 06-7-19 17:37 |只看該作者

Re: 再見亦是朋友?!

唔該晒...因為我想自己申請,因我c6趕都唔走,佢d行為我冇晒佢符,一言難盡,所以我要計劃一下
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大宅

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發表於 06-7-19 17:41 |只看該作者

Re: 再見亦是朋友?!

無花果...yes.. i moved back to my mum's place... & my child is being looked after by my 99... luckily i have a perm job.... ...These days i feel so relax.. happy.. (no burden at all)..but when i think about my girl... i miss her so much :-( :-( .. when i think about c6.. no feeling at all...when i see his face.. i feel so stupid that i married to him...


複式洋房

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發表於 06-7-19 18:01 |只看該作者

Re: 再見亦是朋友?!

Melmel2004 寫道:
唔該晒...因為我想自己申請,因我c6趕都唔走,佢d行為我冇晒佢符,一言難盡,所以我要計劃一下


唔洗客氣!咁你不如問問律師,如果單方面攪離婚,要幾耐。
仲有你地層樓係買定租。有幾多小朋友,你有冇工作?
佢而家趕唔走,咁你自己就要好好保護自己,冇咩事,要識得大聲叫"唔好"!


複式洋房

積分: 290


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發表於 06-7-19 18:03 |只看該作者

Re: 再見亦是朋友?!

MonkeyGirl 寫道:
無花果...yes.. i moved back to my mum's place... & my child is being looked after by my 99... luckily i have a perm job.... ...These days i feel so relax.. happy.. (no burden at all)..but when i think about my girl... i miss her so much :-( :-( .. when i think about c6.. no feeling at all...when i see his face.. i feel so stupid that i married to him...


唔緊要!至緊要識除下個包袱!
但點解你唔要返個女呢?仔女係自己生既,當然要取回。更何況係同你自己同一性別!將來大家會更close。

haha....我同你既feeling一樣,既自由,亦覺得c6好醜樣!


大宅

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發表於 06-7-20 12:56 |只看該作者

Re: 再見亦是朋友?!

Hi 無花果...
c6 called me last nite & apologized... he said he would change this time & he meant it...asked me to trust him one more time...(our argument is not related to any girls)... actually when he is fine...he is really good but when he is angry or in bad mood - he will become another person...he said he would try to keep patient.... ..& i told him clearly that it is the last time...i won't give him a 2nd chance.


複式洋房

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發表於 06-7-20 13:07 |只看該作者

Re: 再見亦是朋友?!

monkeygirl :
咁你為咩事同C6嘈,而去左你媽度住?
男人.....至怕叫雞、溝女、CARD數及難賭!
唔知你C6衰邊樣呢?


大宅

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發表於 06-7-20 13:20 |只看該作者

Re: 再見亦是朋友?!

無花果...none of the above.. it's his bloody性格 好火爆


複式洋房

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發表於 06-7-20 14:08 |只看該作者

Re: 再見亦是朋友?!

MonkeyGirl 寫道:
無花果...none of the above.. it's his bloody性格 好火爆


咁你嫁你C6時,都知佢性格係咁架!但我個人覺得,未至要去到尼個地步WOR! ?-(

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