gabchan 寫道:
What happen if it is your father and mother in law who are always yelling and speaking loudly? What can be done?[quote]
renren 寫道:
gabchan,
我每日都遇到呢個問題,每次佢地講野好大聲,我會叫先生,由佢出口要佢父母細聲d講野,唔好係度嘈生晒,尤其我家62係野蠻民族,一話佢就發老脾,所以要避免同佢正面沖突,由先生做衰人最好,始終係佢地個仔話佢地,條氣順d.如果新抱出聲,就會話有乜資格話佢. 不過日日遇到呢d咁o既事,生活都過得唔開心,所以打算搬開住.[quote]
gabchan 寫道:
What happen if it is your father and mother in law who are always yelling and speaking loudly? What can be done?[quote]
Sammiy 寫道:
如果是好親既親戚 / 朋友:
我會即時說:小朋友唔可以無禮貌架！應該要xxxx.
然後解釋被小朋友知,點解.....
但千祈唔可以說<沒家教>這個字.
如果唔熟親戚 / 朋友:
我會捉住自己小朋友細聲在耳邊說同解釋.
因為唔知道人哋父母是否介意,不想有唔開心事情發生.
utopian 寫道:
如果即時教,應該點樣教導小朋友,又不會令該親戚難堪?
還是應該之後等親戚不在場時才教,會否太遲?
想請教各位媽咪!你地知,小朋友學嘢好快,尤其是學壞!!
呢d系我既經驗.....
我會即時阻止佢,叫佢吾好做,然後細細聲同個仔行埋一邊講清楚呢d野吾可以做,話俾佢知人地小朋友做既野吾一定係岩,吾一定可以做,如果我囝囝本身係年紀大過嗰位小朋友既話,我就會話,你係哥哥黎,弟弟仲細做錯事,你就吾好錯埋一份,要教弟弟呢d事吾可以做,叫佢幫手教弟弟...我都係咁教個仔,個仔都肯聽既,斷估人地父母都吾會覺得太難受卦...咁當然,你都吾好俾任何面色俾人地睇,梗係吾可以黑口啦...我相信無父母係吾教自己小朋友既,咁小朋友都係獨立個體黎,教同埋有無效基本上都係兩回事黎...否則都吾會有咁多乜乜兒童心理學家走出黎教父母教仔/training小朋友既行為情緒啦.所以教好自己小朋友,但又吾好令人地父母難受就ok架喇(可能人地父母睇到自己仔女咁曳咁失控已經夠緊張夠難受&無面架喇..)!好似我隔離屋師奶咁,早前佢同前夫生嗰個仔成日黎我屋企同我個仔玩,又係成日借d二兜頭打我個仔,仲要講大話話係我個仔打佢(頂!成塊鏡反射到俾我見到哂,仲要係得我個仔痛到大叫喊,仲有得呃咩!),我都係死忍,嗰陣我都有d覺得係隔離屋師奶縱容個仔咁做架!因為都見佢吾出聲話仔,事後幾個月後,隔離屋師奶個前夫吾俾個仔黎佢屋企見佢,隔離屋師奶同我呻時都呻埋個仔好難教,都同我道歉仲話知我忍得好辛苦,咁我都憑良心話係佢個仔曳啫,吾係佢無教囉!係吾教,個仔點曳都吾會咁吾開心咁勞氣啦!utopian 寫道:
如果即時教,應該點樣教導小朋友,又不會令該親戚難堪?
還是應該之後等親戚不在場時才教,會否太遲?
想請教各位媽咪!你地知,小朋友學嘢好快,尤其是學壞!!
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