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I'm going to the lb tribunal to fight with the PK Yan next week.

One day I pointed out her mistake and tried to correct her (not scold at all, but urged her in a mild tone), she appeared very angry and suddenly said, "I go out la". Then within 9 second, she took her handbag (not other belongings) and rushed out. I thought she was angry to have some rest time out and so I told her to taked some time off and come back to talk about her mistake at night. (Actually she has the habit of going out for personal businesses as time-off during week days, but of course I usually allowed her, that's why I assumed her going out for a rest to calm down is just normal). I couldn't sense that she was to run-away. That's it. But then she accused me of expelling her out of house and do not let her back. SHe even described how I throw her stuff out of the house, OMG. And of course, the argument is on whether I fired her at that point of time. Of course, I did everything afterwards to look for her, and urged her to resume work (I kept all the letters/things that I've done and sent to the tribunal as supportings already).

May I ask mummies here that, if the judge asks me anything about "were you angry", "were you dissatisfied with her performance" , "did you scold" her, "did you thought of replacing her cus she's such a bad maid?" I should tell the judge "not angry", "not dissatisfied" , "no thinking about replacing her at that moment.", would be advantageous to myself.

Anybody here can help please???

Just today i find that i lost 8 pounds since she's gone. Iam very shcoked and hope the reading is a mistake (it's my lowest record ever). Now my new maid arrived and it's a little better.I am always tired and no appetite to eat.

[ 本文章最後由 pollyw 於 08-6-4 15:17 編輯 ]

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原文章由 qqqqqq 於 08-6-5 20:01 發表

. I let my daughter read your post, she also laught.

After saying all these, it makes me feel much much better...... God is really fair to all..

Yup, no matter how much money she makes, her big but is still going to stay with her for the whole rest of her life....she deserve it!!!:;pppp: :;pppp:

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原文章由 pollyw 於 08-6-5 19:02 發表
One thing worth noting is that: When I met the cheap Yan in the TRibunal yesterday, I foind that she has become even fatter than b4 (she was already very fat when she was in my house). Her big botto ...

. I let my daughter read your post, she also laught.

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原文章由於 08-6-5 18:44 發表

煩到我講唔到 ar

過客 ,
I read some of your posts and learnt that your maid just finished contract and was pregnant. But what's the problem then?? Don't you open a new topic to discuss??

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One thing worth noting is that: When I met the cheap Yan in the TRibunal yesterday, I foind that she has become even fatter than b4 (she was already very fat when she was in my house). Her big bottom makes her look really likea hippo swinging left and right. Even the door of the court is not wide enough for her to go through.

Comparing to me, it's a big contrast. (I've almost have no bottom...

) I can assure anyone that once you see her real fXXking face you will be very eager to punch across her face. How I wish I can post her picture here to let everybody know how "Yeung sui" she is. I believe her big but is the biggest punishment that God has given this nerd (to be such an ugly bitch). Hehe....!!!:;pppp:

[ 本文章最後由 pollyw 於 08-6-5 19:56 編輯 ]

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pollyw, I feel so sorry for you. After reading so many tribunal cases on BK, I have lost faith to all maids. Maybe I will just discontinue to use a maid when my BB gets to kindergarden or primary school, or maybe hire a part-time chinese maid a few times per week.

You never know what the maid will do to you. Alas, the maid is just an outsider/stranger.

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原文章由 pollyw 於 08-6-5 16:47 發表

Hey, don't you tell what it is so that moms here can help?

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原文章由 pollyw 於 08-6-5 11:06 發表

Thanks qqqqq and winnie-sh,

Thanks for your words of encouragement. Emotionally I really got hurt this time....I've had almost 10 years experience of hirring foreign helpers, and even with the wo ...

Watch movies, listen music , read books and give a big hug to your husband that can make you relax. Let it gone. BTW, you are lucky that you can lose your weight, I hope I can lose my weight.

when I handle the trouble maid I didn't lose any, even 1 lb.

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原文章由過客於 08-6-5 16:46 發表

救命 ar

Hey, don't you tell what it is so that moms here can help?

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原文章由 pollyw 於 08-6-5 16:40 發表

What is it???

救命 ar

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原文章由過客於 08-6-5 13:32 發表

教命 ar !

What is it???

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原文章由 pollyw 於 08-6-5 11:06 發表

Thanks qqqqq and winnie-sh,

Thanks for your words of encouragement. Emotionally I really got hurt this time....I've had almost 10 years experience of hirring foreign helpers, and even with the wo ...

教命 ar !

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原文章由 qqqqqq 於 08-6-5 07:35 發表

除咗工人"教"咗好多嘢比我,等我知道如何"對待和招呼"工人外,其實,多啲上BK學到好多嘢 .

Thanks qqqqq and winnie-sh,

Thanks for your words of encouragement. Emotionally I really got hurt this time....I've had almost 10 years experience of hirring foreign helpers, and even with the worst performing helpers before, I could still maintain a fairly nice relationship with those helpers, except this time. Indeed, just like what the conciliation officer said, "Come on, 當比錢送隻瘟神走啦!!拒地梗係衰架啦,唔衰拒地印尼國家就唔會咁腐敗啦!"

I totally have no confidence at all for now and hope I can recover very soon and work normally with my current new maid. I have given up doing excercises since the runaway maid started her job in my house to create problem 3 months ago (in order to make good the job that she could nt help me when she was around), and my weight dropped tremendously since then. I hope my life and my family can get back to normal operation from now on.

[ 本文章最後由 pollyw 於 08-6-5 12:02 編輯 ]

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原文章由 qqqqqq 於 08-6-5 07:35 發表

除咗工人"教"咗好多嘢比我,等我知道如何"對待和招呼"工人外,其實,多啲上BK學到好多嘢 .

Actually it seems resolved and I was a bit fine yesterday. But then my new maid just told me that she heard a lot of waht happened to the run away maid from the other Yans around our area.

Then I recall the way the Yans were staring at me when I went downstairs to pick my kids from the school bus stop. They even chat a little and stared at me and then chat again and stared at me repeatingly. To my surprise that the run away maid had been here only for one and a half month and the rumour can spread so far. But whereas over the past two years when I had a nice relationship with my ex-Bun, nobody will spread about it. Afterall I still have to face the "eyesight" of all these Yans everyday and I don't know if I can coach my current Yan well enough to make her not be influnced by the Yans around.

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原文章由 winnie_sh 於 08-6-5 00:15 發表

無錯，起碼學會保障自己及家人，下次做僱主就無有怕！

除咗工人"教"咗好多嘢比我,等我知道如何"對待和招呼"工人外,其實,多啲上BK學到好多嘢

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原文章由 qqqqqq 於 08-6-4 17:36 發表

Polly, no matter what the result is or how much you paid for that , just want to tell you that forget it and you really try your best to facing it. Everytime when I hire maid, I can learn something from her, those experiences let me learned how to protect myself and my family; those experiences let me learned how to treat my maid next time.

無錯，起碼學會保障自己及家人，下次做僱主就無有怕！

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原文章由 pollyw 於 08-6-4 15:33 發表
Finally I attended the hearing this moring. The female judege is "inch" but doesn't attack both teh maid and me much (though she inched both of us too).

At last both parties agreed for a conciliati ...

Polly, no matter what the result is or how much you paid for that , just want to tell you that forget it and you really try your best to facing it. Everytime when I hire maid, I can learn something from her, those experiences let me learned how to protect myself and my family; those experiences let me learned how to treat my maid next time.

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Finally I attended the hearing this moring. The female judege is "inch" but doesn't attack both teh maid and me much (though she inched both of us too).

At last both parties agreed for a conciliation (cus I know I cannot afford more time on it, I'm really exhausted). Then, after getting out of the tribunal, my C6 was responsible for negotiation with the Officer. I did not have compromise with my C6 beforehand about the concilaition amount...So, , c6 started with offering an extra amount of $1400 apart from those she really entitles (like air ticket, outstanding wages). That means the argument was on $4000, out of which I paid $1400. And immediately the maid accepted. (Then I regreted since it sounds like this amount is far above her expection and that's why she accepts without hesitation) . But anyway, my c6 told me afterwards that he doesn't want me to get involved in this affair anymore. My mood is still OK now, not happy or sad, but just want to totally forget about the PK Yan's face ASAP.

One thing worth noting is taht the Yan has no Christian parties' legal advisers to accompany her. THough she has 8 to 9 other stupid maids to attend the court with her. A few of them even bowed to me to say thanks when I left.

It's actually a nice experience for me to aprticipate in teh court. Though I may not say I enjoy, but it widens my horizon....

[ 本文章最後由 pollyw 於 08-6-4 15:39 編輯 ]

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原文章由 qqqqqq 於 08-5-31 09:35 發表

winnie_sh, you are really helpful. Actually , I already finished my case in tribunal last week. The judge really crazy and unfair. At the end, I won but not fully. Why we need to fright with the m ...

I am sure you have created a record among the maids to give them idea that it's not that easy to get the money from employers which they don't deserve.

[ 本文章最後由 pollyw 於 08-5-31 10:18 編輯 ]

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