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auroraszesze

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頭先同9962那邊的人到酒樓吃慶祝母親節的飯。
食到第2道菜，阿女(7歲半)細細声話唔想食，因為見到62 &姑媽吮完自己對筷子後，就再在碟裏像炒菜般左摷右摷

。我同C6講要公筷，但佢無理，我又唔方便出声

，唯有住边忽餸無口水溦至夾俾阿女！
但大家都知咁係有幾難！終於阿女拒絕咗2,3道菜，C6先死死氣同waiter攞公筷，死人99即時發脾氣話"一家人"食飯唔洗用公筷，少少傷風之麻！(死火，原來有人有傷風，佢唔講我都唔知！

)
無理佢，繼續食，到上炒飯，99就攪屎棍特登"提"62講用公匙,62發火大罵話知la,跟住鬧咗一輪，我阿女唔知俾人鬧緊，所以仲開開心心咁食碗飯，我呢緊係背脊骨落la!
唔知點解今次完全無想話立即走，只係稔下次再係咁唔用公筷，唔駛旨意見到我地！

我話番俾阿女知佢俾人閙，佢好委屈咁問：「係咪我錯？」
我當然話唔係la.........
最後阿女話唔想再同佢地食飯，嗱，係阿女自己決定，唔關我事！

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我老爺又係講同一番說話,真係唔知話你無知好,定鬧爆佢好

原文章由 bblou 於 08-5-8 15:16 發表
我老公屋企班生番又係甘, 有人病又成日摷送, 叫佢地用公筷, 我6299又係甘話"自已屋企人食飯, 唔洗用公筷", 佢地究竟明唔明"自已屋企人食飯"係一回事, 用公筷又係另外一回事. 一d衛生常識都無! ...

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原文章由 carrievic 於 08-5-5 16:37 發表

我屋企那個ｐｋ大伯，食飯就最鍾意左望右望，睇到鍾意個件就夾個件，又摷餸，食野唔係合埋個口，而係打開個口，食到鬼死吟大聲，一ｄ禮貌都冇，帶飯又係雖雖格吟，夾幾件又望吓，夾幾件又望吓，睇吓夠唔夠，睇吓仲有冇ｄ好ｄ架，係都要放到滿為止，人地都 ...

妖，我最鬼討厭人摷餸，好唔開胃的

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ac321

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Yes, I will be 99 20+ years later when my son get marry!

That's what I told before, if your 自己屋企 and 阿媽屋企都係用公筷 => then I support you use 公筷 with your 62/99!

If 自己屋企 and 阿媽屋企都not用公筷, but you only require use 公筷 when eat with your 62/99 => You start the 'fight' between you and your 66/99! (may be you are too free and want to find something to do.......)
And your husband will be under high pressure! ! !

If you don't like my point, just go ahead. It doesn't matter. But don't forget the feeling of your husband! This will directly affect the relationship between you and your husband.

Good luck!

P.S. 62 & 99 are not 大哂, but don't forget they are your husband's parent! So, be considerate the feeling of your husband ...........

原文章由 auroraszesze 於 08-5-5 18:48 發表

ac321,
我自己屋企同阿媽屋企都係用公筷的
They can share their saliva with their son if their son don't
mind. But pls remember I'm not their daughter. No way to be so close with them!
Yes, they are really dirty.
They are not my parent! They are his parent!
They are my daughter's grandfather/grandmother (only,
not father & mother) but is that means they have to share their saliva & virus & bacteria between us?
62 & 99 大哂?
我今次最錯就係一開始忘記問waiter取公筷，係呀我失職呀，疏忽照顧女兒，令佢有被傳染之危險，駛唔駛告我虐兒？
你估我以前無同C6提過、拗過咩？佢都覺得佢地dirty &唔講衞生，但佢衰愚孝，認為阿媽有錯都唔可以指正，我做人新抱好艱難無地位(又話一家人ge?)，似終人地阿媽嚟，唔可以出声ga, 出声就叫不孝，唯有等佢開口，佢又唔開口，你話點la?

你係咪6299個边Ｄ人嚟ga?
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doramoon

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發表於 08-5-8 13:13 |只看該作者

我老公個邊d親戚就一定要用公筷
因為方便摷餸

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愛麗斯傳說

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我奶奶屋企都好少用公筷......但係去姑奶屋企就有用囉......不過大家都唔會死摷難摷......

講真......又唔係d咩大件事....只係小朋友慣左要用公筷.....咁咪用囉.......洗唔洗鬧呀......呢d都係習慣....

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auroraszesze

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原文章由 ac321 於 08-5-5 10:17 發表
sorry to say that: (based on you don't know your 62/99 was sick at that moment. )

It is not related to 一家人 or not!
If you use 公筷 when you eat at home with your husband and son/daughter, then, ...

ac321,
我自己屋企同阿媽屋企都係用公筷的
They can share their saliva with their son if their son don't
mind. But pls remember I'm not their daughter. No way to be so close with them!
Yes, they are really dirty.
They are not my parent! They are his parent!
They are my daughter's grandfather/grandmother (only,
not father & mother) but is that means they have to share their saliva & virus & bacteria between us?
62 & 99 大哂?
我今次最錯就係一開始忘記問waiter取公筷

，係呀我失職呀，疏忽照顧女兒，令佢有被傳染之危險，駛唔駛告我虐兒？
你估我以前無同C6提過、拗過咩？佢都覺得佢地dirty &唔講衞生，但佢衰愚孝，認為阿媽有錯都唔可以指正，我做人新抱好艱難無地位(又話一家人ge?)，似終人地阿媽嚟，唔可以出声ga, 出声就叫不孝，唯有等佢開口，佢又唔開口，你話點la?

你係咪6299個边Ｄ人嚟ga?

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十月變形記

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我都好驚o架, 因為我99成日都 ~~ 啜乾淨隻羹同筷子 ~~ 先挾餸

以前會夾俾我, 但我即刻夾番去俾c6, 同埋話"我食咗好多啦", 試多幾次之後先冇再夾俾我咋!

佢仲會啜完之後將d食物分開, 即係件點心食一半時就好"乾淨"唔好有汁痴住

十月變形記: http://hk.myblog.yahoo.com/bibu-fish

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嘩! 你62 同姑奶好核突....
唔洗理佢地喇, 下次自己叫伙記拎多對筷子, 再唔係唔鬼去食添

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原文章由 E@V 於 08-5-4 02:04 發表
好核突!

我地屋企無用公筷..但係唔會用自己對筷子摷黎摷去嘛!!

不過老公有班親戚, 食飯時會有一碗湯, 個個用自己隻匙就咁一啖啖咁畢黎飲!! ...

我屋企那個ｐｋ大伯，食飯就最鍾意左望右望，睇到鍾意個件就夾個件，又摷餸，食野唔係合埋個口，而係打開個口，食到鬼死吟大聲，一ｄ禮貌都冇，帶飯又係雖雖格吟，夾幾件又望吓，夾幾件又望吓，睇吓夠唔夠，睇吓仲有冇ｄ好ｄ架，係都要放到滿為止，人地都要食架，不知所謂．．．．．

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我覺得平時一家人食飯唔用公筷都OK...其實有咩傷風咳，用唔用公筷都會好快傳染...如果生活簡單既，D菌來來去去都係差不多，身體可以適應，唔會下下病。

99或其他人一齊食，當然要用公筷啦，果D菌唔同屋企果幾隻，交叉感染好易病。

我99上屋企食飯都係，明明每碟都有隻公叉或公匙，係都要用自己食過既筷子攪來攪去，筷子夾唔到係咁，有湯汁既又係咁，好噁心。有時我乾脆開個罐頭五香肉丁自己食算數。

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wah!! 我 99 都係咁架!! 好中意 '損' 完自己對快 d 就去摷吓 d 餸!! 又中意 '損' 完對快 d 呢就去夾餸比我, 我次次都唔食架!!
就算有公快呢, 佢都唔會用架, 會話: ai! 唔知呀, 我唔駛用架!!

大佬, 心諗, 唔係你唔駛用, 係人地要你用呀!!!

佢仲要成日開口埋口話自己幾乾淨, 但係我眼見就唔多係囉!! 因為佢好中意落手食野, 食乜都中意用手食, 係屋企係咁, 係出面食野又係咁, 但係用手食野之前係唔會洗手架 wor!! 咁你地話對手有幾乾淨丫????
所以我次次食飯我都係第一個就夾餱, 食食食, 食左先, 我情願冇禮貌好過食佢口水尾!!

仲有最令我見到嘔心既一次係, 佢留餸比 c6 亞哥既老婆 (佢地係一齊住既), wah!! 見住佢 '損' 乾 '損' 淨自己對快子就夾淨番既餸係一個已經食哂餸既碟上面, 仲要每夾完一樣餸就再 '損' 乾淨個快子先夾!!
wah!! 我見到之後... 我連佢之後整既餸都唔係咁敢食呀!!!!!

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我兩邊屋企都有用公筷嘅習慣，就算無公筷都唔會摷餸，但有病o個個一定會用公筷，而且我屋企有工人，就更加要用公筷，我覺得留餸都會衛生d，無咁易壞啦！

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用公筷都唔代表衛生啦，我6299就算用公筷夾餸，佢地都會將對公筷夾既餸"隊"到落佢碗啲飯面先放，用匙羹"不"既餸都一樣，個羹會掂到佢啱啱"爬"完嗰啲飯架，跟住對公筷&個羹又放返落碟餸度喎，即係點都有佢地口水尾啦

，連c6都係咁，話過佢幾次都係咁

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MUST USE 公筷 and 公 serving spoons! Even just between my husband and I and the kids. Everyday... every meal... no exception.

[ 本文章最後由 IaMMoYY 於 08-5-5 10:20 編輯 ]

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sorry to say that: (based on you don't know your 62/99 was sick at that moment. )

It is not related to 一家人 or not!
If you use 公筷 when you eat at home with your husband and son/daughter, then, you should ask your 62 and 99 use 公筷.
If not, (i.e. you (as a mother) are not using 公筷 when you eat with your son/daughter/husband at your home......... but you require your husband's parent use 公筷 when they eat with their son (your husband)/grandson!

If I am your husband, I will be very angry! Why you can share the 筷子 with your daughter, and my mother/father cannot share 筷子 with me (their son)? It is because my father/mother is not 一家人, right??? They are dirty, right????
Do you want to tell me that they are not my parent? They are not my daughter's grandfather/grandmother?