煩煩煩... since last week, my 99 came over at 8:!5am every morning and take my 19 months old out.. ......... sigh... previously, she comes around 10:30am and take him out if he wakes up from his morning nap....
as she comes over at 8:15am... both my husband and I are still at home preparing to go to work...... ended up we lost our morning time to play with my son........ Today (Saturday)........my 99 even called around 7:30am and said she will come over and take my boy out earlier ....................................... as he got a 12:30pm playgroup and he must get his morning nap around 9am.. so she decided to take him out earlier
Is she losing her mind??? It's a Saturday.. not to mention that we might want to wake up a bit later (in fact, my husband needs to work on Sat, too)........ even we decided not to wake up later.. we also want to spend more time with my boy gar............................
Why is she always STEALING our precious moment with our boy????????????????????????????????????????
strange !!! if you already have a maid, why does she need to bring your son out of your home ?? It is glad that your DH talked to her. Hope everything would be fine then.
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thanks for all your feedback ar... my husband already told my 99 on sunday not to come too early la! My husband told her that he wants to see his son more and play with him in the morning as my husband needs to OT often ar.... hope my 99 understand la.... (even she still tried to convince me to talk to my husband that taking my boy out in early morning is a better time afterwards)
yiho,
yes ar.. this is what I worry, too ar... especially during my 'sit moon' period.. I think I will get crazy if she comes over so early and stay longer in my place ar.......
fungwongphie,
I already have a maid to take care of my boy gar la...... 99 actually just comes over to play with him as my 99 doesn't know how to take care of bb gar...and originally I thought my 99 can monitor my maid.. but ended up my maid would talk on the phone / read magazine if my 99 is here lor.........................
i think u should ask your husband to tell his mum....otherwise she doesnt know what she is doing wrong..and it might make the family relationship get worse