Hi Super彥媽, 有空談談嗎? I read most of your comments and Q&A but just nothing about SJC聖若望英文書院, 我女兒收到SJC K1 offer, 但BK有很多有關SJC不好的comments. 我想要一間英文,品德好又半龍的學校, 本來覺得SJC全英語教學很好,又半龍, 但又怕gossip 的comments是真的 (老師常換, 教書搬字過紙, 沒責任心), 導致升中找不到好學校...不知你對這學校有認識嗎? 他們小學升中派位好嗎? SJC and 浸會大學附屬幼稚園, which one u will choose? (我擔心浸幼升不到浸小, SJC 好像九成以上升上P1)
因此, 問題主因在於你目標唔明確, 你樣樣想要, 又嫌樣樣唔夠, 冇一間學校會所謂 perfect fit 你的, 係咪? e.g. 不如你問下自己當日點解揀你個老公? 佢都唔係樣樣好格, 你又揀? 因為你知自己想點囉, 所以你可以係個一刻做到決定, 你亦知道呢個世界唔會有一個 perfect 既老公比你揀, even 你依家話佢 perfect, somehow 係"你眼中" perfect 而已, 佢係其他人眼中可以係好一般 ga ja wor, same as 選校啦, 所以...呵呵...你係煩惱自尋呀....
先問自己一個最基本問題你就揀到架啦 - what do you care most if you need to make such a decision? Prioritize them and you will get your answer, 我唔會有呢個煩惱, 因為我一向都好知自己想點, 亦唔會三心兩意, 有左目標就 work hard, 所以咪唔會煩囉....
KTS 都唔差丫, 不過若純以上列學校同佢比, 佢多數係 last choice lor, 唔係唔好, 不過家長多數係人望高處, 上面個d 唔收咪去 KTS 買定個保險囉...但佢學校都係d 唔想俾小朋友讀官津校既家長既另一選擇
沙官呂 - 呢間同上面又好唔同 wor, 係津小, 我記憶佢咪早前話要行國教個間囉? So do you feel comfortable if they offer 國教先? 佢係區內數一數二既龍頭學校, 所以當然有番咁上下實力啦, 但又係唔同 TSL 比較以英語做 main language, 因為 afterall 佢係津中, 都係跟大隊而已, 功課都多的.
sometimes i feel very lost . Some of my colleagues ( junior ones with less education) just sent their kids to schools in public housing estate and they could still get into some band one schools ( secondary ones) which makes me so jealous...hahha...I guess they never have the same struggle as we, those so called middle class parent, do when choosing primary schools for their kids....they just leave it to GOD!! hahha....
==> 若然你真係認為係咁既情況下考得入 band 1 既學生, 佢老豆真係只係 "leave it to GOD", I am sorry, 得罪講句, 你睇野未免流於表面 (或者你只係講笑話就請 accept my apology)...你以為佢地真係中左六合彩咁入? 當然我唔否定六合彩既存在, 就似打工, 都真係眼見有廢柴可以唔駛做野人工都高你幾倍一樣, 但有一點我深信既係, 幸運係一剎那既野, 唔係一世既野, 就算真係有人符碌咁考得入 band 1 (in fact under the govt system 冇得符碌, 考中學係請實力, 計成績, 除非你識人就乜都另計啦), 都要佢坐得暖, 保得住個位先係叻仔架...
因此, 我唔認為住公屋既家長就只可以靠 god 先有個可以入 band 1 學校既仔, 因為讀書成功與否, 唔在於知識既多少, 閣下有留意我早前寫既文章, Knowledge and skills 係可以透過時間學習同累積的, 但讀唔讀到書, sorry , 唔在於 knowledge and skills 而係 attitude, 個人既學習動力, 動機, 態度先係 the key of success, 大家都識講 - 小朋友肯讀既話, 冇話讀唔到的, 依家大家面對既問題係, 細路仔懶, 冇心機, 又或心思放左係另一d 野 (e.g. 打機) 樹咁解啦, 而公屋既一群, 點解d 細路又肯讀? 點解鮮魚行小學都有同學考得入協恩, 仲係自行考入? 唔係因為佢地成績最好, 而係個人既鬥心同態度, 呢點係做任何事成功既關鍵, 若你要我去分析, 我倒不認為呢d 家長係 leave it to GOD, 反而係佢地既 role modelling 令小朋友學懂珍惜, 學懂愛, 以自己既成績去回饋為佢捱到殘既父母
...I guess they never have the same struggle as we,
==> 係架, 佢地都冇 choice, 有咩得佢 struggle? 但咁唔係仲簡單咩? 因為只得一條路, 自然會諗盡一切辦法去行好呢條路, 鬥志高, 唔易放棄就係他日面對困難都能成功既基石, 中產就係有太多路走, 所以就係會做成 A 唔得就行 B, 你又知 A 真係唔得? 定係只係對自己冇信心, or 唔想去面對一個 challenge only?
I feel really headache whenever I think of choosing the primary school for my kid.....there are so many different viewpoint about differnet schools.....hahha....
==>點都好啦, 仔女係自己既, 父母總有一千個理由去 justify 自己為子女做既野就係最好既野, 做人最緊要係, 無論做任何野都好, 唔好俾自己後悔就得了, 你信係 work 既, 就做, it's just that simple, 結果既野冇人可以預計到架嘛, right? 所有旁邊鶴講既野大可以不理
by the way, 依家你只係揀小學已經咁, 我肯定你到中學應該會訓唔著...哈哈...有時有d 野, 順其自然唔一定係壞事, 考照考, 收咪私校, 唔收就讀官津囉, 唔駛樣樣太刻意的, otherwise 千機算盡, 個細路唔同你合作, 都係得個桔, 所以, 一切唔係在於學校, 係在於個細路, what kind of values are you going to build in for him/her?
sometimes i feel very lost . Some of my colleagues ( junior ones with less education) just sent their kids to schools in public housing estate and they could still get into some band one schools ( secondary ones) which makes me so jealous...hahha...I guess they never have the same struggle as we, those so called middle class parent, do when choosing primary schools for their kids....they just leave it to GOD!! hahha....
I feel really headache whenever I think of choosing the primary school for my kid.....there are so many different viewpoint about differnet schools.....hahha....
You have speak out my mind....it seems that is is so very wrong not to chase the DDS/private schools now~~hahha.....
==> 要 speak out your mind 有幾難? hehe, 我身邊十個有十個中產家長都係咁講 ga la..所以有時阿 Q d 諗, 你地去哂私立直資 (仲係叻呢堆先考得入 ga ma) 咁好既官津咪少左人同我爭囉, 各取所需, I should encourage you to take 先真啦, hehehe......話時話, 都多得家長們咁緊張子女學業, d 教育界先不斷有 "生意" 做 ga ma ....呵呵....
話已到此, 係你自行決定既時候, 我多講亦無謂, 只係想請都有同此諗法既家長明白..there's no free lunch in the world...唔係買左保險就等於唔會有意外, 我見到既反而係, 你揀得呢類學校, 就要習慣呢類學校既氣氛, 同 align their values. If you can make it, yes, for sure these schools would give you better safety nets.
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