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一個憎我既99話要同我住喎 [複製鏈接]

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發表於 08-9-22 16:54 |只看該作者 |正序瀏覽 |打印

我9962自我結婚起就唔鐘意我 (做女友時就對我好好), 因為佢地蝦我,所以我唔多聽佢地無理自私既要求,加上叔仔及叔仔老婆煽風點火; 不過一直以來我只是啞忍, 無同佢地嘈, 最主要我地有能力, 唔洗同佢地住. 9962而家同叔仔及9962至錫既叔仔老婆一齊住. 最近一年, 99同我講, 話想我同c6搬埋返佢地度一齊住, 層樓(我老豆比錢)就租/賣出去, 99美其名就話照顧我地, 佢同我暗示叔仔老婆親佢(其實咪又係互擦)所以叔仔老婆可以有車喳又工人洗. 我心諗我自已都有本事, 駛鬼用99個工人呀.

講真我而家成兩、三個月先返去同佢吃飯 (c6就密d), 佢次次見我都講有骨說話(由攪結婚到而家, 5 years la), 我而家連電話都唔敢打比佢, 費時激心. 咁既關係, 點可能一齊住喎?

曾經我好天真咁諗, 係咪我應承佢, 佢就會鐘意我呢, 定係佢想找多d機會槽質我? 我其實只想一家人開開心心姐, 我唔介意同老人家住, 但我9962既為人及佢地對我既態度 ... 卻令我卻步.

[ 本文章最後由 zxzx 於 08-9-22 17:17 編輯 ]

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雅花

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發表於 08-9-24 16:20 |只看該作者

你住緊間屋又唔係佢比錢，你無必要搬走呀．相見好，同住難．你唔好跳入火海呀！

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發表於 08-9-24 14:52 |只看該作者

NO!NO!NO!
打死都唔制....

你諗清楚........到時後悔莫及.....

歡迎大家交個朋友做交流

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發表於 08-9-24 14:32 |只看該作者

原文章由 wmpl 於 08-9-24 11:52 發表
我覺得你99由始至終都想征服你,要你聽教聽話,我估計你99覺得你弟婦咁聽話但你咁不受佢控制覺得好冇面,個心好可能一直都有條剌喺度,成日都諗點先可以令你好似你弟婦聽教聽話同奉承佢~~

所以你諗都唔駛諗你同佢一齊住 ...

你都講得好arm. So you think she has a devil purpose? I'm a bit scare now

. Because I think the worst is she can badly treat me if I live with her, what else is in her mind?

I always feel that my 99 is like 'Singapore' --- 假民主, 啊應該係慈禧至arm --- you must obey her in every aspect.

對於一個生於民主自由既家庭既我, 十分不慣, 最幣99 d ideas 十分冇理及自私. So I don't listen to her. 叔仔老婆 of course needs to listen to 99 because 叔仔老婆 's job was 靠99幫佢攪掂. 其實連c6都同我講, 由細到大, even now, 佢mami & daddy成日都迫佢做佢唔like既事但even佢唔like, 佢都唔敢反抗, 由學校選科至而家做果份工, 除左我係c6自已選之外. 我99連我份工都想干涉, she wants me like 叔仔老婆, everything must rely on 99 so that she can control me easily.

I have my life, NO WAY !

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發表於 08-9-24 12:45 |只看該作者

唔好制呀!!!!搬近d都唔好喇....搬左唔岩就無得返轉頭~我99都係咁,我死都唔制,我寧願搬返去同我媽咪住.....

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發表於 08-9-24 11:52 |只看該作者

我覺得你99由始至終都想征服你,要你聽教聽話,我估計你99覺得你弟婦咁聽話但你咁不受佢控制覺得好冇面,個心好可能一直都有條剌喺度,成日都諗點先可以令你好似你弟婦聽教聽話同奉承佢~~

所以你諗都唔駛諗你同佢一齊住佢會真心待你好,就算係對你好都只係好表面嘅事,一到你有咩把柄喺佢手,佢就會令你難受,我唔敢講哩個係百份百會發生,但係你99 咁奇怪嘅提議真係令我冇辦法唔猜疑佢背後嘅動機,因為你哋大家都心知肚明大家係唔咁啱,冇人會咁笨主動揾個唔鍾意自己,自己又唔鍾意嘅人返嚟朝見口晚見面咁日日篤眼篤鼻攞苦嚟辛,想改善大家嘅關係有好多辦法,完全冇需要更冇必要同佢一齊住先得,之前大家嘅關係都唔係好好,突然去到一齊住咁close嘅一步實在太唔合理,反而如果係真心想一齊住,想改善闗係都唔會咁急進,佢應該會做一啲嘢嚟令到你放低對佢嘅戒心先至提議,而家我就覺得除非佢心謀鬼胎,另有所圖,唔係都唔會同你兩公婆諗掂晒點安排先同你哋講,[從哩一點我就覺得你99 都只係想你兩公婆聽晒佢話!]~~

至於你應該好清楚瞭解你自己嘅心性,如果你係可以做到你弟婦咁,你就唔駛咁多年都要受你99 氣,事實証明勉強冇幸福,就算你幾咁想同你99好好相處,但係你唔可以令自己做啲太違反自己本性嘅事嚟討好你99,夾硬做只會另你自己覺得更痛苦同更討厭你99,所以今次哩件事嘅答案只係得一個,就係Noway~~

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發表於 08-9-24 10:22 |只看該作者

一人一間屋, 仲咩要迫埋一齊住,
我覺得佢地地想妳分擔d日常開支費用

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發表於 08-9-24 07:25 |只看該作者

搬近啲都唔好呀, 住得近咪又係一樣, 佢嗰啲乜都管嘅性格呀, 睇怕連您屋企支沐浴露用乜牌子都會理埋, 到時真係人都癲.

要BB沖上雲霄，努力中!我呢個仔呀玩就最叻！

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發表於 08-9-23 21:45 |只看該作者

原文章由 tiggertigger 於 08-9-23 21:23 發表
憑所聽所聞

俾個99同你住，只會令你同老公磨擦更多，影響兩夫妻關係。

實在要萬分小心，如果你老公係好錫佢媽媽

就頂多搬去同村 or 上下層

但絕不可俾key佢。

如果老公可以唔同佢媽住，又唔一定要搬去附近，就算吧。

萬 ...

Whether to live with his mum - my c6 doesn't really matter. But I know he is now forced by 99.

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發表於 08-9-23 21:23 |只看該作者

憑所聽所聞

俾個99同你住，只會令你同老公磨擦更多，影響兩夫妻關係。

實在要萬分小心，如果你老公係好錫佢媽媽

就頂多搬去同村 or 上下層

但絕不可俾key佢。

如果老公可以唔同佢媽住，又唔一定要搬去附近，就算吧。

萬萬不可，暫時搵d理由不可搬家吧.. 一定不可以。

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發表於 08-9-23 21:14 |只看該作者

Thanks all bk mami.

I know my relationship with 99 is not good, so I'm afraid if I move in her house, I will be badly treated

.

Today, my c6 asks me: "how about move next to 99?" (really next to her)

Honestly to me, it makes no much difference, because that means I need to see 99 and 叔仔老婆 everyday (need to have dinner with her + her bad words on me every night).

[ 本文章最後由 zxzx 於 08-9-23 21:17 編輯 ]

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原文章由 selinapoormom 於 08-9-23 13:47 發表
我都係受害者，佢哋係"面具王"，呃完你一齊往之後，你就知味道！日日同你做"大龍鳳"，等佢個仔(c6)當你係唔鐘意99嘅人！衰人！你本來唔會有呢Ｄ煩嘢，千其唔好跳番入去呀！ ...

Thanks for your reminding. "面具王" - I think this is what my 99 is doing.

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原文章由 wxxyxn 於 08-9-23 13:12 發表
傻啦，佢間屋幾大，點住3家人

Her house is quite big, 4 bedrooms. More importantly, she just thinks about NOW - one bedroom for 99&62, one for me&c6 and another one for c6's brother & his wife.

But 99 doesn't really think about FUTURE that I and c6's brother will have kids. Although there is one more spare bedroom, if kids of our 2 familities quarrel to each other (which is normal to kids), what will 2 kids' mothers feel?

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發表於 08-9-23 21:02 |只看該作者

原文章由 理想師奶仔 於 08-9-23 11:50 發表
相見都已經難, 同住咪等於去送死....

Yes, you're right, esp. in my situation

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原文章由 我愛Corina 於 08-9-23 01:29 發表
佢點解想你地搬返去住既?

你可唔可以話唔想咁多人一齊住,而唔返去呢?

I really don't know, but I guess because 99 wants to see my c6 more. My 99 is sort of the person who likes her sons & daughters to live with/around her ALL the time because:

- she has no friends & no interest (and based on her character, even she will say bad words about her only sister & mother !) although she is working

- when she wanted to live in overseas, she would force all her adult sons & daughters to move to overseas; when she wanted to live in HK, she would force all her adult sons & daughters to move back to HK

- even c6's brother (already married) who lived with 99 went out to learn piano lesson for 1 hr, 99 would immediately ring him after that for no matters

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發表於 08-9-23 20:48 |只看該作者

對呀, 千萬不要同 6299一同住, 否則後悔莫及

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發表於 08-9-23 17:08 |只看該作者

千祈唔好同6299住, 必死無生, 保證日日家嘈屋閉, 遲早搞到自己有抑鬱症.

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發表於 08-9-23 14:02 |只看該作者

嘩... 唔好講笑啦, 而家都咁對你, 搬埋返去有排你受, 你想仲慘過個工人就搬返去啦...

而家幾個月見一次都次次俾骨你食, 一齊住唔會對你好過而家囉, 只會日日俾骨你食架咋, 到時你頂唔住, 咪又係同 c6 嘈?! 值唔值丫?

相見好同住難, 你地而家相見都唔好, 同住就更加難啦, 所以, 同c6 傾掂數, 叫佢同佢屋企人講, 搬埋一齊住就冇可能架勒, 維持現狀咩都唔變係最好! 如果你 c6 都想一齊住, 你咪問佢想唔想做夾心人囉, 或者叫佢自己搬返去... 叫佢自己諗。