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我第一次請工人,噚晚個印印終於嚟咗我屋企,其實我都冇expect啲咩,但估唔到真係好似嚟咗個外星人咁...我媽咪一帶佢入屋,我就已經聞到啲"貓C味",咁我都好醒,即刻叫佢沖涼先,點知佢除咗識聽"先生","太太"同"明唔明白"之外,其他都要靠身體動作+試範先明,完全溝通唔到...仲有,佢個袋裡面嘅衫直情係有陣陣咸魚味,臭到連我老公喺屋外都聞到,唯有叫佢洗晒全部衫同袋+滴露浸吓先好少少.....

唉,噚晚嗰三個鐘都已經攪到我冇晒胃口,好想嘔,好肚痛,印印未喊我已經滴咗幾滴眼淚啦...希望我生BB前仲捱得住啦!!

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~錫晒您喔~

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唉...請工人真係煩...我請咗2個印印都唔得...第一個因唔比出電話就話唔做...第二個仲衰...黎咗我屋企2日咋..喊到死老豆咁款..以為咩事..原來覺得係香港做嘢好辛苦喎..又要湊bb..又要做家務..同佢講又唔明..咪叫agent同佢講啦.叫佢慢慢學..唔緊要架...做錯咗..下次記住唔好再錯喇..點知就話唔做...仲要話點解會有我哩d咁嘅僱主..天呀...我已經話慢慢黎...又冇要求佢要點..我交bb比佢..我仲驚過佢..點敢對佢惡..最後係我屋企4日咋..喊足3日..咩都冇做過...agent又不理會...仲話幫我換人..到依家都冇哂消息..我都唔知點好呀????錢就收哂...我可以點呀?

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味兒

其實我覺得啲agent 跟本唔知個印印的工作情況 ok or not，印印話家有乜人咁味照寫佢有經驗，因我以前曾問過個工人，點 "tick" 你喜歡我次序，佢地話如剛剛的顧主是有小朋友但唔洗你照顧都好，佢地 (agent)會當你有經驗。

就好似今天，我約了個就完約的工人見面，資料話佢現時需照顧 1個小朋友 9 歲，當我問佢平時點照顧、做啲乜，佢竟然說 "just cooking for all of them，help children to take anything that he want ，cleaning and buy the dish，no need help him change the school uniform, no need help or assist him to do homework, no need bring him to out going for activity, because the thing will do by 太太。 when I talk with her she need help or assist my child (6 yr twim) to do homework and bring her to attend the activity， she was very 驚訝，and say need to thinking she can handle the children or not

你話 c 咪

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Dear all,

我個印印上星期三 (9/7)到我家，第一日就同我講 "其實我係馬來西亞無乜照顧小朋友，每日早上起來是去餐廳 cooking for guest , 晚就回家做家務"，佢個資料是寫照顧一個 9 & 12歲小朋友，我仲以為佢成實，仲讚佢，點知......

因我地只有2日假 train 佢，溝通都好大問題，好簡單問佢 when, where，how 都唔識, play 當我啲音同佢唔係太似，我串play 然後叫佢自己 check 字典點解 (英→印) 佢都 check 唔到比我
o 我死啦

hb 對咗佢幾日已經好想換個個，佢做清潔無乜心機，但一到cooking就好好心機慢慢煮，唔知佢照顧小朋友得唔得，又暑假故小朋友去了 99 到，個工人早去99到照顧小朋友，晚回家。

hb 怕到 fire 佢時話佢唔識照顧小朋友好難，因現時 anytime 都有人看小朋友，佢話比佢自己照顧小朋友一次，咁就出事

星期二，我帶佢跟了一次點帶小朋友學游泳。星期四，99帶工人看佢點做：
1. 差不多到站個工人自己起身去車門，99叫住佢問佢小朋友點，佢話我等落車先叫佢地
2. 有件浴袍應在小朋友排隊上堂時給她在下堂上水的時候用，佢話有比佢但小朋友無取，然後問99點，99叫佢入去比番小朋友，但佢唔肯入，將啲袍放回 locker
3. 叫佢帶 jacket 放學冷時穿，但佢無帶
4. 回家途中小朋友有同佢講冷，個工人無幫佢關冷氣
5. 回家一小時後我個囡發燒

放工回家後我只知小朋友發燒都無理個工人，佢無同我講任何嘢，到我去 toilet 一看點解只洗泳衣無浴袍，我問佢佢看同我講，仲好多理由，
1. 有給浴袍比小朋友係佢無取，
2. 話99都無理，仲話從未試過，唔知點做，我就好嬲，因剛星期二佢又係無比浴袍小朋友，我話要一定比返佢地用，因個日我又入去游泳，所以自己拿入去泳池，
3. 佢唔知佢地係泳池那裏學,
4. 唔知佢地幾時用件浴袍
咁我就問佢，你有無問啲 staff 點去，佢話無，仲話99叫佢放回 locker

，講的2句佢就話自己唔識照顧小朋友，明天要走。事後hb 同佢 (講數)及寫 request letter，佢竟然話跟本唔想照顧小朋友，只是想來香港行吓

，第日即送佢去 agent 到。

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Update...同印印生活咗4日...

我同印印生活咗4日,除咗第一日我嘅情緒不受控制外,宜家都OK,at least我覺得佢都好純品,好用心做嘢,做嘢係慢少少,但佢都幾醒,大部份嘅嘢同佢講或教佢做一次,佢之後都可以自己做齊啲steps,加上佢都好主動揾嘢嚟抹,eg.一日抹三次地(朝早+lunch後+dinner後...我從來未試過個地下咁滑溜!

),最衰係仲未同佢完全溝通到,有時都要揾我媽個印印做翻譯囉...

原來我個印印頭7個月要每個月還成$3000俾agent...嘩,咁如果我抄佢,佢咪好唔掂?

~錫晒您喔~

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my new yan arrived on the 9th but我琴日先接因為too busy no time to train.趁呢幾日off先開工,英文溝通no problem喎,
same as my previous yan hv sin exp. so far佢呢兩日
cleaning都manage得掂,只係要教煑因為佢以前係sin有老人家負責.

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原文章由 JCarCar 於 08-7-16 17:38 發表
我第一次請工人,噚晚個印印終於嚟咗我屋企,其實我都冇expect啲咩,但估唔到真係好似嚟咗個外星人咁...我媽咪一帶佢入屋,我就已經聞到啲"貓C味",咁我都好醒,即刻叫佢沖涼先,點知佢除咗識聽"先生","太太"同"明唔明白"之 ...

原來妳個印印同我同一日到家中 ga ...

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原文章由 JCarCar 於 08-7-16 17:38 發表
我第一次請工人,噚晚個印印終於嚟咗我屋企,其實我都冇expect啲咩,但估唔到真係好似嚟咗個外星人咁...我媽咪一帶佢入屋,我就已經聞到啲"貓C味",咁我都好醒,即刻叫佢沖涼先,點知佢除咗識聽"先生","太太"同"明唔明白"之 ...

佢完全未出過國打工架?咁差.......定係你原先對佢有好大期望呀?
你個工人都識"明唔明白",我工人話佢個frienf初來時只識"先生","太太"同"冇問題"但係佢其實係唔知"冇問題"係點解,哈哈.....

通常佢做得3至4個月,d廣東話就有好大進步,你慢慢教啦,千祈唔好勞氣
印印係笨d,但亦可以話佢地純d,兩睇啦,既然已請左翻來,比心機教下先啦,唔好下下諗住換人,做熟左就會好的了.當然,真係試過唔得就要換
你都可以問下agent佢有冇親人係香港,可以既話,叫佢親人放假時來你屋企用印尼話教佢,咁樣會更容易上手

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haha.. i did the same feeling with you 1 year ago.
when i was 30 weeks in pregnancy, my new maid ( indo.) came to my home . 1st night, i wwnt to bed almost 02:00 am, because she was really silly & no experienced, even she said she work in Singapore for 2 yrs. i found she was very untidy & dirty with bad smell, she couldnt speak & communicate with us, she only opened her eyes & listening to me, after my inform & istruction, she was no response , she scare my elder son, she said she was afraid to sleep in the upper bed ,so she arrange my son ( only 3 ) sleeping in the upper ,she prefer sleeping the lower , she said dhe didn't wash hair at night. ...... many many troublesome she made , after 2 weeks i can't manage her , i was crying for her, so my husband let she go back to indo. This was my bad feeling & bad experience with Indo maid. Good luck

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hi..JCarCar, 我都係0809mami來架...

唉也, 其實湊初生b, 最好請賓賓, 你仲要係孖b..我第1胎就係請左個臭wu + 黑面印, 忍左佢年半, 等呀囡歲半先炒佢..所以想起印印d衰野, 我真係喊得1句句.

而家個賓賓, 雖然都沒什麼記性, 但起碼溝通方面完全沒問題, 又樣樣事報告, 第日比小b佢湊都好放心, 之前印姐既時候成日要起公司check住個ip cam, 而家請左賓姐, 真係呢半年, check 個cam 都無5次.

如果真係唔得, 就快d換, 時間唔等人..

原文章由 JCarCar 於 08-7-16 17:38 發表
我第一次請工人,噚晚個印印終於嚟咗我屋企,其實我都冇expect啲咩,但估唔到真係好似嚟咗個外星人咁...我媽咪一帶佢入屋,我就已經聞到啲"貓C味",咁我都好醒,即刻叫佢沖涼先,點知佢除咗識聽"先生","太太"同"明唔明白"之 ...

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向好方面諗, 佢會比有經驗既聽話, 勤力d, 無咁快黑面, 無得將你同前僱主比較, 你可以凶佢.

對住呢d溝通唔到既新姐姐, 你一定要有;
1. 耐性(飲多d水, 因會講到口水乾, 哈)
2. 不斷用身體語言, 動作大d
3. 講野要慢同大聲(唔係惡, 只係要等佢清楚你d讀音)
4. 不斷話比佢聽d野叫咩名, 叫佢跟你讀一次, 唔好理佢記唔記到
5. 你講完做完body language問佢明唔明, 如佢話明白, 你叫佢講一次比你聽
6. 邊d重要, 你要佢知既就教咗先, 唔好一次塞咁多
7. 呢到1,2個wk就時不時問佢d野係乜, 叫佢講返比你聽

如果佢有心做, 佢會自動成日問你呢d o個d係乜野黎, 咁佢好快就會記得的.

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因"印印"真是比較蠢些(可以講唔古惑),
妳真要內心(長時間)說多幾(十)次,
她們是很落力做(但真唔識轉膊),
因我62/99都是印尼華僑, 但他們都叫我不要請印印,
因他們有朋友是印尼華僑;請咗印印但都比她們氣死 (他們<雙方>全用印尼話溝通)都是有問題, 所以我都是請bun bun

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聽你咁講, 我又覺得自己好好彩.....
我個印傭無呢d問題, 算係乾淨企理
溝通一定有問題架啦, 我有晒心理準備
佢做左三個星期, 我覺得佢的廣東話有進步的了, 最重要係佢肯學.
我通常同佢講幾點做乜, 佢都知道.
唔明講到佢明囉

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原文章由 ElsaManfred 於 08-7-16 18:40 發表
你請佢時知唔知佢唔識中／英文呀？
自己唔好傷神呀,叫agent幫吓你,俾少少時間佢和你雙方適應啦!

你個ＡＧＥＮＴ　有冇翻譯熱線呀　？　打去叫佢地幫你同佢港喇　

我覺得佢唔係好明，　或者重要既事，　就打去熱線叫Ｄ姐姐同佢用印尼話講清楚，佢聽到印尼話好似開心Ｄ，　做得有信心Ｄ架　

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原文章由 JCarCar 於 08-7-16 17:38 發表
我第一次請工人,噚晚個印印終於嚟咗我屋企,其實我都冇expect啲咩,但估唔到真係好似嚟咗個外星人咁...我媽咪一帶佢入屋,我就已經聞到啲"貓C味",咁我都好醒,即刻叫佢沖涼先,點知佢除咗識聽"先生","太太"同"明唔明白"之 ...

My friend also has a similar case. Eventually she fired her after 6 months because of language problem and "dirty". Her sons do want to eat the things she cook and the boys complained that the maid is very dirty...

Hopefully your maid is different and teachable la.

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要有耐性, 唔好勞氣. 同時也是同我自己講.
但, 我諗你都是搵過個好.

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calm down a bit... mine was more or less the same except for she didn't smell like deadfish... she has "fox" smell instead =__=... same la...

1. give her new clothes, new underwear if you can.. I threw away all her clothes, they were SO OLD...
2. repeat teaching her the same thing at least 10 times... because she will still make mistake at the 11th time... don't be frustrated... remember they don't need to do these at home...
3. U will have to feed your new born every 3 hours later, teach her how to count every 3 hours... most of them DO NOT know. They just don't need to look at the clock, they wake up when the sun rises.
4. Follow closely, don't expect you teach them 1-2 times, they know... especially hygene.

Take your time and don't rush... still 1-2 months to go before your due date. Ask your 99 or mom to come and help as well if possible... maids are really stupid (excuse me)...