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發表於 13-9-16 06:04 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

話說今日同個仔去book fair。係多人，但唔係超多人。又冇話俾錢條line 係邊到開始，我同個仔搵緊。個工作人員同我講\"The line starts at the back.\"咁見到一家人咪排佢後面law。跟住聽到個人大大聲話: that lady didnt stay in line and trying to jump. 喺一張長枱咁既距離。即刻

嘩！我即爆佢。I am very offended! Don\'t talk about me in front of me. You don\'t have clear signs where the line is. I do understand English, you know?!

有冇搞錯，呢度加州呀c9!

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發表於 13-9-16 06:30 |只看該作者

回覆：好嬲！我識英文

純呻！呻完舒服晒！

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發表於 13-9-16 06:33 |只看該作者

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咩人出聲呀？白人？

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發表於 13-9-16 06:54 |只看該作者

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係呀！白人嬋嬋。我又著得樣衰。但咩人都好，唔應該咁冇禮貌！

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佢好地地話你聽隊尾響邊都正常，
一開口就話人打尖。。。
唔港勞氣，呢d人，原世界都欠咗佢嘅

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發表於 13-9-16 09:14 |只看該作者

Don't worry about people like that and there's a reason he/she work there ...

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發表於 13-9-16 11:10 |只看該作者

回覆：好嬲！我識英文

喺嗰一刻我爆勞氣。可能係自己好攰。Super mom 唔易做，都唔知撐到幾耐。

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發表於 13-9-16 13:35 |只看該作者

D人係咁架，你話冇歧視就假，試過我老公揸車接我放工，前面半條街有架車急停十字路口，
車頭出晒白煙，原來有另一架車衝紅燈，佢唔停一定撞到，
我老公將架車停埋一邊就走去幫手，主動同我地前面架車司機講，
佢可以做証人，當時我地係綠燈仲要落緊斜路，個司機係唐人，
英文一般，而衝紅燈司機係拉丁裔，路邊有個白人背向女人就同我老公講，
話佢唐人幫唐人，佢見到個唐人司機唔停就真，但當時個女人企嘅地方係背向枝交通燈，
又離路口成個街口，我老公叫佢收聲，最後我老公主動幫個唐人司機打去保險公司講件事。

最近一次仲勞氣，我同個女入去一間港式餐廳食嘢，見有人企出面，
但多數係幾個人，咁我見到有一張檯冇人坐，於是問個老闆兩個人坐呢度得嗎？
點知有個阿嬋就話我唔排隊，我同佢講：我係行入嚟問老闆，
張檯冇人坐唔坐得，你自己唔問唔關我事。佢仲B呢巴啦咁嘈，
個老闆就話佢：後面仲有一張空嘅，係我叫佢地坐，你唔駛鬧人。
個女人嘅老公全程一舊飯咁唔敢出聲，我同個女食完都費事理佢。

花旗太太生活在花旗國，留意時差，你問我未必即時答到。

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發表於 13-9-16 13:51 |只看該作者

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咪係！我嗰區係有好多唔識英文既韓人FTM. 好多都怕咗d 白人，因佢唔識回應。我個大仔係asperger，有時好似ADHD咁既行為。湊兩個再返工，仲要C6返shift。我好多時夜晚同weekend 就好似single mom咁。我勁唔夠瞓，所以躁狂症發作。

我開口話I am very offended時佢呆一呆。look.... There are many American born Chinese, Korean, japanese架，一口native english架，佢都傻既，咁大聲。

Oh... She wasn\'t even the librarian. She was only a volunteer for the event. 如果佢下次去做health fair義工，會唔會又白鴿眼我，以為我來US搵著數呢？

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發表於 13-9-16 14:53 |只看該作者

lottieclee,

understood how hard it is for u to feel like a single mom! sometimes i feel the same too as my husband usually takes care of my older one (taking him for activities and playdates, etc.) while i usually stay home taking care of my 1-yr-old.

do u have at least a p/t helper for cooking and housework, etc.?

i have a friend who works in the hospital and sometimes works for night shift or weekend. they hired another nanny again within a month after they let go the previous nanny.

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發表於 13-9-16 23:11 |只看該作者

唔知係唔係東岸同西岸真係有分別, 我呢邊歧視無咁嚴重, 黎左咁來都無試過俾人歧視...... (@_@)

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發表於 13-9-17 02:13 |只看該作者

BossCatCat 發表於 13-9-16 07:11
唔知係唔係東岸同西岸真係有分別, 我呢邊歧視無咁嚴重, 黎左咁來都無試過俾人歧視...... (@_@) ...

冇計架，要多謝我地偉大祖國同胞，好多大陸人嚟到又呃福利又冇禮貌，
討人厭唔出奇，而且老一輩老外大部份都比較封閉，成日以為自己好優越。

花旗太太生活在花旗國，留意時差，你問我未必即時答到。

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I have 2 jobs: my regular job that pays well, and the second job called "mom" that the pay sucks! I get up at 5am and by the time I get the kids to bed, do some chores, just to keep the house sort of presentable, it's 10:30pm.

I do have cleaners to come to the house once a week to clean. I can no longer afford a live-in nanny because both children are in school. I don't even hire babysitters to do date nights anymore cuz my kids wont go to bed until I am home.

That's why I get ticked off so easily yesterday! These ppl were pushing my limits!

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lottieclee 發表於 13-9-17 03:55
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I have 2 jobs: my regular job that pays well, and the second job called "mom" ...

pay? 貼錢打工... XD here you go .. some laugh for you ... enjoy the motherhood ;)

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發表於 13-9-17 14:42 |只看該作者

lottieclee,

u don't really need a live-in or full-time nanny since both your kids are in school! maybe u can consider hiring a p/t helper to come at least 2 to 3 days a week to help cooking for dinner and doing laundry. only my 2 cents!
don't know how expensive it is to hire a p/t helper in your area .... in my area, it's about $15-$20/hr if coming 4-5 days/week and $18-$25/hr if coming 1-3 days/week.

you are super as you can handle 2 jobs!
i know i can't and that's why i decided not to work since my older kid was born, although everybody said how stupid i am after having studied for so many years and got a nice-pay job before! the worst part is nobody in my family (including my husband and my older kid; younger kid is too young to know) even appreciate me at all!

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