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發表於 07-8-17 17:44 |只看該作者 |正序瀏覽 |打印

I found that the maid stole apple to eat, what should i do?

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發表於 07-8-23 17:17 |只看該作者

Yi

你笑笑口同佢講,食生果有益,不過唔好未食完就放入米缸.D小朋友會有樣學樣.同埋D生果最好放入雪櫃至衛生.

你唔介意既話買D佢鐘意食既生果比佢,話佢知邊D大家食,邊D先生食, 教你小朋友請佢食生果同零食.
你工人係咪新請海外工人定約滿工人.係印定菲,唔同民俗要有唔同習性.唔好唔因為咁唔開心.因為以後重有D野可能重煩.多D同佢溝通,咪知道佢係精定蠢.了解佢多D,可以教你女女點樣相處.你以後就可以安心工作.

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發表於 07-8-23 16:37 |只看該作者

其實好多印傭都係咁驚驚青青, 啱啱開始, 我工人見到我見到佢食嘢, 就會好似好唔好意思咁即刻放返低, 我就會笑笑口同佢講, 食哂都唔緊要, 因為都無人食

留到過期掉咗仲浪費, 幾次之後佢就好光明正大咁食:mrgreen: 不過我工人都唔係咁鐘意食嘢, 話要KEEP FIT, 已經瘦到條柴咁仲減肥, 比佢激死

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發表於 07-8-22 22:36 |只看該作者

This might be the case but does not apply to my maid who dares sleeping in front of the webcam. Also, I found her "searching" my mom's handbag while she went out with bb. So she is just a thief but not a timid poor rabbit!

原文章由 等待BB的小貓 於 07-8-21 22:05 發表
YI,

你地平時係冇全完冇溝通架, 我諗個工人一定好驚你, 一係怕話你食左你屋企D野, 另一方面怕你以為佢偷賴.

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發表於 07-8-21 22:05 |只看該作者

YI,

你地平時係冇全完冇溝通架, 我諗個工人一定好驚你, 一係怕話你食左你屋企D野, 另一方面怕你以為佢偷賴.

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發表於 07-8-21 19:28 |只看該作者

原文章由 radish 於 07-8-19 22:33 發表
我都覺得"食"唔係一個問題,問心嗰句,如果個MAID係幫到你手,咁佢食多小小,但係大家唔駛換來換去個工人,AGENCY FEE都慳唔小啦,有時我都會特登買一D我唔食既嘢比個MAID,例如:榴連....佢見到都好開心,咁 ...

如果佢做得好, 我都唔mind 比佢食, o甘更係dcheap o野
啦, 我之前o個個好 smart, 我就成日買好大多o野(零食+
biscuit+coffee+bread) 任佢食

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發表於 07-8-21 15:34 |只看該作者

其實生果零食食得幾多,我由頭到尾都唔介意請工人食.不過有時啲工人會食到無譜,令你覺得收唔番.

我對上兩個工人來到,我老公都當佢哋家人咁,除燕窩外樣樣都預佢一份,連大閘蟹都預佢兩隻,第一個工人好有分數,大家食得好開心!

第二個初頭都無問題,但佢見我哋咁大方,佢就唔理咁多,樣樣都食到夠為止,唔理你食咗未:

- 連續兩年,我買冰皮月餅返去,同佢講"You may try some snowy mooncake."結果未到中秋一件不留,我真金白銀買返來,竟然一件都無得食!

- 喺屋企食火煱,當然任佢食啦,但佢可以坐喺度食到我食完佢都未食完,期間完全唔會理阿仔,總之好似喺自己屋企食緊大餐咁!我請客佢都係咁, 死未!

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發表於 07-8-21 13:38 |只看該作者

aunt0528, I deeply understand yr feeling, esp "I don't care how much food she eat but I need her to be honest. ":-|

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發表於 07-8-21 13:30 |只看該作者

yi, it is really a matter of honesty. I packed my lunch box last nite which I have just found that she has taken from my lunch box last nite while I went out with baby. She pissed me off when I have just found this out now. I dare not to eat the lunch box and I need to line up long for my lunch then.
I really hate her and cannot understand why she behaves like this. Of course, she will deny when I ask her. My ex-maid is very honest who had a very good relationship and communication with us. We do treat her and miss her.
I treat this new maid even better alhtough she has just fired by someone recently. I care about her feeling and try not to hurt her. But why does she like to tell lies so much???? I don't care how much food she eat but I need her to be honest. She get used to tell lies even an unimportant thing I ask her.

原文章由 yi 於 07-8-19 19:58 發表
aung_0528, I think our feeling is the same. 講真，生果食得幾多錢呀，It is a matter of honesty. Since when she heard the door bell ring, she put the remaining apple in the 米缸桶上, and she tried ...

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發表於 07-8-20 13:50 |只看該作者

yi, I tolerate my maid and haven't scolded her since she is the one taking care of my baby (although I hate her behavior). I still took her out every holiday if she chooses to work and buy her things she needs with a hope of changing her from time to time. However, I strongly encourage you to talk to your maid if she has done something harming your daughter. You need to protect your daughter and warn your maid on this. Your daughter is helpless if she is alone with the maid.

原文章由 yi 於 07-8-19 19:58 發表
aung_0528, I think our feeling is the same. 講真，生果食得幾多錢呀，It is a matter of honesty. Since when she heard the door bell ring, she put the remaining apple in the 米缸桶上, and she tried ...

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發表於 07-8-19 22:33 |只看該作者

我都覺得"食"唔係一個問題,問心嗰句,如果個MAID係幫到你手,咁佢食多小小,但係大家唔駛換來換去個工人,AGENCY FEE都慳唔小啦,有時我都會特登買一D我唔食既嘢比個MAID,例如:榴連....佢見到都好開心,咁我希望佢會對我個仔好D啦.....

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發表於 07-8-19 19:58 |只看該作者

aung_0528, I think our feeling is the same. 講真，生果食得幾多錢呀，It is a matter of honesty. Since when she heard the door bell ring, she put the remaining apple in the 米缸桶上, and she tried to threw it away but failed, 一連串的動作和大話令我覺得佢鬼祟，加埋佢之前暗地裡對我個女說了些恐嚇的話，故令我份外不滿。:-|

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發表於 07-8-19 02:04 |只看該作者

我呢排就唔得閒理工人Do野，任佢自由發揮，咁佢會同呀女一齊食生果，係我落order要佢一齊食

其實可以分開廚櫃區域，邊D係食得，邊D唔食得，大家無得嘈，無得嬲，我係姐姐來時已經話佢聽，邊D係佢，邊D係唔食得呀女o既(因為入得口o既零食都係買俾呀豬妹食

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發表於 07-8-19 01:49 |只看該作者

我個bun試過開頭黎,除左正餐,乜都唔敢食,我奇怪,問過佢[因我地成家人都一日食到無停口]

佢話原來以前佢僱主唔會比佢食,試過有次僱主買左d香蕉返黎,我工人都未食,僱主就同佢講:您唔好掂呀,唔係比您食架.

我工人當時唔敢食啦,但個心就諗:唔食囉,馬騮先食香蕉啫.

[其實我工人好鍾意食生果,香蕉都係,所以佢同我老公一食,我就會笑佢地係馬騮]:lol :lol
有時有d比較貴既,我係買比99/老公食,我都會同佢講:呢d我係買比婆婆/阿sir食架.我工人都識做,唔會食既.:loveliness: 反而我工人會見到d靚生果會買番黎留比我老公食,佢自己唔食架.:)

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發表於 07-8-19 01:38 |只看該作者

因為我都明若一句任佢食的話,可能一發不可收拾,在意的唔係十元八塊,係我都會怕佢亂食野食到病,但我一早講明"點去食"屋企野,我自問屋企無野係唔俾得佢食,盒裝飲品,咖啡奶茶或零食佢都可以食,但我講明佢要顧及自己健康,唔可以過份,and我飯後生果也好,甜品也好,我都鍾意叫埋佢一齊食,平日得我女同佢兩人時,我都教我女食野預埋佢一齊,anyway而家無問題,工人放假時重買包餅返嚟俾我女,同我女一齊食!所以佢都習慣左食係唔洗鬼鬼鼠鼠的啊!
不妨多D叫佢同你地一齊食野,或者佢明呢

[ 本文章最後由 cameo 於 07-8-19 15:39 編輯 ]

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發表於 07-8-19 01:27 |只看該作者

yes,agree.如果我係樓主,我會好驚訝個工人咁淒涼收埋個泙果响米缸

我會問佢咁樣係咪好味d?

然后叫佢herher聲幫手食生果,個肚有位掃埋d零食,舊o既唔去新點黎呀,我都係同fa咁,而得佢食晒,我無咁肥tim:mrgreen:

原文章由 方方媽媽 於 07-8-18 13:35 發表
點解d工人要咁鬼祟?
咪因為佢覺得個主人會唔比/唔like佢地食屋企既任何野囉.
有d工人開聲問,又會比主人話:獅子開大口,想創你個心....
你都見到係呢個討論區,都有d媽咪係咁講野架啦,
或者佢以前個僱主,只比白 ...

春有百花秋有月夏有涼風冬有雪若無閒事掛心頭便是人間好時節

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發表於 07-8-19 01:08 |只看該作者

My maid also likes to steal food to eat. Actually, my ex-maid already told her that we are very generous to give enough food to maid since we understand that they need more energy to do housework. However, my maid always like to steal food.

She always pretends eating few food (my ex-maid also thinks so as they have met for handover). Indeed, she eats a lot. For example, she eats 4 eggs in one day. Also, she will eat dinner twice (one before we come back home and one with us). Actually, I really don't mind her eating a lot. But I should know how much we should buy every week. I hate her because she is not honest.

From the webcam, I always saw her eating those food that we haven't told her to eat (but we are more than pleased to let her eat if she asked) or we have offered her but she pretends that she does not like. She will eat my baby's cheese and biscuits, use knife to trim the dry bbq pork and chocolate that you have opened the wrapping, drink your juice and add water afterwards. I really don't understand why.

We always offer extra food and snack (if we eat in front of her). But she is just not honest and keep telling lies even we told her honesty is the most important thing in our house. I don't mind the food but I hate her not honest.

原文章由 yi 於 07-8-18 19:27 發表
I think the case is just like sunba mama said.
Anyway, I have explained to her I don't mind her eating fruit. Of course fruit is for eating, so no need 鬼祟. I hope she understand.

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