My wife recently took our son and left me from Hong Kong. My son is 5 months old and born in Hong Kong. and we have been married for 11 months. She's Chinese and she left Hong Kong with him and took him to China without any notices and also refused to bring him back until my son is 16 years old.
Its been a week since I finished work and back to home. When I was back to my home and saw her message.
it said she's keeping my son in China and she will look after of my son without me until my son is 16 years old.
She originally said she was going to take him but she never came back. Turns out she had this whole plan figured out to take him away from me and leave me. They're in China somewhere now but I don't exactly know where and I have no number/address to contact them. I made many calls to her however her phone off. She will not tell her parent where her current address is in China. Our marriage has been very very strained for a while now. I just lost my whole family and I'm feeling very depressed. How can I see my son again? I need advice. What can I do with not much money?
I agreed your point. She is childish and silly. She only completed high school in China.
My son absolutely looks likes me. Don't conduct DNA Test.
I will go to her hometown and discuss with her family regarding this issue.
I read some articles.
we have in the Father’s Rights area of the law is what happens when a wife wants to move out of the house and take the children with her. She has no right to do so because as a married couple, both of you have the same legal rights to joint physical custody and joint legal custody to the kids.
I really want to recover our marriage. Anyway, I will try my best and see what is going.
The baby is lovely. But your wife request doesn't make sense, how can the baby live with her in countryside n able to cope with Australia curriculum when he turned 16?
I think u should conduct a DNA test, it will cost you several thousands. Give something to please her and request her to bring baby to ocean park or Disneyland , something like that, and collect the sample and send it to lab to analyse. There are plenty in Hong Kong, u can check yourself, good luck.
Johnnywalker - Q1. It is concerning for this issue.
Q2. When my son is 16 year old, she wants me to bring my son to study in Australia.
Q3. Her parent is living in China's countryside.
Finally, I met her in China and discuss issues with her for a few hours on Saturday. She is suspicious and stubborn person. Because she was living in China’s Countryside. She imaged our relationship was over and did not feel more loved from me, bullied her and I was given all love to my son. I explained to her I loved both of them and told her that don’t worried too much and don’t be silly. She did not listen. She said you need to go to my hometown and explain everything to my parent. Otherwise, I do not let you go to see your son. She will wait for me in her hometown.
I am thinking that I will take a few days off and go to her hometown after Mid-Autumn Festival.
If I were you, I will not meet her in China, ask her in HK, otherwise, no talk. Pretend you do not care even your son. If she feel you are very care your son and her, she will ask for any unreasonable requests. It is nightmare, settle it as legal as possible. The only way is by law.
From a lady's point of view, I won't leave my husband as long as I still love him or he still loves me. I bet you probably made her be too disappointed, the case is simply a signal to you that you should do something so-called "wrong" during your relations, maybe as you said, you ignore her, or she could not feel your love anymore.
If I really wanna leave my husband, I won't let him reach me in any event. Now, she has promised to meet you again, just take this golden chances to talk to her and figure out the chances to stay together again. Good luck!
What's your background?
You said your wife is a Chinese country girl, how about you?
As I realise you use English but it seems not your native language, may be the cultural difference is the main issue.
To solve the issue, you must probe out the main problem and see if you and/or you wife would like to change, otherwise the problem would go even worse.
You coming meeting is importance opportunity for you to know what she is thinking, remember to hear than say in a sympathy way as you said she is emotional.
Good luck!
@Laumangmang. Perhaps, you are corrected. I think she is jealous of her son. I love my son more than her and she felt ignored. Anyway, I will try to fix up this issue.
Mahou, from your message, I feel you care your kids more than your wife, right? Did you ignore her since the birth of our child. Is it the cause she left? Anyway there is still hope to recover your relationship because she gave you a chance offer.
Don't talk to her too much your son. Just show you're still loving her.
Good luck man!
I got message for my wife that it said she will going out to have a tea with m ...
I don't know what issue you are going to discuss with her, but both of you must be practical and reasonable to settle the matter at the interest of the kid. Just update us here! Good luck.
I got message for my wife that it said she will going out to have a tea with me and discuss about this issue this weekend. She said she will not bring my son to see me until this issue fixed. So, what can I do to prepare for her?Any Advices given will be appreciated.
abviously she wants to leave u and takes your son along, if she needs money from u, that's better cause she will be contacting you, dont give her money until u see her and your son's face, but if she can support her own in china, and she is not coming back to HK, nothing u really do, or the poilce can do....china is very big she can easily hide from u, maybe u should start looking where her roundabouts in china.
don't get too distracted or concerned which whatever you hear about certain place or people, it could be just hearsay and may not reflect the truth and besides, it's different case for different people.
right now, it'd be advisable to focus and deal with the matters in hand and hopefully, you'll get some ideas on what to do next. good luck.
Thanks for any advices.
Recently, I heard some Negative news from China. I do not want happening with my family. I will ask the Free Legal Advice scheme and see what they advise.
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