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mtqueenie


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發表於 07-5-11 14:47 |只看該作者

教我如何可以不愛他........

佢有一個壞習慣，不可以接受同容忍嘅習慣。四年以來，我用了很多不同的方法去幫佢，原諒佢.....一次又一次的重複....不斷的向我講大話、被我知道後又求我原諒、每次都講：俾多最後一次機會我吖。最後，我只係再俾多一次機會俾佢hurt我。佢知道每次佢再犯時，我都會生氣至發瘋，我試過嬲到响公司大叫、响麥記排排吓隊大喊、過馬路唔記得睇車.....但到了今天，佢依然不改....
一次又一次的機會，由希望佢改過，變成了失望、絕望。我而家己經唔知道佢腦裏面想Ｄ乜嘢，我又到底對佢重有冇價值、感覺？老公，我對你是天地良心，沒有放棄過，從來不管你的自由，不回家吃飯，只要來個電話講我知就○Ｋ了，不回家睡我也只有叫你小心揸車。家事雜務一向不煩你，你要回家哦，我就立即幫你預先開好熱水爐，好等你可以回家後就舒服的洗個澡。
教我如何可以不愛他........ :cry:
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jojoplanet


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發表於 07-5-11 15:28 |只看該作者

Re: 教我如何可以不愛他........

可唔可以講係咩壞習慣?
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wing0120


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發表於 07-5-11 15:39 |只看該作者

Re: 教我如何可以不愛他........

?-( ?-( 我都想知係乜壞習慣？
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2fungs


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發表於 07-5-11 16:05 |只看該作者

Re: 教我如何可以不愛他........

我做係 smoking ??

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barnie


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發表於 07-5-11 16:10 |只看該作者

Re: 教我如何可以不愛他........

咪係 "講大話" 囉!!!
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ruby2004


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發表於 07-5-11 16:21 |只看該作者

Re: 教我如何可以不愛他........

mtqueenie 寫道:
從來不管你的自由，不回家吃飯，只要來個電話講我知就○Ｋ了，不回家睡我也只有叫你小心揸車。家事雜務一向不煩你，你要回家哦，我就立即幫你預先開好熱水爐，好等你可以回家後就舒服的洗個澡。
教我如何可以不愛他........ :cry:





你太好了 .
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mtqueenie


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發表於 07-5-11 23:51 |只看該作者

Re: 教我如何可以不愛他........

Thank you. I am not "太好了", only if I ask him if he will come home for dinner, he will get angry. I do not want to make him upset, so I slowly try not to ask. He always tell me that he has high pleasure from his work, so that he want to relax......
Please understand me, I do not want to disclose what that is..... but something not good to him. I do not want to give up our relationship, because I belive if I give up, he will give up himself too.....
He just like a teenage, always want to hang around with his friends, our home is just like a hotel to him. I know this is not good to keep on this way, but what else I can do? :-(
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寶貝喵兒


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發表於 07-5-12 00:03 |只看該作者

Re: 教我如何可以不愛他........

我覺得你係一個 "絕世好老婆"呢
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mtqueenie


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發表於 07-5-12 00:16 |只看該作者

Re: 教我如何可以不愛他........

寶貝喵兒,
Thank you. I am just trying my best to keep our relationship - 1st, we have a daughter;2nd, up to this moment, it is very easy to just ask him to get out from our home (because I think I am ok to take care the house's expenses) but if I ask him to leave, he will only go deeper to his bad hobby. The only thing that make me crazy is : I do not know why he always ask me to give him "the last chance"? He just want to have a place to stay? a toilet to take a bath? or he reallly want to have a chance to improve our relationship????????????
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mtqueenie


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發表於 07-5-12 00:21 |只看該作者

Re: 教我如何可以不愛他........

Just copy from another topic :
離開是容易的, 留下才是最難！
this is really ture. :cry:
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siufung


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發表於 07-5-12 01:19 |只看該作者

Re: 教我如何可以不愛他........

is it something that's hard to be forgiven??
if it's crucial to a relationship, say having an affair, or betting habit, or looking out for "chicken", so you'll have to let him go. But if it's something else, see if you can stop him doing again....
It bothers you much??
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jojoplanet


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發表於 07-5-12 11:41 |只看該作者

Re: 教我如何可以不愛他........

I can understand because my husband is also like a teenager and I always think one day if he loses me for whatever reason, it is difficult for him to live on his own. But I tell you, if it is the only reason why you are maintaining the relationship and one day you will realise all your efforts are in vain and you will hurt much more than now.
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