agree. similar situation as you, i am in canada and my husband is in china. no problem with us at all. i should be more scared as he is in china, but i totally trust him. it is hard to explain why i 100% trust him. it is quite strange, when i started to be with him, i can sense if he is telling truth or telling lies, not by what he is saying or by what he had done, it is by "feeling" in my heart. whenever he lies to me, my heart will "tighten"; feeling uncomfortable and sorrow. if he is telling truth, nothing special will happen in my heart, but will feel if he is sincere or not. it turns out that i am correct every times for all these 24 years. this is my secret, he never knows this. don't tell him.
we will have at least one phone call daily, plus email, messager etc.
My husband went to China last year. He only comes back on Friday night and goes again on Monday. At the very beginning, we can manage very good because he wants to earn more. His new salary is 75% more than the old one. However, he feels tired and knows that family is the first priority. Our daughter is only 5 years old and she needs father's attention. I do not want to live as a single mother all the times. So, my husband resigned already and will quit the job at the end of May. I am so happy because I finally get my husband back. I am not saying that I do not trust my hushand, there are lots of 引誘 in China that we never know. So, I prefer he works in Hong Kong for even lesser salary.
Most of my friends have these experience and finally they lost their husband - divoice at the end :-(
Kris2002 寫道:
If I were you, I would ask him to stay, or go with him, temptation is everywhere...but if he only goes for less than half year, then acceptable..
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