"我同老公都有兄弟姊妹, 唔算多, 不過有人陪住一齊長大, 玩都多個伴. ...所以我地都打算生多個, 咁我地百年xx之後, 囝囝都仲有親人, 唔會孤獨".......I agree very much, this is also what my husband and I thought. We will take action soon , as I'm not young lu.....
I've 1 girl (2Y3M) & 1 boy (9M), differ 1.5yrs. Coz we're not young and 2-kids family is ideal...they can play, learn, grow up and share. Instead of thinking too much on our finance and kids' education, we decided to hv 2nd kid when my girl was 10M old. Now, my girl is study 1/2 day nursery and boy is taken care by philphil, looks ok, but daily schedule is really tight!! It makes us laugh when my girl hugs/kisses my boy, and he tries to grasp sister's toys, etc....
So, my advice...time paid to kids is more precious and significant than money paid on them.