if you want children, just go ahead.
thinking of too much makes you
not to have bb. taking care of bb
is too hard lah. don't think lah.
otherwise you won't want 1.
you're 33, not old, so start to have
1 now. c6 is 46, no problem. men
can have children in 40's.
i always like children. taking care is
hard and troublesome but still want
to have 1, to experience the whole
process.
i don't want 2-person family only.
i hope my children can go to
yum cha with me when i'm old.
i don't think i can depend on them
financially, just want to have
very close family members.
i tried 2 years, 2 miscarriages. i do
ivf this month. hope i can succeed.
anyway, if still can't bingo at 40, i'll
give up and accept the truth (i will
be 34 in Oct, still have 6 years'
time)