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[在職媽媽] 你地有無老公係搵錢少過自己, 搞到要自己撐起頭家呢? [複製鏈接]

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原文章由 muichujamie 於 08-10-7 02:18 發表
結左婚幾年,我老公都無俾過家用我......
屋企D野大家都有出下錢,不過我付擔左7成的開支,其實我真係壓力好大！！
不過我又唔想同佢嘈, 同埋我暫時都handle到, 咪算囉, 最緊 ...

無俾過家用 is not a problem. as long as you know how much he earn and where's his money gone.

Birth 15/3: W:4.2kg L:52cm HC:37.5cm
Day 09: W:4.37kg L:55.5cm HC:37cm
Day 46: W:7kg L:62m HC40.5cm
Day 82: W:~9.2kg L:~66cm
Day 112: W:~10.4kg

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原文章由 cherrytso 於 08-10-7 00:51 發表

佢無面...我無錢呀....一個女人嫁咗都好希望有個男人倚靠吓架.....依家掉番轉頭呀....要個女人撐起成頭家.....佢唔想無面就叫佢阿媽唔好講咁多嘢囉.....又要我担起頭家, 仲要受佢屋企冷言冷語, 唔係呀花.....除非 ...

I am totally agreed with you.

Birth 15/3: W:4.2kg L:52cm HC:37.5cm
Day 09: W:4.37kg L:55.5cm HC:37cm
Day 46: W:7kg L:62m HC40.5cm
Day 82: W:~9.2kg L:~66cm
Day 112: W:~10.4kg

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原文章由 james-mama 於 08-11-14 01:04 發表
My income is triple of my hb and I have to pay for the 2 mortgaged flats, 1 car, son's school fee. He only pay for the water, electricity, gas and maid. I am really very tired and wish to quit the j ...

我老公已加加埋埋当了6年有多的家庭主夫。详情请看这bk forum topic。
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com/redirect.php?tid=1722683&goto=newpost#newpost

I frequently want to quit, but deep down we know better that I can not quit. It is too expensive to quit my job and we can not afford it. I am not complaining my situation because if I got lay off, our situation could be a lot worst. At least our children are under good and sufficient 家教 now。 I　ｈａｖｅ　ｍｙ　ｓｔｒｕｇｇｌｉｎｇ　ｐｅｒｉｏｄ　ｂｙ　ｂｅｉｎｇ　ａ　Ｍｏｔｈｅｒ，　Ｉ　ｗａｎｔ　ｔｏ　ｂｅ　ｔｈｅ　ｏｎｅ　ｗｈｏ　ｓｔａｙ　ａｔ　ｈｏｍｅ．

　

Ｅｑｕａｌ　ｊｏｂ　ｏｐｐｏｔｉｎｉｔｙ　ｓｏｍｔｉｍｅｓ　ｃｒｅａｔｅ　ｔｈｉｓ　ｄｏｗｎ　ｓｉｄｅ　ｔｏ　ｏｎｅ　ｗｈｏ　ｓｔｉｌｌ　ｗａｎｔ　ｔｏ　ｋｅｅｐ　ａ　ｔｒｉｄｉｔｉｏｎａｌ　ｆａｍｉｌｙ　ｓｔｒｕｃｔｕｒｅ　ｌｉｋｅ　my husband and I．

[ 本文章最後由 ndw 於 08-11-23 11:43 編輯 ]

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原文章由 (!_!) 於 08-11-20 17:57 發表
my husband has been unemployed for almost 1 year, now I have to shoulder all finanical burden by myself, including all household expenses plus allowance for his mom. I feel rather sad, but can't talk ...

Ｍy husband can not take any nｅgative comments　ｅｉｔｈｅｒ. 　Ｗｈｏ　ｃａｎ　ｗｉｔｈｏｕｔ　ａｎｙ　ｅｍｏｔｉｏｎａｌ　ｄｉｓｔｕｒｂｉｎｇ？　I want to ｖｉｅｗ it positivly　ｓｕｃｈ　ａｓｔｈｉｓ also mean that he is a ｖｅｒｙ　sensitive person．Ｂｅｃａｕｓｅ　ｏｆ　ｈｉｍ　ｂｅｉｎｇ　ｓｅｎｓｉｔｉｖｅ，he ｈａｒｄｌｙ　ｅｖｅｒａｃｔｉｖｉｌｙ　say anything　that ｗｏｕｌｄ　hurt me.

Same here, I can't share my worries with my husband.
Also, I have been depressed in many defferent periods. May be that's why I come to BK offten, it seems help some.

[ 本文章最後由 ndw 於 08-11-23 12:15 編輯 ]

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原文章由 james-mama 於 08-11-14 01:04 發表
My income is triple of my hb and I have to pay for the 2 mortgaged flats, 1 car, son's school fee. He only pay for the water, electricity, gas and maid. I am really very tired and wish to quit the j ...

Hi james-mama,

I share your dream! But unlikely to come true, except winning the mark 6.

:-o

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my husband has been unemployed for almost 1 year, now I have to shoulder all finanical burden by myself, including all household expenses plus allowance for his mom. I feel rather sad, but can't talk to anyone of my feelings. I'm afraid I am suffering from depression already. Can't share my worries with my husband for he is rather childish and can't take any negative comments.

[ 本文章最後由 (!_!) 於 08-11-20 18:00 編輯 ]

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原文章由 建男媽咪 於 08-10-6 09:20 發表
雖然我唔係搵多過我老公, 佢多我幾仟, 但我都成日要扮窮, 如果唔係點有錢儲私己呀

係要咁嫁
男人有$$就身痕啦

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Actually,my husband is a good man. He loves me very much. we married about 5 yrs and have a baby for 2yrs old.
My husband job's is not stable (always no paid in past 1 yrs) In Oct.08, the company is closed and he become unemployed now.
In the past yrs, my yearly income is more than him(>100k) somtimes I also feel that why I get married with him (I believe I am very bad if I have this thinking).
Actually, I don't want to be a rich man (because no one know how much you have is enough) I only want to have stable live and have a goods living condition for my baby.
I want to be a full time mama because I want to know the growing process for my baby but. .......

I am completely tired..............

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My income is triple of my hb and I have to pay for the 2 mortgaged flats, 1 car, son's school fee. He only pay for the water, electricity, gas and maid. I am really very tired and wish to quit the job. I know is dream and never come true.

james-mama

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To reneeleung

贊成你的講法, 2公婆無咩計.. 我都係搵多過老公幾千, 同埋我份工都幾穩陣.
因為我老公幾無記性,所以, 屋企大小事/雜物等都係我買,就算一齊出街都係我比, 然后每月比幾千我當家用...
好彩我老公都好顧家, 囡囡依家6個月大, 每朝一齊湊BB到婆婆家, 然后一齊返工, 放工係老公湊BB返屋企先.因為我通常都晏返屋企. 老公會同BB沖好涼, 等我返屋企一齊喂奶奶... 都幾開心架.

所以, 就算搵錢比自己少D都OK, 最緊要佢都投入呢個家囉.

原文章由 reneeleung 於 08-10-6 14:44 發表
我唔係搵好多, 可能我講得唔夠清楚.
其實我兩公婆真係無計過咩支出係邊個出, 有時我無$我老公就會過$比我, 又或者老公唔夠$找咭數, 咁我又會過番$比佢.

我想講係兩公婆有時真係計唔得咁清楚.

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你睇到你先生的付出&信任，仲體諒佢，你真係一個好太太！
至於，全世界的99，都係幫自己個仔架啦！
等我地個囝囝囡囡大個，我諗我地先會明白！哈哈！

原文章由 mavisw 於 08-11-1 23:26 發表
I also earn more than my husband for quite a long time. I had also not thought postively when my working pressure was too heavy or not work happily. Why I am the one to support the family the most fan ...

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回覆 #28 cherrytso 的文章

I also earn more than my husband for quite a long time. I had also not thought postively when my working pressure was too heavy or not work happily. Why I am the one to support the family the most fanically. I also thought that my husband was not 上進 enough. So his career is not so successfully. After time passed, I claimed down. I understand and agree that his ability is actually higher than me in every aspect. He is also more clever than me. But due to his job nature & 際遇, my career earn more than him. He gives me more than half of his salary for supporting the family. He just keep sufficient money for his monthly expenses. I actually appreciate him and his has done what he should and can. Since he gives me all he can, I am the one to manage the family expenses & saving. This also makes me to understand that he trusts me and relies on me to manage the family life. And we never hv agurement about money because he gives me all. My 99 also things that her sons are all good (good to family and good to wife). Can marry her son is the lucky thing of the women. Actually all 99 behave the same because they are the old generation. 不要着眼在錢上，這會影響夫妻感情．但亦要他明白他對家庭是有責任及承擔的，坦白要他多付一點責任．

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我同99住, 家用係比99, 只係一星期食佢三餐晚飯, 好似狗飯咁, 有時真係比得好唔順....
有時我會好嬲,why我係外人要養你阿媽,你家姐就一個仙都唔比你阿媽, 仲要得閒就黎囉著數, 我又要養bb, 個個月都驚無錢, 個c6就好似冇優米咁,

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我同老公從來都無為$$的問題吵過!!!因為佢唔多like買野(only like online game)所以佢份糧係俾晒我,當然屋企所有野都係我負責啦!!!佢要$$自然會問我要!!!其實都無分你我,d$$大家1起用,用左去邊大家都會知,當然有阿仔之後,大陪份的$$都係為阿仔花的~~~
老公有自知自明(愛賭下),所以結婚之後佢就俾晒d$$我管~~佢到而家都覺得係1個明智我決擇!!
好好同老公坐低傾下屋企開支問題,佢會明的!!

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me too, 我的收入比我老公多幾千蚊, 佢出糧又係比晒我, 佢要就問我攞, 亦係屋企的開支都係由我負責

我都有問過佢...你會唔會覺得好似好無面...佢就答...唔會...咁仲唔會洗凸 (c6似99, 有幾多, 洗幾多, 無$問人借, 還完又借...............停不了)

初初拍拖, 99好大聲話我洗佢個仔D錢, 後來知道係佢地2母子洗緊我D錢...........

原文章由 celery_wwk 於 08-10-12 22:33 發表
我的收入比我老公多...但佢從來唔理d 錢...因為佢銀行張咭係我手...我每個月擺番二三千蚊係屋企...佢要就自己拎來用...好彩佢平時都好少買野...主要開支都係返工的飯錢...所以屋企的開支都係由我負責...交租...兩邊 ...

仔仔06-12-2003出世

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FULL TIME　ＭＯＭ

FULL TIME　ＭＯＭ也不是很好．．．最好是不憂柴米，有空做做ＰＴ，主要帶ＢＢ．．．又不會和社會脫節．．．

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回覆 #9 cherrytso 的文章

cherrytso:

你既情況同我好似呀, 我老公只係負責屋租($5k), 其他既雜費, 阿b開支都係我, 我每個月既saving係我自己唔買衫, 唔買袋慳番來的, 奶奶又係好大花筒, 有時我會有意無意串下奶奶, 咪以為我嫁入佢地門口好嘆, 真係有福氣既女人就唔洗生完仔仲要做野啦...留係屋企湊仔full time mom先係我既人生目標。