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winniehk

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I have a old net friend which we know each others more than 10 year. Right now i was married and have a kid...he still single.

We have developed a special relationship like girl/boy friend, we talked everyday. He is not a HK people. In a month ago, he came to HK for a holiday.....at that time, we are the 1st time to meet....the feeling is strange at the very beginning...after that it become good.

During these few days holidays, we stayted together and spend a sweet time. We didnt have SEX, only kissing and hugging. Since he is a christian, he doesnt want to have a sex with me and sometimes, he said he found guilty towareds my hubby.

I dont know why i develop this relationship with him.. Weenjoy it very much, like好似初戀咁. We are so far away, but so close in heart. Might be my hubby cant give me this kind of feeling. Sometimes, even my hubby at home, we are still talking on phone. I know this is not good to the marriage. But I cant control myself to fall in love with my netfriend. I know I love him. Sometimes. when we talked about the content of whether he is going to get marry with other girl (right now he doesnt has girlfriend). I am unhappy and my tears start to running. Might be I really love him. I know this is so-called "婚外情".

Another complicated situation occured. In this summer, I found a married guy in internet just for sharing the marriage life. But knowing that this guy also has sl (secret lover), we chatted for a few months. For me, I cant talk to my friend regarding the 婚外情 with my netfriend. So this married guy seemed the only person that I can talk to, sharing this matter with him. He also give me some advice.

But in this month, he started to invite me to go out for dinner and watched movie. At 1st meeting, we just chatting in a dinner meeting. However, in yesterday movie, he started to hand my hand....then finally kissed me in the cinema.

But when we went out from the cinema, we become a normal friend. Because we both knowing that we are married, afraid to let my friend to see us in the street to know oour relationship.

For me, also strange, I dont know why i allow him to kiss me, I cant sleep last night, my brain has so many questiom marks..????

Actually, I am not so open-minded person. But this time, i lost my way. Who can share his/her own view to me?

覺得很 enjoy, 好似初戀咁.

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回覆 #65 winniehk 的文章

我作為一個現代的職業女性,我睇唔起你.你可有想過如果你的角色換了你老公, 在出面有第三者, 你會怎樣? 控制自己吧,否則你害了你的下一代....

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發表於 08-1-7 12:36 |只看該作者

如果你老做左以上行為, 你會唔會傷心呢?

"己所不欲, 勿施於人"

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ringoivy

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發表於 08-1-7 11:23 |只看該作者

你唔介意既我咪直接講囉, 你真係妏得下

自己作為一個已婚婦人, 咁容易就墮入人地個圈套同人攬攬鍚鍚

唔話你姣我真係諗唔到其他形容詞黎形容你呀

好彩既係timing唔啱咋, 唔係比個隻hk net fd食左你都未知呀

咁大個人都唔用下個腦諗野

同你傾得埋兩句就話係知己:evil: 個hk net fd擺明係想食free lunch啦

你好快d收拾心情咪再同佢糾纏落去添呀

回歸正傳, 外個既net fd好彩係一個教徒唔係你地又已經有d不清不楚既關係發生左啦

根據上述兩個理由你咁易墮入情網, 做你老公都真係好慘分分鐘帶綠帽

不過家陣頂綠帽睇黎你都已經準備就緒, 差在幾時笠落佢到啫

我勤你咁易動情, 下次要chat就咪鬼搵d男人啦

原文章由 winniehk 於 07-12-23 16:00 發表
I have a old net friend which we know each others more than 10 year. Right now i was married and have a kid...he still single.

We have developed a special relationship like girl/boy friend, we talke ...

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唉...其實呢度個個媽咪完全唔識你, 你估鬧你人地會有著數咩?人地咁講只係想你醒下, 老實講, 你依家根本係對個家生厭, 對屋企所有嘢都覺得太悶, 想去搵d新鮮感, 但你試唸下, 你不停咁搵d唔識(net friend我唔會認同你識, 加上你個case, 只可以叫做各取所需)嘅人黎填補你空虛, 值得咩? 你話你老公比唔到 in love 嘅感覺你, 點解你一定要人地做主動去愛你, 你都可以試下去愛返你老公, 老實講, 人係有感覺架, 你有冇唸過點解你老公會冇 in love嘅感覺比你吖, 係因為你老公同樣係你身上都搵唔到你愛佢嘅感覺, 你依家應該唸清楚, 究竟你仲想唔想要呢個家呢個老公, 如果係yes, 你應該stop晒你其他所有唔應該嘅關係, 用返你嘅精神心機去愛你老公, 同你老公keep返愛嘅感覺

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原文章由 1123cat 於 6/1/2008 11:52 AM 發表
你係唔係,,,係外国長大???
咁開放嘅!

關咩事吖~~~ 唉~
"開放"同"淫亂"根本係兩回事!
我個人就覺得樓主係屬於後者多囉!
我自己就唔係喺外國長大，但我老公、我依度大部朋友...甚至我最唔鍾意既姑仔....夠係喺依度長大啦! 思想都好開放，但就冇一個好似樓主咁亂來囉~~~~ :tongue:
再講，一睇樓主d英文就知佢唔係喺外國長大啦!

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mat28

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CHEAP BOM BOM:tongue:

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purplewan

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winniehk

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發表於 08-1-6 23:27 |只看該作者

回覆 #56 questioning 的文章

Thanks for your sharing!!!

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原文章由 winniehk 於 08-1-6 13:57 發表
just want to share....and speak out will make me feel better. I know...most of you are having a negative feeling.. If i were u, i also scold to this person.

Anyway, i can listen to many different ...

After vewing so many comments, what is your final decision??
Did u stop the weird relationships with the two men??
Did you try to rebuild the realtionship with your husband??
Did you spend more time staying at home with your kids??
Dont waste time on this kind of unrealistic relationships, it will definitely spoil your family.
As long as your husband loves you, why bother to create such kind of problem??
Stay firmly with your husband and kids, it will never be too late.

Good luck!!

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winniehk

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just want to share....and speak out will make me feel better. I know...most of you are having a negative feeling.. If i were u, i also scold to this person.

Anyway, i can listen to many different opioion and then will think deeply about this issue.

When you look at someone's story, u can give them comment easily. But once uare the subject people, your mind will not be clear.

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1123cat

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發表於 08-1-6 11:52 |只看該作者

你係唔係,,,係外国長大???
咁開放嘅!

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發表於 08-1-6 11:45 |只看該作者

嘩！乜你同任何男人都咁容易 kiss ！
我只可以形容你係一個「水性陽花」嘅女人。

靚太唔易做！！

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很佩服winniehk 夠勇氣發表，我的情況跟她的相似，因怕比人罵，不敢發表．

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香港個男人，知道你有婚外情，自然會諗住你唔介意多一段，而且會易上手啦
加上佢亦有個secret lover，多一個唔多
唉！你諗清楚呢個香港男人值唔值得你鍾意啦

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發表於 08-1-5 23:37 |只看該作者

男人同女人真係一樣！
其實你會噤做係因為你唔夠愛你公另一半，如果係好愛的話，唔可能容納到第二/第三個男人係你心裡面！好自然你會拒絕！所以我成日都話感情到就無得解釋，每一個有條件人都一定會經歷這種感覺的！有陣時，唔好睇少女人呀！可以利害過男人，女人係絕情，男人就係多情！

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原文章由 winniehk 於 07-12-23 16:00 發表
I have a old net friend which we know each others more than 10 year. Right now i was married and have a kid...he still single.

We have developed a special relationship like girl/boy friend, we talke ...

你唔駛湊細路咩 ? 工人湊 ? 咁得閒去睇戲既