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ah-ta


大宅

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發表於 07-4-23 14:14 |只看該作者

急問 -- 係我唔好定工人唔好呀？

工人做左３個月，係親戚的bun介紹的．．

她之前在新加坡做過，之後番去結婚生ｂｂ，再來ｈｋ（第１次）做．

開頭都ｏｋ，因為做咩都自動波，我都唔駛同他講，對ｂｂ都ｏｋ又細心，同他講的野都有做（在我面前，我地番左工就唔知）．．不過個幾月左右，開始有少少唔ｌｉｋｅ她，因為她在ｂｂ喊的時候語氣會重同大聲，覺得她無咩耐性，不過好多人都叫我唔好炒她，因為她都ｏｋ，而且都唔知換個好唔好．．．

不過最近她開始有ｄ問題，好似成日都唔開心，問她又話無野．．．同埋發現她係鍾意估人做咩同諗咩．．．．有ｄ野話他（好聲好氣個種）她都好似唔ｌｉｋｅ咁．．．

到今朝我２點幾起身，見她開緊奶，ｂｂ仲在床無喊．．．我就問他點解開奶，好話見ｂｂ醒左同食手，而且又係食奶時間，咁我就話你等他喊先餵啦．．．我講完就去ｔｏｉｌｅｔ，出到來他走左去ｓｌｅｅｐ，支奶暖住．．．咁我就叫他出房問番她係唔係一直都係咁餵ｂｂ，我同他講因為有晚ｂｂ第２朝６點幾先食，但有時又２點幾都食．．．她就答我因為６點幾個日係她無醒．．．而平時如果夜晚ｂｂ醒食手就俾奶．．．咁ｏｋ啦，好去番訓．．．隔左無耐，ｂｂ真係喊，咁就起身餵她啦．．．．無野再發生．．．

到今朝，在睡覺中聽到ｂｂ喊，一出來她抱住ｂｂ．．我就問她食左奶未．．．好話未，咁我就即係洗手（因為我想習慣ｂｂ每朝第１餐前幫他洗口），好就幫ｂｂ換片，但阿ｂ就喊得好大聲．．．我就問他點解喊得咁慘．．（平時好少朝早會咁）．．之後她對住阿ｂ講句”very hungry ar".....
聽到ｌｅｅ句我個心都離埋．．我覺得他係特登等ｂｂ喊得咁勁囉．．．

我真係好驚呀．．．都唔知點好．．．我雖然成日都叫他要留意ｌｅｅ樣留意個樣，但係自問我地對她都唔差，又買野俾她食，又叫她日頭ｂｂ訓她又去訓．．又送公仔俾她個女．．．我仲同她講，我都知自己麻煩，但係想她明白做媽咪就一定緊張架啦．．．．

你地話我知其實係唔係我話得好太多唔好呢？ :-( :-( :-(
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Charlotte_mom


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發表於 07-4-23 14:37 |只看該作者

Re: 急問 -- 係我唔好定工人唔好呀？

得罪講句, 我覺得你有d過分緊張lor......點解你會覺得"他係特登等ｂｂ喊得咁勁"
其實工人夜晚keep住醒, bb無喊, 只係食手, 佢都醒左去睇下佢什至開奶(開完奶仲要掃風, 攪攪下又大半個鐘架喇), 個工人都算係咁, bb醒左, 工人想順便餵奶, 餵完大家有覺好訓, 亦無可口非........除非你覺得係時候戒夜奶, 咁可以同個工人商量下
如果工人晚晚都要湊bb, 日抖又要繼續做, 真係幾辛苦, 你又難怪佢有時會炆憎.........況且, 老實講句, bb晚晚跟工人訓, 耐左會唔痴父母架! 其實你個工人睇黎都唔係差姐.......可以既話, 自己可以偶然湊下夜晚, 俾工人好好休息一下, 自己又可以親子一下, 你真係關心佢, 佢都識做既! (你估搵個好工人, 又肯overnight湊bb, 咁容易咩!)
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fion2504


大宅

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3#
發表於 07-4-23 14:55 |只看該作者

Re: 急問 -- 係我唔好定工人唔好呀？

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小叭係06年12月5日出世時重3.23kgs,1個月4.55kgs,2個月6.40kgs,3個月7.72kgs,4個月8.20kgs,5個月8.80kgs, 6個月10.00kgs, 7個月9.55kgs, 8個月10.00kgs, 9個月10.16kgs, 10個月10.45kgs, 11個月10.91kgs
(4個月第一次反身, 5個月坐, 8個半月爬, 9個半月出牙(上面兩只),10個月出牙(上面兩只)12個月7只牙, 11.81 kgs

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4個半月轉身, 5個月識坐, 7個半月出第一只牙(下面)
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ah-ta


大宅

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4#
發表於 07-4-23 15:16 |只看該作者

Re: 急問 -- 係我唔好定工人唔好呀？

charlotte_mom.,

我有咁覺得因為她係講的語氣同埋好當時的表情係好唔妥的樣...

我當然知道湊b辛苦啦,所以先叫她唔駛做家務...夜晚叫她早d訓,好似早排bb成日3點幾先訓,我地都叫她食完飯沖完涼就去訓,我地湊到3點先她接力....

講真我都驚bb唔跟我啦,但唔通我日頭要番工仲頂全日呀....


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Charlotte_mom


王國長老

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畀面勳章 好媽媽勳章 醒目開學勳章 2011精緻種植勳章 環保接龍勳章 大廚勳章 王國長老 BK猜猜猜慶中秋 BK Milk勳章


5#
發表於 07-4-23 15:24 |只看該作者

Re: 急問 -- 係我唔好定工人唔好呀？

um.......即係你覺得佢寸你.........
咁如果3點幾先接力, 你地都已經好錫住佢喇wor......講真, 知道有newborn, 佢都預左份工辛苦架啦(所以好多條件好d都唔肯做 )
哎, 清官難審家庭事 :mrgreen: 如果你覺得佢工作能力仲ok既, 都要忍下架喇(香港幾多家庭, 為左要個可靠工人湊細路, 默默地受氣.......), 佢湊得掂個b......忍下佢lor!
不過, 真架, 剛做心父母, 樣樣都總緊張d....有時over左都唔覺, 總之凡事都要睇開d啦!
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ah-ta


大宅

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發表於 07-4-23 15:46 |只看該作者

Re: 急問 -- 係我唔好定工人唔好呀？

唉...我都係驚自己太過份,亦都好明白要求人的係要受下氣架啦...所以有d野都唔會話他. 不過你知啦.唔在屋企,又得她一個....所以擔心她咁的情緒會對bb唔好,驚她對bb不利...所以先想聽下你地意見...
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qu88


民房

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7#
發表於 07-4-23 16:49 |只看該作者

Re: 急問 -- 係我唔好定工人唔好呀？

我夜晚餵奶自己湊，因同工人對話很麻煩，永遠都做得不好．因我已換到第四個工人了．
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ah-ta


大宅

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發表於 07-4-23 16:52 |只看該作者

Re: 急問 -- 係我唔好定工人唔好呀？

qu88,

你幾耐換4個呀? 咁你駛唔駛返工架? 換工人bb可以適應嗎?
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qu88


民房

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9#
發表於 07-4-23 17:06 |只看該作者

Re: 急問 -- 係我唔好定工人唔好呀？

我要返工full time，第一個工人我６�０５抄了，第二，工人在１�０６抄了，第三者工人在９�０６又抄走了，現在是用緊第四個工人．
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winghw


大宅

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10#
發表於 07-4-23 17:12 |只看該作者

Re: 急問 -- 係我唔好定工人唔好呀？

ah-ta：同你分享下我既經歷喇。那時我生佐BB出院，發現工人好唔掂，我打俾agent投訴，跟住agent話有個很有經驗湊newborn既完約工人，我打俾佢個僱主，個僱主非常好人，帶個工人來我家見我。於是我炒工人，請佐佢。來到初期一切非常好，湊BB非常有經驗，乾淨。我對佢工作非常滿意。但係，慢慢我就發現佢性格難頂，不聽指示，有自己一套。最大問題就係多疑，情緒化，會突然黑面，問佢就俾晦氣說話我聽。我每天回家，就擔心佢那天心情好唔好，會唔會黑面。我忍佐佢足足一年。有一天，佢又冇喇喇發我脾氣，話我一家人經常話佢臭。我很愕然，我最滿意就係佢非常衛生，我點會話佢臭。佢居然答我：我知道，我去圖書館查過字典，我知道你地咁講我。我明白佢根本係迫我炒佢。佢居然答我："up to you." 最後我非常氣奮，炒佐佢。
為佐呢個人，我真的很傷心，你知道我地一家這一年如何待佢嗎？首先，佢經常話個女大使，冇錢。每次個女要交學費，就向我借糧。我驚佢因為個女冇心機，我每次都借俾佢。第二：做佐4個月，就話老公有第二女人，要馬上請假返菲律賓。我又俾佢。仲幫佢買機票，借埋＄3000俾佢。個個當時都話我傻既。好彩佢都有返來。第三：佢年紀43，經常病，我怕佢辛苦，每早5：45起身，自己用電飯煲煲粥仔俾BB，就係想俾佢休息多D。星期日，我地好似返工咁6：30起床幫BB換片餵奶，佢就會睡到8點然後放假出街。我地仲會做晒所有家務，唔會話留返D野俾佢回來做。人人話我請佐個奶奶返屋企多個請佐個工人。但我都忍佢，只因為，佢湊到我BB肥肥白白。但結果，佢都係咁對我。我就係咁樣俾佢食住足足一年，我真後悔炒得佢遲。我懷疑佢係更年期。

如果你既工人真係情緒有問題，真係唔好忍佢了。你再觀察佢會唔會黑面。我既教訓係，受佢氣係冇用既。

ah-ta 寫道:
唉...我都係驚自己太過份,亦都好明白要求人的係要受下氣架啦...所以有d野都唔會話他. 不過你知啦.唔在屋企,又得她一個....所以擔心她咁的情緒會對bb唔好,驚她對bb不利...所以先想聽下你地意見...
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winghw


大宅

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發表於 07-4-23 17:16 |只看該作者

Re: 急問 -- 係我唔好定工人唔好呀？

唉！我都第四個了。暫時呢個還幾好。希望佢唔會又有其他問題喇。
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ampm


複式洋房

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12#
發表於 07-4-23 17:16 |只看該作者

Re: 急問 -- 係我唔好定工人唔好呀？

ah-ta,

你請得bun既就要預左佢地係有性格的,你既bun如果唔係同你鬥悔氣既,就係唔識得轉灣,我諗你要從新教佢點餵奶,唔係單係靠睇鐘同bb食手就走去餵奶的,我以前都係等我個女哭先餵奶的,食手唔係代表佢肚餓喎.
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mkwok


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發表於 07-4-23 17:27 |只看該作者

Re: 急問 -- 係我唔好定工人唔好呀？

qu88,

咁您咪要比回程機票呀！需吾需要比1個月錢比佢地走呀！

qu88 寫道:
我要返工full time，第一個工人我６�０５抄了，第二，工人在１�０６抄了，第三者工人在９�０６又抄走了，現在是用緊第四個工人．
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ah-ta


大宅

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發表於 07-4-23 17:34 |只看該作者

Re: 急問 -- 係我唔好定工人唔好呀？

唉,好醜講句我真係唔係好識湊bb,所以都唔知我教她個套right唔right....之前都試過他同我個fd的maid講係我教他喊就俾奶她食....

講真我聽到好r頭,因為我都無講過...而且初頭我個b係輕磅成日訓食少少就訓,又食人奶...咁當然好易食得密啦...

平時飲開4安..之後有晚餵她飲5安...我問她,她話想她訓耐d...咁ok啦....夜晚多d無問題啦, 點知第2日又係餵她飲5安奶, 我就問她, 她話我個fd的工人教她, 同埋個bun話可以食到.... 之後我就同她講bb咁易嘔, 唔好咁急進....咁她就話我想bb飲5安....我勁r頭....之後諗諗下先記得之前有晚叫他開5安...我就同她講我個次係想bb訓耐d先開咁多....

好成日將自己諗的野就當我想她做的野...真係唉....
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芝達


男爵府

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15#
發表於 07-4-23 18:40 |只看該作者

Re: 急問 -- 係我唔好定工人唔好呀？

其實你bb幾大？係咪可以戒夜奶呀？
我覺得你好似有少少太緊張，其實等bb喊先餵夜奶冇乜問題
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tinker


複式洋房

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16#
發表於 07-4-23 19:08 |只看該作者

Re: 急問 -- 係我唔好定工人唔好呀？

其實你不用太緊張，可能你的工人不太肯定你的想法，所以有些混亂，若想戒夜奶的話，晚上可等bb哭才開奶。但在日頭就算bb不哭，只要是時候餵的話，也可以餵。我的bb就快7個月，我初時亦很緊張，但記緊將指示說明清楚，不要讓工人自己決定。
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ah-ta


大宅

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17#
發表於 07-4-23 22:03 |只看該作者

Re: 急問 -- 係我唔好定工人唔好呀？

芝達,

i think you have misunderstand my meaning.... she prepared the milk when bb just suck her finger and not crying... so i asked her to feed her when bb cried... coz this can really know she was ungry or not....

actually, my bb is very easy to vomit. besides, she will still eating even she cannot take in anymore... (seems doesn't know how to stop),..... so i was very afraid that she gave her so much suddenly and bb will vomit also....

Yes la.. i want to know how to prevent bb from sucking her hands... my mom suggested me to put "white flower oil" on her hands... but i'm afraid la...
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ah-ta


大宅

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發表於 07-4-23 22:05 |只看該作者

Re: 急問 -- 係我唔好定工人唔好呀？

tinker,

it's true that i'm really very very very nervous... i also tell her what to do and remind her to ask me if she don't understand or she doesn't know...

however, it seems that she don't like to ask but just guess what i think.... :-( :-(
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cat_house


大宅

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19#
發表於 07-4-23 23:22 |只看該作者

Re: 急問 -- 係我唔好定工人唔好呀？

ah-ta,
if you take care the baby at night, would you feel more easy? As you just become a mother, it is normal that you are nervous about everything. For every little details, you'd like the maid to read your mind. I think, if it is possible, you may better take care the baby yourself at night until she gave up night feeding. That it would be easier for you to give instruction to your maid as it would be more straight forward.
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tinker


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20#
發表於 07-4-23 23:34 |只看該作者

Re: 急問 -- 係我唔好定工人唔好呀？

Yr maid may think she is experienced and you're not and so she likes to decide on her own without consulting you. My maid is also the same. Then I told her in a stern face that I'm my son's mum and she must not make decisions by herself. She has to ask for my permission first before making any decision. Then she dares not make decisions by herself.

About the baby's feeding, the vomiting may be due to an incorrect way to burp the baby. If the baby has burped and he still vomits a lot, then you'd better consult the doctor. If you set a maximum amount, say 4 oz, then ask yr maid to stick to that amount no matter what. She cannot decide the amount. Also, ask her to make a record of every feeding everyday, like how much she gives and how much yr baby actually drinks each time. Then u'll have an idea of how much milk yr baby can take.

Cheer up. Your baby will be fine. don't worry.

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