我個bun bun 來3 個星期（之前在香港做過十年）,我要佢照顧我個bb (10個月大). 佢household work and cooking is very good ( 自動波，唔洗叫都做家務）. 手腳乾淨. 不會浪費水電和食物.不會亂開電視. seems good. but some drawbacks:-
1/ 對bb不細心, 冇耐性
2/只會make sure bb安全,但不會同他玩. e.g. she sits on the sofa or 窗台 (holding my dog!),然後由得我個仔自己在地下玩，不會陪他玩
3/ 唔仲意抱我個仔和同佢玩, 但會準時餵奶和粥
4/有自己一套,不會跟time table
she has good and bad sides, if you were me, what will u do? (I asked her several times that she needs to give good care and key focus on my baby, including holding him and playing to him) She just said yes but not action.
Your bun bun is exactly the same as my bun bun. She's smart, cooks well and performs the housework dutifully. She doesn't hate my baby but she isn't very very fond of him as well. Maybe she (and your bun bun) just doesn't like babies. I'm also having a headache coz' of this. :cry:
My yan yan is exactly opposite. She cannot cook at all and she can only finish housework partially every day. She has really really short term memory - maybe only last for 3 secs then, she will totally forget what I've said. I'm like her personal assistant now, as I need to remind her what to do everday. However, she likes my son alot and likes to spend time to play with him (maybe that way, she thinks she can do less housework each day). Sometimes I even think she likes my baby too much... But her working style & behaviour is really giving me a headache...
Lulube was born weighing 3.2 kg
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