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我見都有唔少媽咪返工, 有part time, 有full time. 雖然公司啲同事大部份都好好, 但我有時都有啲谷氣野, 想分享下, 嗔下, 同小黑講, 男人, 始終無耐性聽, 一聽就俾意見, 教你點做,但其實我只係想嗔. 怕谷壞自己. 唔知你地會唔會有類似經驗.

我既最近個案係, 有個同事係公司做左三年左右, single mom, 有父母幫手睇仔女, 係今年, 佢發現原來公司既personal time off 上限係120個鐘一年, 用唔哂仲可以roll over. 結果佢就搏哂命咁拎. 8月內拎左140個鐘, pto 係pay既time off, 公司白白蝕左三個半星期糧俾佢, 係人都睇得出, 佢係搏哂大霧, 我同佢傾,叫佢收歛下, 佢就發難咋, 話係佢既right, 又用single mom 俾撻我, 咁我大佢, 話佢舊年又唔見佢拎咁多, 佢就話舊年啲仔女無咁多事. 之後佢同佢男朋友傾, 佢好proud 佢男朋友係做management. 我估佢男友教佢, 返黎問我, 何謂pto, 佢要documentation, 白紙黑字俾個list 佢. 真係玩到好寸. 佢咁寸要白紙黑字, 咁我咪寸返佢, 我都要白紙黑字, 我叫佢用email send 佢呢個request 俾我. 之後, 我梗係俾左個波我上司同human resource 果邊搞, 我上司同HR個頭同佢照完肺之後, 無耐, 佢衰多單野(遲啲分享呢單),結果, 個大老細同佢照多鑊勁既, 同佢講如果佢唔改就走. 雖然我心都涼埋, 但如果佢賴死唔走, 又唔知佢幾時又發神經玩野.

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發表於 09-5-6 14:32 |只看該作者

哈哈, nillie, 你講得啱, 自從我做左呢份工之後, 都無打過歷仔. 因為我日日都叫啲家庭唔好打小朋友, 久而久之, 自己都落唔到手.

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發表於 09-5-6 04:04 |只看該作者

I really can't understand why those parents/adults could be that cold blood. If they don't want to take the responsibility to raise a kid, just don't bring them to this world (I'm not agree or disagree with abortion, but I think go get abortion is better than abuse them), or don't being a 寄養家庭.

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發表於 09-5-5 20:39 |只看該作者

after reading all of these cases, we should treat our children better.
They did not get a chance to choose to come to this world.
I feel so angry about those parents whom are so selfish, brought a child to the world and did not do their jobs.
muimui313,
your job is very meaningful, to save those lil lives from the physical or psychological abuse.
I believe that what you are doing, will give good fortune for Alex!

原帖由 muimui313 於 09-5-5 02:32 AM 發表
happymatt, touch wood, 我啲case好多都係, 媽咪大肚用drug, bb一出世就寄養到親戚家. 呢啲都唔複雜. 我啲同事既cases, 有啲都好慘. 本身被父母虐待或遺棄, 要寄養到人地或親戚屋企, 之後仲要俾親戚虐待.
我同事有 ...

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happymatt, touch wood, 我啲case好多都係, 媽咪大肚用drug, bb一出世就寄養到親戚家. 呢啲都唔複雜. 我啲同事既cases, 有啲都好慘. 本身被父母虐待或遺棄, 要寄養到人地或親戚屋企, 之後仲要俾親戚虐待.
我同事有個case, 肢體傷殘既小朋友, 被虐待, 仲要被人當波咁傳, 因為個個親戚都唔想要. 好可憐.
另外有隻case, 幾兄弟姐妹寄養到親戚處, 仲要俾親戚虐待, 將佢地同啲狗梆埋一齊, 逼佢地食糞, 用鎚鑿甩佢地啲牙, 又將罐頭放係袋入面, 打佢地. 好慘. 好彩個親戚而家坐監.
又有case,13 歲女童, 被寄養父親強姦, 個寄養母親大義滅親, 個寄養父親坐緊監, 個女仔生左個bb仔.好在寄養母親有個好好既朋友, adopt 左個BB, 令個女仔有機會過返啲teenager既生活...唉...真係不能盡錄.

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發表於 09-5-5 03:59 |只看該作者

I also think the freeway have less traffic in the morning and evening ah.

唉 ... hope more parents can be self behave and not 找小朋友來出氣 la. Economy bad is not a excuse to abuse or ignore their kids. 心都傷. I think I can't work at muimui313's office, otherwise, I may cry everyday.

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發表於 09-5-2 16:32 |只看該作者

原帖由 muimui313 於 09-5-2 15:52 發表
SY_Mom, Rose-Mag, Happymatt,
聽你地咁講, 出面cut 得咁勁, 真係心都寒埋. 其實係夏老威, 未海嘯前, 已經係百幾人, 咁laid off. 而家楂車返工, 真係少左塞車.
我份工係幫啲受虐兒童. 經濟一唔好, 就會多兒童受虐 ...

咁我公司都出晒名成日ｃｕｔ人，業職好番咪請番囉，不過而家睇都有一排，因為就算請人都未必有人敢嚟．今日先有一班同事走，有個仲同ｈｒ傾果時喊，坐會議室出面ｄ人都聽到．

經濟一唔好, 就會多兒童受虐待或忽略＞＞真係好悲哀，咁做嘢咁辛苦都係為兒為女，點捨得虐待佢地，我都有罰我對寶貝，但點都冇諗過有人會虐兒，呢排聽到好多單新聞關於虐兒同疏忽，代價係小朋友嘅生命，真係好心痛，諗起都眼濕濕

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SY_Mom, Rose-Mag, Happymatt,
聽你地咁講, 出面cut 得咁勁, 真係心都寒埋. 其實係夏老威, 未海嘯前, 已經係百幾人, 咁laid off. 而家楂車返工, 真係少左塞車.
我份工係幫啲受虐兒童. 經濟一唔好, 就會多兒童受虐待或忽略, 我知我份工會穏陣,但呢個代價實在太大, 前排有個社工同我講, 佢一日內removed 10 children from their birth family,
我有八個同事, 我地每人枕住有十隻cases, 即全office有80隻active cases, 未繼其他島既cases. 通常每個case 有唔只一個小朋友, 好多都係幾兄弟姐妹咁被人remove from home. 真係好陰功.

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發表於 09-5-1 07:54 |只看該作者

All working moms,
Add Oil.... Do not give up.. this year will not worse than last year, right?
as long as we do our best.. I wish our boss will not choose to lay off us....

原帖由 rose-mag 於 09-4-30 02:26 AM 發表

咁你boss都真係幾有良心,希望個市好番,大家都可以好d啦,今日有個隔離dept同事話我知,佢星期二晚9pm佢老細通知佢成個部門都被lay-off,做到今個星期五,it's pretty sad as he's a nice and hardworking guy.但我公司 ...

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原帖由 HappyMatt 於 09-4-30 06:34 發表
rose-mag~

I think my situation is more worst than you ah ... not only 唔加人工同冇 bonus, 並且變相減人工 because I got pay by hour ... when economy was ok, I had a minimum of 40 hours per week, but n ...

咁你boss都真係幾有良心,希望個市好番,大家都可以好d啦,今日有個隔離dept同事話我知,佢星期二晚9pm佢老細通知佢成個部門都被lay-off,做到今個星期五,it's pretty sad as he's a nice and hardworking guy.但我公司出名鍾意cut人,呢幾年年年都詰cut幾萬,但今日有新聞話ceo居然同政府要求發bonus俾部份高層,如果唔係佢地會走,到時會請唔到人;係嘅,呢個燙手山芋有幾多人會肯入嚟做,但咁對我地呢d小職員真係好唔公平,佢地睇死我地走唔甩,連人工都唔調整,咁即係減人工啦,今年d福利已經差咗好多,冇ot,加medical payment,唔俾anniversary gift,仲有好多....不過,我都慶幸仲有份工.

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發表於 09-4-30 12:21 |只看該作者

a few of my friends actually got pay-cut by about 15% and they all worked for big companies. they all were happy than being laid off instead

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rose-mag~

I think my situation is more worst than you ah ... not only 唔加人工同冇 bonus, 並且變相減人工 because I got pay by hour ... when economy was ok, I had a minimum of 40 hours per week, but now ... hope can have at least 30 hours la. The company I'm working for is very quiet ah, we have projects on hand, but almost all project are on hold. My boss said they should not layoff any emplpoyee, but just can't promise to give work to everybody to keep 40hrs per week. Thought about to find another job, but it really have not much opening in the market. I also hope the economy will getting better soon la. My boss 有良心 not going to layoff people, 但他愛"mok"能助.

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Nillie, muimui313,
你地就好啦,有review,今年我估公司會側側膊唔加,因為往年係4月1日調整,今年果張paycheck都唔見有加，又冇appraisal做過，但我知ｄ老細有ｂｏｎｕｓ分，我ｍａｎａｇｅｒ仲有得ｒｅｖｉｅｗ，真係好唔公平．前兩個星期分區老細秘書同我呻，話其他部門ｄ秘書係有ｂｏｎｕｓ分，只係我地冇，佢話佢知我老細佢老細有幾多，咁俾少少我地都唔會，真係幾心淡，佢已經喺公司２０年，仲曾經俾ｌａｙｏｆｆ過一次，之後有位請番佢，不過，而家咁時勢，如果搵唔到第份我一定唔會走，希望個市快ｄ好番啦，冇樣專長真係好難搵到好工，最衰我好難做番以前喺香港做果行，仲已經ｑｕｉｔ咗咁耐ｔｉｍ．

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發表於 09-4-28 20:56 |只看該作者

muimui313,
how about online course, will there be any course offer from university of phoenix???

原帖由 muimui313 於 09-4-28 02:29 AM 發表
Nillie, 恭喜, 咁快你就係果度做左一年. 好老細, 真係唔易搵, 好彩你同我都有個. 你就好啦, 可以用中文. 我成日想用我既bilingual skills, 但都無地方用. 前排公司安排左個講座, introduction to interpretation, 介 ...

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Nillie, 恭喜, 咁快你就係果度做左一年. 好老細, 真係唔易搵, 好彩你同我都有個. 你就好啦, 可以用中文. 我成日想用我既bilingual skills, 但都無地方用. 前排公司安排左個講座, introduction to interpretation, 介紹啲同事點用interpretor, 或者點成為certified interpretor.我好想certify 呀, 我成日話想學一門野, 到老時可以當part time. 但university of hawaii, 係東, 我屋企係西, 我今日塞左兩個鐘車先湊到歷仔放學. 所以...Certify...諗都唔敢諗...唉.

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muimui313,
Congratulation.. ^o^
We work for our child/ren, and that is where our energy comes from.. yeah!
same here, job position changed as well..
Have to deal with tones of Chinese seniors referrals for applying home attendants and visiting nurse service..
Can't even do a deep breath..
I just passed the first year.. and did my annual evaluation... Thanks God.. my director treats me very well.. the feedback is positive..
same here, as we are not native English speaker. I feel so gald that she will pay attention when I talk, and help me thru all other process within our organization.

原帖由 muimui313 於 09-4-26 02:23 AM 發表
嘩, 好耐無過黎, 個topic沈哂底.
各位返工媽咪, 我過左六個月既試用期勒. 仲有3%加, 係呢個時勢, 算好彩.
好彩老細都鍾意我. 唔嫌棄我啲英文唔夠本地人好. 佢好有耐性幫我睇報告. 而我唯有係其他地方做好啲, 將勤 ...

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嘩, 好耐無過黎, 個topic沈哂底.
各位返工媽咪, 我過左六個月既試用期勒. 仲有3%加, 係呢個時勢, 算好彩.
好彩老細都鍾意我. 唔嫌棄我啲英文唔夠本地人好. 佢好有耐性幫我睇報告. 而我唯有係其他地方做好啲, 將勤補拙. 不過近來換左個老頂, 我怕佢會嫌我..但係都唔擔心得咁多...因為呢份工, 日日都趕報告, 趕deadline.同以前搞活動, 做行政, 好唔同.
你地近來開工大吉麻?

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rose-mag,
I wean off Gabriel at end of August (on his 20 months old). as he learns to use bottle. therefore, he can go to day care on Sept. bottle feeding is easy.
this moment, if I take shower with him alone, he will ask to skin to skin, and he will smile to me and say "mo mo" means. no more.. that is a "lost" but he copes with it pretty well. he sometimes thinks of skin to skin, then, he just put his head into my T-shirt, and play Pee a boo.. that's it.
so far it is very smooth.

Ying EE.. hum.. I won't pay her $1800 cash for just house keeping.. I can do it even better (to keep my house clean). she can't speak english, she can't drive, she has 2 times cancers, she can't go groceries shopping, she can't leave heavy items, even fold the clothes, she said that she has joint pain.. so all the jobs is on my shoulder anyway.
I have joint pain too, I have never complaint about it..
Since we don't use her, we can heve dinner much earlier, and kids can stick with bed time schedule by 8pm ( Ying EE used to have dinner at 8-9pm-- we don't like that but what you can do?), so after we asked her to leave. our living quality --> actually, is even better.

原文章由 rose-mag 於 08-11-28 01:34 PM 發表
Nillie,

Well, when people get greedy, it's hard to make them understand that they are already having something not bad. A lot of people just see how good the other people get but fail to see why. O ...

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