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發表於 06-12-28 19:13 |只看該作者

第日你會點分你既遺產?

你如果有多過一個仔女,有冇諗過會點分? 平均分比所有仔女?定係有需要既會比多d?定係錫既(或抵錫既)比多d? 咁d孫又有冇份分呢?都係平均分?人人有份??定係按咩準則呢??會唔會同一輩份,出現不公平現象??

可能我個人比較重原則,我覺得平均分好似好d.想知道吓其他人既睇法.

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發表於 06-12-28 20:18 |只看該作者

Re: 第日你會點分你既遺產?

That's exactly how you define "equal".

I personally intended to distribute according to my kids' need. So, the more poor will have the more and try to balnace their assets to "equal". If the richer finds not equal to him/her. I think he/she could have his way to get more and that's why he/she would become richer.

You can also make reference to the government's taxation policy, that's the more you gain and pay more, if you earn less then pay less, that's the wau govt. define "equal".

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發表於 06-12-28 20:45 |只看該作者

Re: 第日你會點分你既遺產?

But did you ever think why one is poorer than the other?? I brought them up exactly the same way. Same education, same treatment but why one is better off than the other??? May be it's the spending/saving habit, may be it's hard luck. And how can you tell who is better off than the other. Just from their appearance? That may not reflect the truth. From their salary, they may not even tell you...

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發表於 06-12-28 21:05 |只看該作者

Re: 第日你會點分你既遺產?

唔係應該分曬俾另一半咩?

如果我有多過一個的話,我估會俾曬個大女
因為我估我會鍾意大女多d, 最好的待遇一定俾佢先
至於公唔公平就唔會理啦~ 想俾就俾lor, 唔會做d自己唔鍾意的決定

We need not worryas we are no longer two, but one flesh,and God will make with the test a way out of it, so that we may be able to go through it.

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發表於 06-12-28 23:39 |只看該作者

Re: 第日你會點分你既遺產?

yywhk 寫道:
But did you ever think why one is poorer than the other?? I brought them up exactly the same way. Same education, same treatment but why one is better off than the other??? May be it's the spending/saving habit, may be it's hard luck. And how can you tell who is better off than the other. Just from their appearance? That may not reflect the truth. From their salary, they may not even tell you...

Yes, as what you said, there were many reasons that affect the fate of your kids, but there will be one phoenomeon, either one is better.

So my principle to equality is to help the weaker one no matter why he/she is weak. Of course, if the weaker has bad habit/saving mode will affect my disposal. However, if this is due to weaker competent in working, then my principle will remain unchange, do you agree?

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發表於 06-12-29 00:55 |只看該作者

Re: 第日你會點分你既遺產?

How about a doctor and a teacher? ... would you give a bigger percentage to the teacher because normally a doctor makes much more money than a teacher.

However, if the doctor has 5 children and her wife is not working. And you know he is sponsoring some Oxfam children on regular basis. The family goes for vacation every year ... to the mainland China only. The younger children are wearing mainly the old clothes from the older children, using the old school bags, books etc.......... And the teacher has no children. This couple are able to go Europe from time to time because they have no family burden. In fact, the d-in-law is chasing after the luxurious items.

So .. in terms of competency in making money... the doctor seems deserve for a smaller portion. But taking into consideration of other factors... should I have a second thought?

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發表於 06-12-29 00:59 |只看該作者

Re: 第日你會點分你既遺產?

做細嗰個咪好慘???咁偏心???

nickx2 寫道:
唔係應該分曬俾另一半咩?
如果我有多過一個的話,我估會俾曬個大女
因為我估我會鍾意大女多d, 最好的待遇一定俾佢先
至於公唔公平就唔會理啦~ 想俾就俾lor, 唔會做d自己唔鍾意的決定

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發表於 06-12-29 01:56 |只看該作者

Re: 第日你會點分你既遺產?

我有樓就會比個仔, 男人就算無$都要有個竇;
我d$就會留比個女, 女人點都要有個$係身!

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發表於 06-12-29 10:18 |只看該作者

Re: 第日你會點分你既遺產?

睇下個女生吾生性啦, 如果吾生性, 我會俾晒老公, 因為個女有咩事佢吾會吾理個女, 如果個女吾識理財, 一陣就散左啦, 如果女都生性, e.g300萬, 我會俾100個女, 樓同200俾個老公, 因為女大左自己有能力搵錢, 而老公到時都老啦, 起碼老左都要有個錢係身, 除非到時覺得佢好Q衰,

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發表於 06-12-29 12:30 |只看該作者

Re: 第日你會點分你既遺產?

yywhk 寫道:
How about a doctor and a teacher? ... would you give a bigger percentage to the teacher because normally a doctor makes much more money than a teacher.

However, if the doctor has 5 children and her wife is not working. And you know he is sponsoring some Oxfam children on regular basis. The family goes for vacation every year ... to the mainland China only. The younger children are wearing mainly the old clothes from the older children, using the old school bags, books etc.......... And the teacher has no children. This couple are able to go Europe from time to time because they have no family burden. In fact, the d-in-law is chasing after the luxurious items.

So .. in terms of competency in making money... the doctor seems deserve for a smaller portion. But taking into consideration of other factors... should I have a second thought?

Yes, we should always have a second thought. I think my principle is still "the needy need/have much". Of course, the way to distribute is a matter of fact according to every case. But equally distribute may not be my intension. I tell you, my father won a mark 6 last year, he equally distributed some of his prize money to us(4 brothers). I think he was right....but he didn't take into account of our financial situations. (Surprisingly, this proposal was made by me!!!) So, it is always a difficult thing to decide.

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