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KKlaus

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發表於 14-2-26 11:52 |只看該作者

welcome to the club. I consider myself lucky if can have more than once a month......

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fsforth

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畀面勳章 BK Milk勳章

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vababa 發表於 14-2-9 08:23
is there any couple rarely have sex but still can keep up the good relationship?
Age range 2X to 3X. ...

係香港生活，如果生左小朋友，唔多唔少都會影響性生活，要有愛情生活，
一係就唔生，一係成家移民去一個relax 既地方生活。

BB 一出生，就已經無覺好訓，之後仲有至少十年煩學業，放工放假還要理測驗考試，你要做好爸爸，真係朋友都少見，何況有時間談情說愛呢??

你娶了一個重仔女多過重丈夫的老婆，都係不要再想什麼愛情動作片的情節...跟科幻片無分別，故事內容在你有生之年都不會發生的

正確的approach 是先修補好夫妻關係，仔女先會有真正的得益，不過，香港大多數人都唔明，到最後可能有一個幾叻既仔，不過，在單親家庭長大呢!

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發表於 14-2-26 06:51 |只看該作者

回覆：RosanneS 的帖子

how about 25?

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回覆 hksunshine 的帖子

我都唔知點安慰你好

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發表於 14-2-13 17:51 |只看該作者

maybe he get bored

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發表於 14-2-13 17:36 |只看該作者

my hubby complain we not enough sex as well... he said prefer 2times a week.... that's normal....
mood is the biggest factor. i dont' get why man always hv this desire!

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發表於 14-2-13 16:50 |只看該作者

I can't believe a couple without sex but keep good relationship, seems like my experience, my ex bf, we had no sex for our pass relationship as our relationship is not good.

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發表於 14-2-13 16:32 |只看該作者

i didnt have sex with my husband for nearly 3years, the reson he said is no feeling to make love, i ask him to see doctor, but he reject. but we seems still keep good relationship.

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發表於 14-2-13 16:13 |只看該作者

kid take up too much time of your wife

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Nothingman 發表於 14-2-13 13:43
Very good if compare to me...I haven\'t had that for 5 years!

Poor you. Nothingman.
How to imagine that a man didn't have sex for 5 yrs...?
How can you stand that relationship for just like room mates...?
So, in what way you adopt to resolve your need in desire....?

I have the same question to my friend (male) who said that he rarely has sex with his wife, (his wife not interested in making love with him). To my surprise he said that they still have good relationship and he said he still love his wife.

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發表於 14-2-13 13:43 |只看該作者

引用：Quote:ireneyam+發表於+14-2-10+07:24+How+

原帖由 vababa 於 14-02-10 發表
Averagely....yes

Very good if compare to me...I haven\'t had that for 5 years!

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發表於 14-2-13 12:45 |只看該作者

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1) do you want sex with your wife often?
2) do you tell her when you want?
3) if yes, what\'s her response? If no, why don\'t you tell her/ talk to her?

Me and my husband was like your frequency, but our relationship is very good. Partly because of our personality, we aren\'t the type needing lots of make loves, while we also fully understand each others\' needs (well basically I know his needs), and we\'d have when there\'s desire.

I don\'t know if the problem is from you: not letting your wife knows your needs, or from your wife: not having desire to make love. But you need to talk with her and find out, not just imagine and blame about your shape or your child. That\'s no help to the problem.

May be she simply not knowing your needs, may be she\'s really tired with kid, may be she\'s the type with less desire than you, may be she just not have the mood, or may be she thought you don\'t want sex with her! Who knows?

You need to talk and find out the reason with her, then you together can think of a solution.

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發表於 14-2-13 12:01 |只看該作者

Cheer up, this is not only happen in your family.

Talk to your wife, she might not understand how impt 'sex' is to men.

She is busy taking care the baby herself though with the help of a maid, sometimes, she might expect you to involve more to show your love to the family. When women feel your love, they will be pleased and willing to have a good relationship with you, including sex.

I can't represent all, but to me, I was so tired taking care kid and going out to work. After home, I also want my husband to care about me and come close to me, a kiss, a hug whatever, even just sit with me to watch TV or chat. BUT, not to come to me for sex in the first place and ask me to go to bed.

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原帖由 vababa 於 14-02-10 發表
May i know...how old are u? I guess...you must be very young...

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