我覺得是因人而異, 我之前的工人21-23歲, 依家果個30-32歲, both開始都唔同我的小孩玩, most of the time is pretent doing some work. after a few meetings & 清楚講明同小孩玩好重要, why she's here is all because of the kid........ finally they understood & will play with him somtime.
其實每日屋企的cleaning & cooking job有限, she has a lot of spare time, so she should be free to play with the kids. I even taugh the maid what kind of games & how to play with my kid to lead them to have good communication.............
It's always hard in the beginning. Don't give up. Give her the schedule & be sure she can finish her work on schedule. I guess you won't want to see a dirty house after all.
If for bun bun better to get a oversea one, coz' the local ones already known HK well.