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我想問下各姊妹, 你地係香港申請左移民先過去美國抑或過左去先係美國申請? 我老公係美國公民, 我地如果可以係美國一邊生活一邊申請(我唔工作)是否時間上比較好控制? 請指教...

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原文章由 cross-stitchma 於 08-5-2 15:15 發表
我下月就移民去LA, 之前都有去過, 但旅行同定居係2兩事, 你地覺得呢

cross-stitchma,

Totally agreed, visiting and staying in a place are 2 different things. When I first visited SF, I liked it as the air's fresher, the sky's blue (no way to see blue sky in HK, too much pollution), so much green and everything's just so nice. But, when I went back to HK, I was so glad that I was home. After several visits to here, I received my visa and I needed to make the decision either to come or not. I got so lucky that I had my boyfriend (my husband now) here and it made my transition easily (but my emotions still fluctuated). Well, I let myself to feel sorry for a short while and then I told myself that I needed to move on. The best way is to accept that life is not always be perfect, then to explore the good parts and get used to the living here. I gave myself 2 years : if I did not like this place, I could go back to HK with no regrets. However, I married in 1 year and now have 2 kids; I have nowhere to go

My hubby always teases me that I can go back to HK, earn a lot of money and be a happy single woman again. He wishes, I will never set him free

More important, I will never leave my 2 little ones.

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I would love to. Let's stay in touch.

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Yeah rikaG, you are right. I am learing to this : Look at the sunny side of everything and make your optimism come true. Hope that I can move back to HK eventually, but still I will try to live in here happily everyday. When you get here, you can call me....

原文章由 rikaG 於 08-8-14 23:38 發表
We are also working on move to SF lah, my hubby took us to spent the whole summer / winter holidays at SF (actuallyb live in a house)in different area ( Sonoma, Tiburon, Mill Valley, Sasaulito and SF ...

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We are also working on move to SF lah, my hubby took us to spent the whole summer / winter holidays at SF (actuallyb live in a house)in different area ( Sonoma, Tiburon, Mill Valley, Sasaulito and SF city ) in the past couple years, so I can get a real feel of how does it feels when you really live there......I think he isi trying to make me feel better, as you said, to having a vacation or to live there is different, I am also feeling very unsure too. One of the Mommy said "既來之則安之" which I thinki is a very positive atittude, I will take her advise and try to find some fun when live there......do not always remind yourself all the good things about Hong Kong and how bad is in US, try to find out something good where you are living, that might help!
加油啊, 大家都要努力在目前情況下令自己開開心心地生活!

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No, not yet! If you are interested, pm me your phone no. because there is a company in HK said that they can help you to get your maid to USA.

原文章由 SY_Mom 於 08-8-12 12:13 發表
isaac.cheng,

has your attroney found out what's the minmum wage for hiring a maid in the bay area? just curious ....
also, how did you proof that u couldn't find someone in here?
sounds very complic ...

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Thank you, SY_Mom.
Hope that I can get a job soon lar! Cross your fingers and totes for me !

原文章由 SY_Mom 於 08-8-13 00:43 發表
isaac.cheng,

i sort of understood your current situation.
if u really wanna go back to work, find a job and find a day-care or nanny.

it seems to me that the earlier that the kids go to day-care the ...

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AlisonLi, I am not like that before....but maybe I was too down when I wrote that message. Well, I will hope for the best and lucky that HappyMat lives very closed to me. So I do hanging around with BK moms in the bay area, hahahaha.....It's good to have goals and dreams....I set moving back to Hong Kong is my goal and dream, Cool!

原文章由 ALISONLI 於 08-8-12 23:19 發表
issac.cheng,
u sound so pessimistic. try hanging out with more moms in the area. when u get to know more people, hopefully you can look at things differently. good luck!

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isaac.cheng,

i sort of understood your current situation.
if u really wanna go back to work, find a job and find a day-care or nanny.

it seems to me that the earlier that the kids go to day-care the more they behave and independent.
for my friends' kids who go to day-care before 1, they're very well-behaved, independent and socialable.

原文章由 SY_Mom 於 08-8-12 12:13 發表
isaac.cheng,

has your attroney found out what's the minmum wage for hiring a maid in the bay area? just curious ....
also, how did you proof that u couldn't find someone in here?
sounds very complic ...

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issac.cheng,
u sound so pessimistic. try hanging out with more moms in the area. when u get to know more people, hopefully you can look at things differently. good luck!

原文章由 Isaac.cheng 於 08-8-12 03:10 發表
I am thinking about getting my maid a H1 visa...but I know it's very difficult to get. But anyway, may give it a try later. You don't know how hard to live here especially everything in here is wors ...

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isaac.cheng,

has your attroney found out what's the minmum wage for hiring a maid in the bay area? just curious ....
also, how did you proof that u couldn't find someone in here?
sounds very complicated ....

原文章由 Isaac.cheng 於 08-8-12 03:10 發表
I am thinking about getting my maid a H1 visa...but I know it's very difficult to get. But anyway, may give it a try later. You don't know how hard to live here especially everything in here is wors ...

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I am thinking about getting my maid a H1 visa...but I know it's very difficult to get. But anyway, may give it a try later. You don't know how hard to live here especially everything in here is worse than HK, such as economy, shopping, dining, and friends......If my husband tells me that he wants to move back to Hong Kong one day, I would happy to die.

原文章由 babesiu 於 08-8-11 18:35 發表
呢樣先慘呀！做慣太太洗慣工人而家乜都要自己落手落腳做喎mouth: 算啦，咪enjoy做個full time mom囉．By the way,有無諗幫工人出travel visa過嚟幾個月幾個月咁幫你姐？話要佢倍你呀媽過嚟探你，所以幫佢出visa咁囉．．．
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