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大宅

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發表於 08-8-25 19:44 |只看該作者
早幾日已有谷m feel, 心知不妙..., 今日certified 了 !!
前前後後一共8個, 今次的兩個是day 5 胚胎, 連ivf center d 人都話好靚....成個process 好smooth, d blood test 水平全部ok, 夠晒黃體. 點解唔得, 好傷心, 今次真係放鬆了好多, 冇瞓唔著, 而且多了信心 (因今次轉了醫生).
我由30歲ivf到而家31了, 一次都冇, 心殖系統全部正常, 又唔高齡, 又話我的機會高, 呃人嘅.....

已經冇晒信心了, 點解同一個醫生, 40歲可以一次ok, 我n次都唔得, 點解 !!

我有叫老公搵 "伐母" 如bb是我的DNA, 我可以接受, 可能我個肚唔"旺" BB...

其實我仲有一D DAY 5 的胚胎, 可放幾次, 但多有咩用, 都唔著床, 有10萬個又點 !!

好唔開心, 好挫敗, 仲有D想離婚, 因為...好煩, 我又UPSET, C6亦唔好過.....


大宅

積分: 2307


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發表於 08-8-30 23:18 |只看該作者
跳跳虎
大家有相同經歷. 當然明白你心情....難過一定有架, 傷心過後就再努力啦.....
你有m黎, 不如今個月試下自然啦, ivf好大壓力, 抖一抖調整下心情, 我星期一已知失敗, 停了所有藥, 但連 m 都未黎, 都唔知想點.......




原文章由 我係跳跳虎 於 08-8-30 15:45 發表
我第二次放雪胎喇又失販喇 ~ 第一之放胎有兩粒, 第二次只得一粒, 仲係 grade 4 (即係分裂得三個細胞 ), 上次放胎後 day 11 就有啡, 今次仲衰, day 10 我就見有兩丁血點 , day 11 仲有啡有血 , 不 ...


別墅

積分: 965

好媽媽勳章


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發表於 08-8-30 15:45 |只看該作者
我第二次放雪胎喇又失販喇 ~ 第一之放胎有兩粒, 第二次只得一粒, 仲係 grade 4 (即係分裂得三個細胞 ), 上次放胎後 day 11 就有啡, 今次仲衰, day 10 我就見有兩丁血點 , day 11 仲有啡有血 , 不過唔多, 上次 day 12 當日乜都無架, 但今次 day 12 就多咗啲血, 已宣告失販 !!
原來做 ivf 都唔係想像中咁容易成功, 今次都知失販居多, 但眼淚始終都要流出我都唔想架 ~ 好心灰意冷 !!!!!!!


大宅

積分: 2307


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發表於 08-8-29 23:29 |只看該作者
我有時去follow up, 見到好多大肚媽媽follow up, 間唔中仲有d媽媽帶bb (or 兩個bb) 去探醫生, 有時聽 (偷聽!!)d nurses 講野, 話 "呢排好多人都得喎....".....唉, 不過冇我份....



原文章由 kuku2881 於 08-8-29 23:14 發表
steplovebb,
我都係milton leong 既 patient, 呢度比較少人睇佢, 希望日後多d交流, 大家可以彼此支持一吓 la,
你既心情我好明白, 我都好多次因為失敗而好灰心, 仲曾經放棄咗成年添. 其實老公對我好好, 我哋兩個都好 ...


洋房

積分: 85


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發表於 08-8-29 23:14 |只看該作者
steplovebb,
我都係milton leong 既 patient, 呢度比較少人睇佢, 希望日後多d交流, 大家可以彼此支持一吓 la,
你既心情我好明白, 我都好多次因為失敗而好灰心, 仲曾經放棄咗成年添. 其實老公對我好好, 我哋兩個都好鐘意小朋友, 好想有自己既下一代, 但結咗婚好多年都係冇, 我都覺得有虧欠, 好大壓力, 近年好積極睇醫生, 但都唔成功, 不過我仍會努力, 你都要加油, 我會為你打氣.

[ 本文章最後由 kuku2881 於 08-8-29 23:15 編輯 ]


大宅

積分: 2307


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發表於 08-8-29 19:14 |只看該作者
你形容得好好呀, 我真係覺得似打仗....
咁你都要好好調理身體先, 你試過得, 再有bb冇問題呀,
add oil !



原文章由 ilikegigi 於 08-8-29 10:19 發表
你真係要放鬆 d 心情呀, 如果唔係bingo左都無用呀, 我之前就係有左後個人好緊張&擔心, 所以小產左

你要好好調理身體先, 順其自然啦.

其實吸收上次小產經驗, 知道一定要兩夫婦都身體健康先, 先可以打好呢 ...


大宅

積分: 2307


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發表於 08-8-29 19:11 |只看該作者
I'm seeing Dr. Milton Leong in Sanatorium hospital. Since the process is too tiring....need to rest 1 to 2 months before doing ET again


Let us together add oil . By the way, which doctor do the IVF for u ah??? I try my 1st IVF in Union by Dr. Tung woh. [/quote]


大宅

積分: 1163


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發表於 08-8-29 10:19 |只看該作者
你真係要放鬆 d 心情呀, 如果唔係bingo左都無用呀, 我之前就係有左後個人好緊張&擔心, 所以小產左

你要好好調理身體先, 順其自然啦.

其實吸收上次小產經驗, 知道一定要兩夫婦都身體健康先, 先可以打好呢場仗(呢個比喻唔知會唔會太誇張),我而家睇緊中醫&食緊維他命, 等身體好d再開始迎戰, 大家都唔可以放棄架.

[ 本文章最後由 ilikegigi 於 08-8-29 10:23 編輯 ]


別墅

積分: 746


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發表於 08-8-29 09:55 |只看該作者
原文章由 steplovebb 於 08-8-28 23:26 發表
Dear Melody430

I knew my husband when I was 18 year old, If I know we have this problem, I would get married with him earlier ......
anyway, have to face it together now.....

IVF failure is really a ...



Let us together add oil . By the way, which doctor do the IVF for u ah??? I try my 1st IVF in Union by Dr. Tung woh.


大宅

積分: 2307


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發表於 08-8-28 23:26 |只看該作者
Dear Melody430

I knew my husband when I was 18 year old, If I know we have this problem, I would get married with him earlier ......
anyway, have to face it together now.....

IVF failure is really a difficult time for couples.....wish you success next time.....

steplovebb



原文章由 MELODY430 於 08-8-28 13:35 發表
Steplovebb,

I understand yr feeling because I also failed in my recent IVF. At the begining, when I found my husband sperm is very low motility. I also feel confidence in IVF because in my side eve ...


別墅

積分: 746


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發表於 08-8-28 13:35 |只看該作者
Steplovebb,

I understand yr feeling because I also failed in my recent IVF. At the begining, when I found my husband sperm is very low motility. I also feel confidence in IVF because in my side every function is normal. Dr said IVF+ICSI can overcome our problem. Unfortunely, I try 2 IVF is still not sucess. I'm so angry with my husband. Because he is so stupid, he did not get his sperm report after we took body check up when pre-married (2004) . When I found the problem in 2007. It waste our time. Now I'm 37. The fertised time is very tight. But I will continue to try untlil 40. For u, 31 still very young. Hv high chance to be mother. Don't worry too much la just try yr best. Yr embryo is good in quality, I think it is only timming problem. Actually, IVF success rate highest is only around 50%. Not 100% Do think 離婚. We are lucky than some girls still alone & still looking for right man la.


大宅

積分: 2307


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發表於 08-8-27 14:42 |只看該作者
dear flyfive,
我記得你呀, thank you !!
c6有食中藥, but有時唔係好知係唔係work...
希望有奇蹟啦 !!


原文章由 Flyfive 於 08-8-26 18:12 發表
steplovebb

你記唔記得我呀, 我好似都有同你係bkchat過. 其實你兩公婆有冇做吓運動? c6有冇食d維他命丸同你一齊睇中醫?

唔好唔開心, 有時奇跡會係不知不覺出現.

...


大宅

積分: 2307


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發表於 08-8-27 14:39 |只看該作者
多謝各位鼓勵, 今天心情平伏一d了.....本來可以呢個cycle再放 (nurse話放胎唔需要rest), 不過我實在需要抖一抖....
而且之前用了太多藥, 週身唔舒服.....要休息一下先....


複式洋房

積分: 214


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發表於 08-8-26 18:29 |只看該作者

回覆 #13 steplovebb 的文章

你老公都冇比壓力你,你就唔好比壓力自己啦... 你壓力月大就難啊.. 放鬆D,同自己講你冇所謂既....咁好快就會中架喇... 加油啊....


大宅

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發表於 08-8-26 18:12 |只看該作者
steplovebb

你記唔記得我呀, 我好似都有同你係bkchat過. 其實你兩公婆有冇做吓運動? c6有冇食d維他命丸同你一齊睇中醫?

唔好唔開心, 有時奇跡會係不知不覺出現.

原文章由 steplovebb 於 08-8-26 18:03 發表
如生唔到, 我諗我會內咎.....


大宅

積分: 2307


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發表於 08-8-26 18:03 |只看該作者
如生唔到, 我諗我會內咎.....


大宅

積分: 2307


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發表於 08-8-26 18:01 |只看該作者
老公對我好好, 冇比壓力我, 不過其實佢最想有bb, 恨到流口水...我只不過想為佢生一個bb, d 人成日話男人有一條精就足夠啦...原來真係唔係咁易, 放埋胚胎, 唔得就係唔得....

其實因為老公sperm問題而做ivf, 一心諗住ivf可以overcome male problems, 點知而家變成著唔到床....真係唔明 !

係唔係你越care一件事, 個天就越唔比你呢...定係本身我地已經好幸福 (起碼我地有閒錢去做ivf), 個天想分d幸福比其他人.....


複式洋房

積分: 122


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發表於 08-8-26 14:23 |只看該作者
我都有你這種心情同感覺 已試了3年了 1次ivf & 5次iui (今年37歲啦) 雖然我先生也表態bb 不是我們的全部, 我還是好傷心, 對人生好灰, 看不到將來 .....
一直不敢跟媽媽講自己的問題 直到一天她小心的提一提 :盡量努力去試, 但如不成功 就 "拉倒" 沒什麼大不了 (台灣國語) 我好欣賞她的瀟灑 小時她一直用這樣的心態面對所有問題.... 我們會繼續努力的!!! You are still very young, please don't give up!!!


子爵府

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發表於 08-8-26 13:19 |只看該作者
你咁樣會令到你先生有好大壓力同好擔心你咖...


大宅

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發表於 08-8-26 11:35 |只看該作者
Don't be upset. You are still young and many people at your age haven't married yet. Sit down and talk to your husband. Relax and may bingo very soon. Don't think about 離婚. BB is not the biggest between your relationship.

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