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mine is very naughty, he cries to get attention..... he's v spoiled now....

help !!!

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swongsk,

seems like lucas is too smart~ he probably thinks he knows how to do/say that already.. no need to continue.. maybe you can try to give him more motivation to keep on doing / saying things he already knows how ... well, try to see if you can find out the reason why he 'shake his head', too ... it might be something happened that associate calling mami to that... therefore, he is trying to avoid it happens again~

I think you can praise him or give him a kiss next time when he do / say something ... to give him more motivation to do it.

Don't worry, they all have different personalities.. it just takes time to find the appropriate way to guide and to teach for each baby~

原文章由 swongsk 於 08-4-21 15:29 發表
eshiro & fion2504 - you r so lucky, your boys like to speak. lucas knows how to say mama, he said it for 3 weeks, suddenly stop. whenever i say, "say mama", he will shake his head. yesterday i taught ...

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eshiro & fion2504 - you r so lucky, your boys like to speak. lucas knows how to say mama, he said it for 3 weeks, suddenly stop. whenever i say, "say mama", he will shake his head. yesterday i taught him to say "mimi", then he said" ma-mi" i was so happy. he said ma-mi a few times. then he knew how to say mi-mi (that's what i taught him), then he stopped saying it now. once he's accomplished sth, he will stop..... headache!!

原文章由 eshiro 於 08-4-21 11:21 發表
enoch also like to call 爸爸,媽媽,姐姐, yeah yeah, 'mar mar' whenever he wants to get that person's attention (he also keeps calling 姐姐 to the waitresses at the restaurant....)

last nite, when enoc ...

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enoch also like to call 爸爸,媽媽,姐姐, yeah yeah, 'mar mar' whenever he wants to get that person's attention (he also keeps calling 姐姐 to the waitresses at the restaurant....)

last nite, when enoch half-awake and saw me.. he also called 媽媽 softly.. and then fell back into sleep....... so funny.

原文章由 fion2504 於 08-4-20 00:47 發表
不過小叭真係好鍾意叫爸爸,媽媽,姐姐.......個d的.佢最鍾意就係你busy緊時叫你, 之後佢就指住d o野話俾你知, 好似今日大家去飲茶,我坐係到同家姐d囡完, 佢係我隔來就成日叫媽媽, 回應佢就指o野俾我睇, 重複咁做, 好 ...

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不過小叭真係好鍾意叫爸爸,媽媽,姐姐.......個d的.佢最鍾意就係你busy緊時叫你, 之後佢就指住d o野話俾你知, 好似今日大家去飲茶,我坐係到同家姐d囡完, 佢係我隔來就成日叫媽媽, 回應佢就指o野俾我睇, 重複咁做, 好攪笑o架.

原文章由 swongsk 於 08-4-18 23:38 發表
i don't know if you have the same problem or just me. i taught lucas a few phrases/words eg mama, dada etc he used to say it after me quite happily; but suddenly when i said, "say mama", he will shake ...

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發表於 08-4-19 10:22 |只看該作者

bryan has the same problem. he can't speak much, even rare to say "mama"

he can express more by gestures.

原文章由 swongsk 於 08-4-18 23:38 發表
i don't know if you have the same problem or just me. i taught lucas a few phrases/words eg mama, dada etc he used to say it after me quite happily; but suddenly when i said, "say mama", he will shake ...

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i don't know if you have the same problem or just me. i taught lucas a few phrases/words eg mama, dada etc he used to say it after me quite happily; but suddenly when i said, "say mama", he will shake his head & turn away. he doesn't like speaking v much, but he prefers gestures eg ching ching, bye bye, touch your head, clap hands etc. when i ask him to speak, he will often shake his head or cry??????

原文章由 fion2504 於 08-4-18 01:12 發表
我都係咁教小叭ｏ架，小叭都可以大聲叫媽媽／爸爸／姐姐幫佢拿ｏ野ｏｒ同佢玩，唔再用喊好耐了．我出街，佢又想去，跑來喊時，我就會同佢講，媽媽去ｘｘｘ，好快回來，小叭食粥仔／餅仔／橙／訓一陣／同姐姐玩一陣，媽媽好快回來，你同媽媽講bye bye先，跟住我就會好開 ...

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我都係咁教小叭ｏ架，小叭都可以大聲叫媽媽／爸爸／姐姐幫佢拿ｏ野ｏｒ同佢玩，唔再用喊好耐了．我出街，佢又想去，跑來喊時，我就會同佢講，媽媽去ｘｘｘ，好快回來，小叭食粥仔／餅仔／橙／訓一陣／同姐姐玩一陣，媽媽好快回來，你同媽媽講bye bye先，跟住我就會好開心咁話good boy佢就唔再喊了．

有時候佢想玩一樣ｏ野，我唔俾佢，佢喊，我就會同佢講，你喊媽媽唔會俾ｏ架，你say please, thank you / sorry先啦，唔好再喊了．一般都ｏｋ的．

原文章由 eshiro 於 08-4-17 11:34 發表
miffy0824,

i don't really have any particular method. But since he was little when I play with him, I will keep saying things like 'give mama', 'give jer jer', 'mama xxxxx', 'baba xxxxx'... and eve ...

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swongsk,

haha.. totally agreed! these babies are changing everyday... or should I say.. every moment! They were so bad at this moment and then suddenly sooo sweet... just can't really predict.

well, we add oil together, I am sure Lucas is a good boy, and for sure , a smart boy... as he knows how to use his ultimate power ... keke :)

原文章由 swongsk 於 08-4-17 21:07 發表
thx eshiro, will try that with lucas. teaching children is a real challenge with ups & downs. yesterday he was really really bad, today he behaved like an angel. i put him to bed & said good nite bb, ...

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thx eshiro, will try that with lucas. teaching children is a real challenge with ups & downs. yesterday he was really really bad, today he behaved like an angel. i put him to bed & said good nite bb, then i closed the door; no crying!! now i can watch tv & do my own things... what a blessing!!!

原文章由 eshiro 於 08-4-17 11:43 發表
swongsk,

honestly, it's hard to teach baby when there are others around.. especially the grandparents (unless they are the strict type). Babies are smart.. they know those people will be the shelter ...

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miffy0824,

i don't really have any particular method. But since he was little when I play with him, I will keep saying things like 'give mama', 'give jer jer', 'mama xxxxx', 'baba xxxxx'... and every morning, will say 'good morning enoch', 'good morning baba', .... even good morning to my cats.

I think that is the first step to identify / introduce everyone to him first....

And when he try to give us something or get our attentions but not saying the right things - e.g. give us something supposed to say "唔該"... and if he is trying to get my attention but without saying 'mama', then I will turn my face to the other side .. and kept saying '叫 mama 先 la.. 叫 mama 先 la.. " ... until he called mama lor. After he did that, I will then said 'good boy la... next time remember to 叫 mama 先 ma!"

And if he screaming at my maid .. I will then tell him to "叫 jei jei, that is jei jei ar"

I think practise makes perfect..... after 'brain washing' him repeatly... eventually, he knows the rules of the game.

now, when he wants to get my cats' attention, he will call their names, too ... even my cats will run away most of the time

原文章由 miffy0824 於 08-4-17 09:52 發表
eshiro,

How do you teach enoch to call the name instead of crying or screaming to get the person's attention?

Can you pls share?

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發表於 08-4-17 11:45 |只看該作者

thanks eshiro~ let me try to brainwash my girl sin

原文章由 eshiro 於 08-4-17 11:34 發表
miffy0824,

i don't really have any particular method. But since he was little when I play with him, I will keep saying things like 'give mama', 'give jer jer', 'mama xxxxx', 'baba xxxxx'... and eve ...

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swongsk,

honestly, it's hard to teach baby when there are others around.. especially the grandparents (unless they are the strict type). Babies are smart.. they know those people will be the shelter.

better to do it at home... sotry to do more practise at home first and not to give in on lucas' crying... you can let him cry in the playpen or the particula spot.... and talk to him gently what you want from him before you fulfill his request.

Once he stopped, you can give him a hug and praise him that he is a good boy and listen to mommy. Moreover, when enoch gets really really naughty, I also tried this more serious way to teach enoch... I will say "stop crying la.. one!.. two!.. three!.." with a firm tone (but not an angry tone) and seems he will stop after I finished counting three... then I immediately hug him and said "good la".... after a period of time by doing so... when in public or with grandparents and he was crying for something, I will then said the same... then he will stop (at least pause for awhile..) and then I will use other stuffs to distract his attention.

Just remember it takes time ... so, you just need to be consistency on your approach.

原文章由 swongsk 於 08-4-16 22:56 發表
tonight, my son put on a show at my parents, crying non stop for 40 mins during dinner. i refused to hold him until he stopped crying, he screamed, stamped his feet etc in the end he calmed down a lit ...

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原文章由 miffy0824 於 08-4-17 09:52 發表
eshiro,

How do you teach enoch to call the name instead of crying or screaming to get the person's attention?

Can you pls share?

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eshiro,

How do you teach enoch to call the name instead of crying or screaming to get the person's attention?

Can you pls share?

原文章由 eshiro 於 08-4-15 15:17 發表
swongsk,

enoch will also cry to get what he wants (if we insist not to give it to him)... so, we tried to lecture him gently. Very often, I will use other stuffs to redirect his attention... it wor ...

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irenepok,

天才保母 , by Jo Frost

Hope this helps...

原文章由 irenepok 於 08-4-16 14:20 發表
Do you know what is the chinese name of the book? As my son is also very naughter and he would stamp his feet and twist his body to get what he want.

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我覺得YATHEI 都明好多野好SMART
只係仲唔係好適應人多場合
比著你第一之去D 新地方
你都驚啦
上次姐姐同佢玩, 都FEEL 到佢明好多野
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我都覺得可能佢地唔識表達，所以成日發老脾.. yathei有時同我講一連串野, 我有時真係估唔到, 咁佢就開始炆, 跟住step the feet & scream...
我想同佢講道理, 但佢好似唔明咁, 繼續發脾氣. 唔理佢咩, 佢就 ...

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原文章由 swongsk 於 08-4-16 22:56 發表
tonight, my son put on a show at my parents, crying non stop for 40 mins during dinner. i refused to hold him until he stopped crying, he screamed, stamped his feet etc in the end he calmed down a lit ...

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回覆 #1 swongsk 的文章

swongsk,
if that's me, i think i will let my baby cry safely in the cot. i agree that they don't understand everything at this stage but i think consistency can make them understand.

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