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大家心目中的好99應該是怎樣的? [複製鏈接]

諺諺mum

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我有兩個仔都長大喇! 終有一日會做人99.

想知道大家心目中的好99是怎樣的

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到底我有冇一個好99 呢

1) 仔女結左婚, 唔好管佢咁多, 唔好成日加自己既意見 (人地自己有一個家) >> 呢樣無, 因為我同佢零溝通

2) 唔好隨便就上個仔屋企 (私隱) >> 我唔係屋企佢日日貢上黎

3) 上去個仔屋企唔好當自己屋企咁, 唔好搞個仔/新抱/孫既野 (私隱) >> 佢上到去乜都攪, 呢排仲係我屋企換埋短褲, 自己屋企都無咁free

4) 唔好管新抱同埋外家D野 (你無權管) >> 呢樣無, 因為我乜都唔同佢講, 但係佢會點我阿媽整埋的無聊野比我個b女

5) 如果無份湊孫, 唔好咁多野講, 話人地唔識湊 (你知幾多野) >> 佢冇話人唔識, 但成日阿吱阿左要點點點

6) 唔好話個新抱唔識湊孫 (人人都有第一次) >> 同上(5)

7) 如果外家湊, 唔好成日上去打搞人地話睇孫 (好煩架) >> 佢無, 因為b女係我自己屋企, 但佢會死霸住個孫, 婆婆有時上我屋企撞正佢o係到,佢會死抱住bb然後用個背脊"dut"住婆婆, 攪到婆婆平日唔敢上去玩孫...

8) 唔好成日問住幾時返黎食飯 (仔女識自己照顧自己) >> 平日好少返,因為我收得夜, 大年大節既正日就一定要陪佢地, 仲要毎個節日都要食兩次, 一次同男家一大棚人, 一次同佢地自己食

9) 唔好下下同個仔或新抱講錢 (無俾另計) >>佢有錢過我好多,但成日謀住c6的$$

10) 唔好成日話個仔唔返屋企 (人地有自己一個家) >> 成日話個仔唔孝順, 唔陪佢多的囉

11) 唔好要個新抱好似自己仔女咁孝順自己 (因為99你都唔會好似鍚仔女咁鍚我) >> 試過喊住同62 c6講話唔知點解我咁唔鐘意佢....
12) 生唔生仔唔關你事 (唔係你養, 唔係你教) >> 一入門已經叫我三年抱三, 到我生完一個,佢又叫我快的追多個....

同樣地, 外母都唔好咁對個女婿！

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綜合上述12點, 我隻9勉强黎講淨係得一樣野冇做過...我只能講句....
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If I was you, I won't give my key (for the new flat) to 99!
As she always visit you without given a call .

原文章由 ff88 於 08-7-24 19:17 發表
I once lived near MTR station, my 62 and 99 always visited us without giving us a call. It was a big big surprise. They said they visited my BB. They have our door key. I was very angry in fact.:sur ...

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I once lived near MTR station, my 62 and 99 always visited us without giving us a call. It was a big big surprise. They said they visited my BB. They have our door key. I was very angry in fact.

Then we moved to another area. This time, even they still have our key, it is not that convenient for them to walk to our new home.

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ac321

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However, we just bought a flat for her (borrow $xxxxxx 6 digit from the bank for her new flat) and give her living expense monthly........... i.e. pay her flat to bank + her living expens + extra 5k = 2xxxx monthly!!!! (for 99). And we should buy all thos milk, dipper, food for my kid.

Most important, we are not live together and we won't have meal in her flat!
At that moment (2001), I ask for the market price for taking care of a new born kid in day time. It is about 2xxx monthly.

原文章由 諺諺mum 於 08-7-22 12:26 發表
如果你99幫你湊仔, 我諗都好應該俾番的湊仔錢呱

[ 本文章最後由 ac321 於 08-7-22 14:20 編輯 ]

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原文章由 諺諺mum 於 08-7-21 16:50 發表
我有兩個仔都長大喇! 終有一日會做人99.

想知道大家心目中的好99是怎樣的

1. 講道理，唔好以為自己年紀大(有經驗)做野一定啱；
2. 唔好對新抱百般挑剔，個新抱未嫁人之前都係另一家人嘅矜貴女兒來的；
3. 個仔結咗婚後，就唔好樣樣加把咀埋嚟，彈開；
4. 唔識凑B咪扮嘢，唔好話以前都係咁......

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發表於 08-7-22 12:26 |只看該作者

如果你99幫你湊仔, 我諗都好應該俾番的湊仔錢呱

原文章由 ac321 於 08-7-22 11:54 發表
No, she won't take care of my baby. She ask for extra $5k monthly to help us to take care of my son, form 8:30am to 6:00 pm form Mon-Fri only. Therefore, we decided to hire a maid finally.
Before we ...

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唔好下下驚死駛係個仔身上既錢會益左個新抱...我老公個賤呀媽就係禁

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ac321

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No, she won't take care of my baby. She ask for extra $5k monthly to help us to take care of my son, form 8:30am to 6:00 pm form Mon-Fri only. Therefore, we decided to hire a maid finally.
Before we get marry, my husband gave her the key. After we get marry, I change the lock and haven't given her the key until now!

原文章由 trintrin 於 08-7-22 11:37 發表

I will not give her the key not until I die! hahah....

why you give her the key?? she's to take care your baby??

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原文章由 babyhowie 於 08-7-21 20:26 發表
你地所講好99應俱備條件，
我媽咪都有！

所以我大佬個老婆超幸福！

佢地俾錢我媽，我媽唔要；
所以唔加意見、唔過問；
生唔生仔佢地自己決定；
總之，大家心目中想要一個好99條件，
我亞媽都有！ ...

我亞媽都係做到，仲有多無少，好像她有我屋企ＫＥＹ，從來到前打個電話問下我們方唔方便，又好顧我老公感受　

，當正自己仔。所以我同亞媽講下世都要搵番她，她話要做我個女　

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原文章由 ac321 於 08-7-21 18:38 發表
Me too..........
That's why I never give my key to her until now!

I will not give her the key not until I die! hahah....

why you give her the key?? she's to take care your baby??

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對我而言:
1. 唔好理人家事(尤其是女家, 佢問完會唔開心都要問, 我唔係鬧佢喎, 係d答案唔啱聽)
2. 唔好咁多嘢問, 咁八卦
3. 唔好煲罐頭湯就當係老火湯, 唔飲仲問長問短
4. 唔需要奉承大家
5. 唔好叫人生仔
6. 唔好d嘢重覆又重覆, 無嘢搵嘢黎講.
7. 唔好開口就講負面嘢, 唔可以出口傷人
8. 唔好成日話想帶親戚上黎睇下我地間屋

[ 本文章最後由 alik 於 08-7-22 08:00 編輯 ]

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懂事理,明是非,不主觀,不刻薄,最緊要嘅就係~~唔好咁多嘢講!!

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1.唔好次次見到都話無$駛!
2.唔好成日問長問短,乜都關佢事!
3.唔好成日話自己係大曬!
4.唔好成日大大聲講埋d歪理!

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不如講下我第時如果有幸做人99, 我會點做丫~
(因為我而家仲未有bb)

1. 我唔須要佢地比錢我洗(因為如無意外, 我同老公今世應該夠錢洗, 我地好慳架~)

2. 千祈唔好同住, 我仲想同老公有2人世界架~

3. 千祈唔好叫我湊孫, 我老公退左休, 我都從湊仔生涯退左休架啦~ 有乜事請自己搞掂~

4. 得閒, 佢地願意而我地又在香港既話, 咪見下面飲下茶囉~

因為我同老公退左休諗住會返大陸d窮鄉僻壤教下書, 幫下d小朋友, 所以佢地都未必可以成日見到我地, 話唔定要預約呢~
講錢失感情, 我地都係講心唔講金好d~

btw, 如果可以, 我同老公會比一筆錢d仔女, 算係幫助佢地置業又好, 去外國留學又好, 但一筆過, 冇左唔好再搵我地, 自己生意失敗, 碌爆卡, 借財仔, 賭到甩褲等等, 請不要找我們~~

♡女人想要奢侈品，其實要的是男人的捨得！
♡女人想要你出差的禮物，其實要的是男人的掛念！
♡女人想要生日禮物，其實要的是男人的心思！
♡女人想要擁抱，其實要的是男人的溫暖！
♡女人想要吵架，其實要的是男人的包容！
♡女人想要的一切，無非是要男人在乎她的感覺！

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保持距离......
很新抱只知要求99不知要求自己也很难搞...

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我希望我可以做到通情達理,唔好管甘多野~我寧願第日老左去落後地區幫人都唔想理D後輩既野..希望我會做到啦..

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12項咁多, 我諗我可以做到8-9成咋

因為有的野都要睇當時的情況, 未埋到身都唔知做唔做到

大家又估下自己可以做到幾多項呢

原文章由 060905 於 08-7-21 18:20 發表
1)
仔女結左婚, 唔好管佢咁多, 唔好成日加自己既意見 (人地自己有一個家)
2)
唔好隨便就上個仔屋企 (私隱)
3)
上去個仔屋企唔好當自己屋企咁, 唔好搞個仔/新抱/孫既野 (私隱)
4)
唔好管新抱同埋外家D野 (你無權管)
5 ...

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你簡直講出所有新抱心目中的理想奶奶呀！勁！

原文章由 060905 於 08-7-21 18:20 發表
1)
仔女結左婚, 唔好管佢咁多, 唔好成日加自己既意見 (人地自己有一個家)
2)
唔好隨便就上個仔屋企 (私隱)
3)
上去個仔屋企唔好當自己屋企咁, 唔好搞個仔/新抱/孫既野 (私隱)
4)
唔好管新抱同埋外家D野 (你無權管)
5 ...