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(更新)看來老實的工人都偷嘢. [複製鏈接]

ya114

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發表於 07-12-20 13:21 |只看該作者 |正序瀏覽 |打印

之前POST過, 現在仲未解決,現CHANGE 去中文方便大家看..

工人來了4個月, 第一次來香港, 都算聽話, 表面看來肯做.THOUGH 做得是慢D. 好像人都老實. 例如, 我買了生果回來, 而她又知道價錢時,/叫她幫我買時,她會告訴我WHERE 平D. 暫時冇5見$...她剛來到已經說好了規矩, 當然有說明不可偷竊.
有一天, 她去了街市,我心血來潮,想看看她有冇偷我D嘢, SO開她櫃看, 點知有驚人的東西看見…..我看見我的:

1.
一條很CHEAP的, 拾的錬.
我之前放在食飯枱上, 細佬問我要不要,(工人在附近聽到), 我說不要了, 很CHEAP. 細佬說不好掉, 他要.
我在工人回來時問她去了?, 她說在我櫃裡, 她扮找, 當然找不到…我說你找到便給我, 過了1分鐘後,她說找到…

我當時不應該給她樓梯落的, 很後悔….
2.一粒香口…我食開的EXTRA. 我知她没食這的習慣, 而且00舍舍一粒, 很懷疑是我.
3.記事本的紙, 很細本個種, 她偷了我一些…記事本是放在我自己一個櫃裡,而個櫃是在她瞓的房裡.平時屋企人要拎我個度D嘢都問過我先.

現在想請教大家以下問題:
1.
錬個度是否不好再提呢? 我又好想給她知, 我知她偷竊
2.
我屋企人話, 下次不要再揾她的東西看, 因為她可以反咬我一口, 話5見嘢, 上警局我吃虧….但我又諗, 如果5這麼做, 我又點知她偷竊?我都知揾她的東西看是不太好….(我也不喜歡別人這麼做)
3.
你又有冇CHECK工人嘢的習慣?如果工人鎖住D嘢, 咁MEI她偷MUD 都5知?其實好不好工人一來就同她協議, 要間中突擊檢查她的東西?
3. 記事本的紙應該如何話她呢?
4. 仲應不應該信她呢? 當我知道她偷嘢時, 我諗緊, 之前我咁信她,給錢買菜, 冇單, 她有冇呃我?
以後仲好不好叫她買餸呢?
AI…….我好像因為這事很不開心, 簡直不敢相信看到的, 有出賣的感覺….

[ 本文章最後由 ya114 於 07-12-26 22:22 編輯 ]

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ya114

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發表於 08-1-1 17:27 |只看該作者

你每次都買定1week的餸?

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發表於 07-12-30 19:07 |只看該作者

多數自已,間中叫佢,講明要買乜,大慨幾錢ge,
咁佢都無乜斧頭空間.

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ya114

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發表於 07-12-30 14:23 |只看該作者

GUM各位媽媽有冇叫她買菜?OR!自己買,THEN叫她COOK呢?

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發表於 07-12-29 23:13 |只看該作者

原文章由 ilovekids 於 07-12-29 21:03 發表
my maid used many of things which she thought i didn't want to use such as combs, tooth brush, small bags, plastic box, notebooks. She even took the money $20 notes i put in my jeans(i tested her). ...

I have to say that it sounds terrible to live with a maid in this way. Life becomes harder. It really wastes time and energy.

智者千慮必有一失. Good luck.

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ilovekids

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my maid used many of things which she thought i didn't want to use such as combs, tooth brush, small bags, plastic box, notebooks. She even took the money $20 notes i put in my jeans(i tested her). she even told me she brought 50 dollars of foods but in fact it was only 40 ( i know that cos i asked her to buy $10 pork, 5 vege etc...)

at the beginning i was very mad. but i was told 9 out of 10 maids will steal so i have just to be careful...

So i have to checked her drawer sometimes and always remind her not to steal things in the past five years. I also brought a mini safe box at home.. and if she used anything even cheap thing from mine i will tell her i missed something and evetually the thing will come out in some place soon.
so i would say no use to fire her but be careful. they are all liers and love to steal things

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原文章由 ya114 於 07-12-28 22:49 發表
但如果為了只偷好像好濕絮的事fire 她, 會否太誇張?&又要培好多$.......

I think you had better take into consideration her other work performance at your home. If she is ok, you may try to teach her or order her to follow your instructions. If she has many other aspects that you hate as well or you have no hope on her, then consider dismissing her.

You know, to find an ideal or perfect maid is very difficult, we have no alternative but to be realistic. My maid also has some weaknesses that I dislike but she is ok generally, so she is still at my home.

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發表於 07-12-29 14:35 |只看該作者

今日偷小, 明天偷大.

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ya114

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發表於 07-12-28 22:49 |只看該作者

但如果為了只偷好像好濕絮的事fire 她, 會否太誇張?&又要培好多$.......

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ya114

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發表於 07-12-26 22:05 |只看該作者

push.......

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發表於 07-12-25 15:42 |只看該作者

PUSH,PUSH........

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發表於 07-12-21 17:37 |只看該作者

回覆 #16 SandraLo 的文章

100% agreed.
All of my ex-maid and even current maid stole my things. e.g. coins, facial products, food, toys, accessories.......
When I found out, I will question the maid and let her know that employer notice everything she does, good or bad, and give her one chance lor. If happen again, sorry la, she has to go home lah.

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發表於 07-12-21 15:56 |只看該作者

你要同佢講你發現左佢攞你D野即係等同偷野~ 你要警告佢唔好再有下一次~ 因偷野係刑事~ 雖然唔係D咩貴野~ 再有下一次你會報警處理~ 同埋會即刻FIRE佢~ 要佢清楚知道有幾嚴重~
同佢講: 如果佢有咩需要又唔係太貴的話, 你可以買俾佢OR俾佢都得~ 唔得偷...

咁同佢講, 希望佢唔會再有下次啦~

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發表於 07-12-21 15:36 |只看該作者

我嗰個初初嚟都有攞我啲面油紙用, 我喺佢房見到同一牌子o既, 10幾蚊包我諗佢唔捨得買啩!

我冇問佢, 但就喺我放面油紙個盒度寫咗張mark數紙, 我每攞咗一包就寫返個數, 佢洗廁所時一定會見到, 自始我冇再見佢用面油紙, 又唔見佢用另一個牌子o既面油紙, 不過而家我都好小入佢房check嘢lu.

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發表於 07-12-21 15:15 |只看該作者

偷一條毛都係偷.....

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ya114

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發表於 07-12-21 14:38 |只看該作者

or我想太多?memo, cheap的錬,一粒香口珠, 收埋一包餅(可能她有日早餐冇食, so收埋).不是貴.

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發表於 07-12-21 14:17 |只看該作者

eshiro:是, 初頭長氣d都要每月講!
yywong:ai....,maybe ar..

她1st time 來港,初頭見她ok聽話, 暫冇5見$...而且我叫她買生果, 她會話我知去街市會平d, 我叫她哪裡平便買...覺得她ok好, 5貪心.做嘢5是very clean, 但肯做.有d放心...
但自從我發現她偷memo paper, 5知dim解, 我對她起戒心. 她剛問我買d士多啤梨多少$, 我是$8,她話$10...我當堂諗,她是否特登話我知, 等我信她!

見到她都有d5舒服感覺, 怒她.....
dim好呢????

memo paper諗住過2日間接問她,請問有什麼意見?

[ 本文章最後由 ya114 於 07-12-21 14:35 編輯 ]

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發表於 07-12-21 11:52 |只看該作者

ya114,

"是人的話, 都不會開人櫃, 拎人嘢ba?!" <-- their thinking is differently.

yes.. I asked why she knows.. she said she knows it when she was cleaning the room. And I already told her in day 1 that don't touch anything in our workroom except vaccum and mopping the floor..........but then she tried to organized the room .. and take some of the things to the storage room! so i had to tell her again.

however, seems like they will forget things easily... no matter what we tell her on day 1 or things told her a month ago.. eventually, they will jsut forget... so, we just need to keep reminding her and keep checking.

原文章由 ya114 於 07-12-21 10:47 發表
otally understand your case. well, I think you should explicitly tellyour maid that whenever she takes anything from you or your familymember (even you threw away!), she should ask first.

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