carmen, so happy to see your reply again ! Well, I posted a message on the forum 嬰兒護理 to see if any mami had similar experience, however, to my disappointement, no one replied. I know such accident seems rare !
when I see your words, my teardrops fell! Yes, you are right, I should be strong right now and be a happy mami in front of my dear daughter!
I don't have any msn but love to send you an email !
I know u must be very busy. and of course, bad mooooood
你有無 msn/facebook? I will PM u my email address.. just in case,
when u want to find someone to chat..
we can chat thr email / MSN.
既然都發生左, 真係唔好再blame大家, 愈諗只會愈唔開心, 既然blame婆婆係幫唔到件事, 咁不如諗下/search下information, 睇下黎緊要做啲咩, 黎幫阿女康復好過啦..
(再blame大家只會傷感情, no value added to the situation now)
(我亦完全明白你老公嘅心情, 掉轉諗, 如果係奶奶唔小心, 你都會好唔開心, 責教奶奶點解咁唔小心.. 會嬲/唔開心/會blame, 係人之常情.. 但嬲完鬧完就要收拾心情.. and I know it takes time.. 你要忍耐下..辛苦你喇.)
好耐無chat 啦！上星期發生了好sad事件！to save time, let me tell you in short !
Last wed, my daughter hurt seriously by a knife under the supervision of two adults. She had three serious cuts on her right hand,--->go to Baptist Hospital ---> did a surgery under全身痲醉 ,無名指関節筋斷了，要縫合！--〉stayfor two nights, I stayed with her overnights -->not go to work for three days
Now, her right hand 被綳帶裹得像一只大雞比， 只有左手可以活動！has to see doctors frequently for follow up !
because of her injury, I have to give up the following :
1. the trip to Korea in Easter (have booked tickets and hotels already --->唔見左成千蚊！）
2. YMCA playgroups in April (luckily to be refunded 90%)
3. a short trip to Macau ....
most hurt me a lot is ....my mum should be blamed for the accident ! She was really upset but my husband put pressure on me instead and said :如果個女將來只手有事，就害左她一世
really, I don't want to recall the accident again ! Hope anything would be gone on smoothly in future !
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