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發表於 07-8-1 16:33 |只看該作者 |正序瀏覽 |打印

:-( Just yesterday night I came home with a lunch box specially bought for her (Bun) from OK store. This is normally done when I dine out with my C6 and come back cuz I think it is a favour to her by not requiring her to eat instant noodles.

I asked her to microwave and eat. Then 1/2 hour afterwards it so happened I took a look at the rubbish bin. Surprisingly, the whole thing, hot, including the poiece of minced pork uneaten, was there.

I asked her why, and she said, "because I'm full". Then I got a bit emotionall and kept asking why and if you know you are full you can keep it in fridge or tell me you don't need. Here's what she said, "I have already given you the reason! As I have just said, mom! I am full and don't need to eat (firmly). And I don't think I need to explain anymore!" Then went back to hide herself in the bathroom. I think this is not the only one time she did so, but it just so happens that I discovered this last night.

Then I told C6 that I would from now on offer her only instant noodle all the time. SO even if she throws that it will not be such big amount of money (noodles only cost at most $3), or I may offer her $300 for her food allowance without letting her eat any of the food in the house. But C6 said "don't you consider the result if you play this trick to her? If you do so she will have other tricks on you! That will be never ending! If you offer her $300 for a month to "eat herself", what if she says she needs to go to restaurant to eat for an hour everynight?" And I had a quarrel with C6, he said, " you derserve it as you been spoiling her so much!!!"

Her performance is not bad (but not good) cuz I did quite a lot of housework on my own. I got angry not because of the money, but because I was always considering her, and doing her favours, but she ends up doing this and answered me in this manner.

She's treating herself so superior:-( :-(

[ 本文章最後由 pollyw 於 07-8-1 16:50 編輯 ]

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點解咁多媽咪都鍾意話當工人係家人即?
佢明明係工人,來打工,你比佢應得既就夠,太多或太少都係唔好架.
大家之間條界線模糊左,咪有手尾囉.
人事管理都成日有教,要恩威並重,上司同下屬係唔可以太老友,如果唔係,個下屬就會失控架啦.
如果你當佢係家人,咪行錯左第一步囉.
大家用你返工既情況,代入與工人相處既情境啦,你想你老板點對你?
相信無論老板點對你好,點送你禮物,或者日日請你食飯,都不及在工作上稱讚你同埋加你人工咁開心啦,係咪?!

原文章由 EmiCheng 於 07-8-2 14:24 發表
其實有時真係想當佢地係一家人, 不過真係好難做到囉, 正如我個agent話, 佢地係無良心架, 你餐餐俾雞脾佢食, 俾少餐就話你衰架啦, 所以自從第一個衰工人之後, 我唔會就佢地食咩, 我地食咩佢食咩, 唔食就你架事, ...

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發表於 07-8-2 18:23 |只看該作者

我出街食飯冇買嘢佢食ga, 佢會自己照顧自己, 鈡意煮instant noodle又好, 食雪櫃裏面啲嘢又好, 總之佢會搞掂.

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發表於 07-8-2 18:16 |只看該作者

Agree ar... I willl not ask her what she like to eat then prepare for her!! I just let her to eat the food we eat everyday. Sometimes, I will let her to cook instant noodle for herself(I found that she love to eat the instant noodle) By the way, I found that my Bun eat very little. I don't know if it is because the dishes do not suit her. Everynight I reserve some food for her that night and the lunch in the next day. I found that there are many leftover for the next day.. I guess she has thrown away the food in the rubbish bin the next day .....

bowie_p ;-)

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發表於 07-8-2 14:24 |只看該作者

其實有時真係想當佢地係一家人, 不過真係好難做到囉, 正如我個agent話, 佢地係無良心架, 你餐餐俾雞脾佢食, 俾少餐就話你衰架啦, 所以自從第一個衰工人之後, 我唔會就佢地食咩, 我地食咩佢食咩, 唔食就你架事, 我淨係提供基本野, 佢地只有愈縱愈衰, 唔會感謝你架!!!!

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發表於 07-8-2 13:19 |只看該作者

佢有權唔食,但唔可以丟左可食的食物.
呢點要同佢講清楚.
唔通你同佢講過雪櫃既野可以食,咁佢唔食就丟晒雪櫃d野?
你心平氣和同佢解釋下啦.
鬧係無用架.
你請佢返來係幫手做野,唔係玩鬥氣.
開心番下啦.

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原文章由 pollyw 於 07-8-2 10:49 發表
Because of this, I didn't talk with my C6 for 2 days la! Bun also long face to me for 2 days, as though I'm punished by the BUn. I had almost no conversation inside the house in these 2 days. ...

合約到何時呀??? 如果仲有好耐, 真係要想想換人啦.......

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發表於 07-8-2 12:14 |只看該作者

我想你工人一定觉得，你两个出去吃好野，而她就只有丁丁饭盒！所以发脾气！

所以，我都觉得好似其他mami讲，不如叫她自己煮。。。由她食就食，不食就罢仲好！

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d工人好小氣o架. 如果你真係俾300元佢乜都唔准食, 佢實玩o野啦. 係你d o野食到加o野咪仲死. 對答態度差, 原來個個工人都係一x樣. 我個工人又超差, 諗住炒佢, in工人時d現成工人都係無個好, 打俾佢地d僱主問, 佢地話態度都係唔好的. 密月期得一年咋..... 咁我都唔知點算好了. 我平時買定好多丸,腸仔,猪扒,菜, 但我從來都唔知道佢幾點食晚餐, 食過d乜o野. 只時我放工叫佢煮乜俾我同c6食咋. 無佢份的. 佢自己攪掂自己個晚餐.

原文章由 pollyw 於 07-8-1 16:33 發表
:-( Just yesterday night I came home with a lunch box specially bought for her (Bun) from OK store. This is normally done when I dine out with my C6 and come back cuz I think it is a favour to h ...

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好媽媽勳章大廚勳章

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發表於 07-8-2 10:49 |只看該作者

Because of this, I didn't talk with my C6 for 2 days la! Bun also long face to me for 2 days, as though I'm punished by the BUn. I had almost no conversation inside the house in these 2 days. THe whole house's silent except noise of my kids.:-( :-(

[ 本文章最後由 pollyw 於 07-8-2 10:52 編輯 ]

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我由第2個工人開始（第一個教精我）從來唔會問佢仲意食咩,唔仲意食咩, 廢事特登就佢. 佢地出得黎打工,預左無得簡飲簡食. 唔食fishball, rice noodles, suasages ... 你教我買咩餸 ! 如果佢話仲意鵝肝,魚子醬,唔通我又要買呀 !　總之我食咩佢食咩，我唔迫印印食豬就得啦．　

原文章由 pollyw 於 07-8-1 17:42 發表

From time to time, during chatting she will tell me she doesn't like eating this and that. Like, this time she telss me she doesn't like, fishball, another time she tells shedon't like rice ...

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發表於 07-8-1 23:57 |只看該作者

Dont get upset. Just leave tin food, instant noodles or sausage at home and tell her to eat those when u dine out.

And dont agrue with your hubby about your maid coz she is not important to your life at all. Be happy :)

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好媽媽勳章大廚勳章

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發表於 07-8-1 21:16 |只看該作者

Now I know what is

敬蕉唔食食罰蕉

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發表於 07-8-1 19:58 |只看該作者

If I dine outside, I'll just tell my maid to cook for herself with the food she can find at home. I wouldn't care about if she eat or not as long as I have food at home. Your maid's attitude is bad, if i were you, I will just leave fishball, egg, instant noodle, sausage at home. Who cares if she eat or not? She comes to work and not enjoy life.

原文章由 pollyw 於 07-8-1 17:42 發表

From time to time, during chatting she will tell me she doesn't like eating this and that. Like, this time she telss me she doesn't like, fishball, another time she tells shedon't like rice ...

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發表於 07-8-1 18:18 |只看該作者

She has a right not to eat the lunch box, but you need to tell her that she has no right to waste the food you bought. This is very bad attitude. You don't need to scold at her. Just tell her that u don't like people wasting food and next time she needs to seek your permission before throwing ediable food away.

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原文章由 vickynicky 於 07-8-1 17:46 發表
Don't get too upset. The more upset you are, the happier your maid feels. So, you learn the lesson now. You don't need to black face to her, just behave as normal. From now onwards, you make ...

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佢係吾鍾意食, 吾係我吾比佢食, 你同佢講, 我都教小朋友吾可以揀飲擇食, 我做吾出要就你吾食就吾買呢d 食物

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發表於 07-8-1 17:46 |只看該作者

Don't get too upset. The more upset you are, the happier your maid feels. So, you learn the lesson now. You don't need to black face to her, just behave as normal. From now onwards, you make sure to have some can food, instant noodles, rice, frozen meat at home. Whenever you need to go out, just tell her that you are going out for dinner. They will know where to look for the food.

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