my ex-yan didn't let me see her went out on holiday because
1) sexy looking
2) strong make up (like monkey pat pat)
3) gel her hair like E.T.
The most important is she stole my clothes & shoes. Sometimes she will take back the clothes after wearing but sometimes never return. (I knew this when I fired her) When I fired her & she packed her belonging, I saw her photo & most of the photo was she wearing my clothes, shoes & long boot. Terrible ! I kept some photos as evidence.