my maid has just arrived last Wednesday and we don't have anyone to monitor as well. Hence, in the begining I'm very worrying as well. Actually I was depressed for a few days after I knew her visa has been happened :) But after 1 week, my husband and I get use to it la. At least, we don't have to do any housework anymore and we don't have to eat outside and since my maid was working in HK b4, she can pick up the stuff quickly....