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發表於 07-12-11 14:12 |只看該作者 |正序瀏覽 |打印

我新請左個工人湊b, 佢個人做野都唔錯, 但我發現佢好鍾意搭訕,我同老公傾計時, 尤其是講bb嘅野時佢就最鍾意搭爹

..有時我d細妹上來, 我地傾計時, 佢就算唔搭爹都目不轉睛地望住我地講野, 我地自己講笑時又笑埋一份

..果次我妹妹同bb映相時,佢直頭係咁睇住個screen.又叫我阿妹咁映咁映.

.. 佢直頭當左自己係我地嘅屋企人一樣,我唔係話想攪到咁階級,但係我覺得我無問佢時應該keep silent 囉..其實佢其他野都ok, 亦錫bb嘅..如果係你地, 你地會點? 直接同佢講又好似好hurt佢咁, 唔通下次佢搭爹時同佢講, "我有問你意見嗎?"

.. 唉.. 始終佢要湊我bb, 我都唔想同佢d relationship唔好..如果係你地, 你地會點?

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發表於 07-12-12 15:37 |只看該作者

我諗佢真係以為自己係我地嘅一份子, 如果唔係佢就唔會人地講野,佢係度亳無避忌咁笑埋一份, 有時仲搭訕啦...

原文章由 eshiro 於 07-12-12 12:38 發表
huh? "有朋友黎佢會問邊個"??? none of her business of 邊個bor...... she is just the maid to serve the tea / water.... after that, she should disappear la... she thinks she is one of our friends?!?!

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發表於 07-12-12 12:38 |只看該作者

huh? "有朋友黎佢會問邊個"??? none of her business of 邊個bor...... she is just the maid to serve the tea / water.... after that, she should disappear la... she thinks she is one of our friends?!?!

原文章由 等待BB的小貓 於 07-12-12 12:23 發表
咁似我工人既, 我分別叫過佢幾次, 話我好鍾意睇電視, 如果我睇電視時叫佢千其唔好講野, 我工人又好鍾意問長問短, e.g. 話有朋友黎佢會問邊個, 我次次都好不悅咁答話 "你唔會識" 可能耐左佢知我好多時扮聽唔到, 或唔 ...

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發表於 07-12-12 12:30 |只看該作者

佢真係攞聞呀, 可能沙沙噴左小小香水落d花紙到, 佢重話'太太你聞吓, 好香呀.' 跟住我就話佢'that's very impolite'囉.

原文章由 eshiro 於 07-12-12 10:50 發表
LongRyan,

"睇唔到就攞黎聞"??? 咁死八卦! will she look through every single spot of your house then??

no kidding

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發表於 07-12-12 12:23 |只看該作者

咁似我工人既, 我分別叫過佢幾次, 話我好鍾意睇電視, 如果我睇電視時叫佢千其唔好講野, 我工人又好鍾意問長問短, e.g. 話有朋友黎佢會問邊個, 我次次都好不悅咁答話 "你唔會識" 可能耐左佢知我好多時扮聽唔到, 或唔多答佢, 佢而家都唔敢咩都問一餐.

原文章由 熹媽咪 於 07-12-11 14:39 發表
我果個仲哀啦, 每次一齊睇電視時, 佢就會不停問東問西(如:呢度邊度黎? 咩人黎?.......總之我地一路睇, 佢把口就不停問! 大佬呀, 我同你一齊睇, 你睇到幾多, 我都係一樣, 掛住答佢又聽唔到內容! ...

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發表於 07-12-12 12:18 |只看該作者

hellobbc,

I am also "第一次請工人"~ also have a lot of things 唔慣~~

usually 買野返來, I will give her those groceries stuffs only.. and personal things I will take them back to my room lor.... but since she clean our rooms.. so, I know she actually know every single things in our house lor..............

原文章由 hellobbc 於 07-12-12 11:12 發表
可能我第一次請工人, 好唔慣自己的生活中加左個外人:cry:

我個工人都會睇我買返來嘅野, 不過就無話即刻,通常係之後佢會擺返好我買返來嘅野, 咁就無咁衰.. ...

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可能我第一次請工人, 好唔慣自己的生活中加左個外人:cry:

我個工人都會睇我買返來嘅野, 不過就無話即刻,通常係之後佢會擺返好我買返來嘅野, 咁就無咁衰..

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發表於 07-12-12 10:50 |只看該作者

LongRyan,

"睇唔到就攞黎聞"??? 咁死八卦! will she look through every single spot of your house then??

no kidding

原文章由 LongRyan 於 07-12-12 10:40 發表
我會好明確咁同佢講, 搭訕係我地d中國人黎講係勁無禮貌, 叫佢以後唔好再咁樣.

我個印又係無規舉, 我次次去完街返黎, 佢見我有買野就打開個膠袋睇下我買左d mud野．今個星期日重衰, 我係沙沙買左兩盒野返 ...

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hellobbc,

for your case, I think you can just ignore her... whenever she 搭訕.. just pretent you didn't hear anything.. like she is transparent

原文章由 hellobbc 於 07-12-11 19:44 發表
我個工人, 佢就無話坐係廳, 不過係一路做緊野都要搭訕... 我同我老公傾計時, 佢只不過係出來廳執野...我同細妹傾計時,佢係度餵緊奶,只不過隻眼係咁望住我地,人地講笑佢又笑...
所以好難話洗開佢:cry:

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發表於 07-12-12 10:40 |只看該作者

我會好明確咁同佢講, 搭訕係我地d中國人黎講係勁無禮貌, 叫佢以後唔好再咁樣.

我個印又係無規舉, 我次次去完街返黎, 佢見我有買野就打開個膠袋睇下我買左d mud野．

今個星期日重衰, 我係沙沙買左兩盒野返黎（用花紙包住）諗住X'mas用黎lucky draw，佢見到用花紙包住睇唔到就攞黎聞，我即刻丙佢話’that's very impolite'.

我話你放假買ｄ野返黎，我都無睇你ｄ野，真係未見過ｄ人咁死八卦　

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我個工人, 佢就無話坐係廳, 不過係一路做緊野都要搭訕... 我同我老公傾計時, 佢只不過係出來廳執野...我同細妹傾計時,佢係度餵緊奶,只不過隻眼係咁望住我地,人地講笑佢又笑...
所以好難話洗開佢:cry:

原文章由 eshiro 於 07-12-11 16:21 發表
yes ar.. my maid also have such problem.. but she doesn't 搭訕 often.. however, will stand / sit there lor... last time, my baby's "kai ma" came.. my maid just sat there with us in the living room wor ...

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yes ar.. my maid also have such problem.. but she doesn't 搭訕 often.. however, will stand / sit there lor... last time, my baby's "kai ma" came.. my maid just sat there with us in the living room wor....................... we couldn't even talk secret!!

now, i will ask her to go back to work and tell her we will call u if we need help gar la.. and seems like she got that meaning and will disappear la.

I remembered my brother-in-law ex-maid also have similar problem... the maid just kept talking at the dining table... ended up my sister-in-law told her "dinner time is the time for ar sir and mom to talk... please keep quiet"

原文章由 hellobbc 於 07-12-11 14:12 發表
我新請左個工人湊b, 佢個人做野都唔錯, 但我發現佢好鍾意搭訕,我同老公傾計時, 尤其是講bb嘅野時佢就最鍾意搭爹 ..有時我d細妹上來, 我地傾計時, 佢就算唔搭爹都目不轉睛地望住我地講野, 我地自己講笑時又 ...

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發表於 07-12-11 15:13 |只看該作者

搭訕最無引就係大家都當聽唔倒無反應比佢,繼續自己講無人理佢自然就會收嗲架啦.

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發表於 07-12-11 15:10 |只看該作者

我同你真係身同感受, 我要靠佢單獨照顧我bb, 都唔敢惡佢..:-(

原文章由 熹媽咪 於 07-12-11 14:57 發表

因為平時我要靠佢單獨照顧我兩個寶貝, 唯有應酬佢; 不過真係好嬲!

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