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I change to a full time mum for three years, and during this period, i dismiss four bun bun. Yesterday, I complain my 45 years old bun about she cannot clean my bath room tidy and then she said again its up to you to fired me (already the 4rd time) she can pack her luggage at once and ask me to paid the one month salary to her. My husband is so angry and then ask her either to improve herself or want to terminate the contract. She choose fired. Then I said will give her a month notice.

I don't know its really my unluckily or is it other bun bun bad mouth to me because my living area has many many bun. Do you think I change to yan yan will be more better ? I feel very trouble to hire again and again........

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其實外型不會是我考慮的因數, 我現在個45years, 個look似阿婆及黑, 做野ok la, 但就係唔話得, she ask me to fire her for 3 to 4 times. She challenge my bottom line. If I don't fire her this times, 我冇"訂企". She go out without my permission to the agency to find a new job when I wake up early in the morning time. I call my agency and then tell her if go out again next time, I will write a letter to the immgration to black list her. She wants to cry. Trouble!

出年7月會完約, 我响度諗到時同唔同佢續約呢? 因為到時亞女兩歲, 我驚佢控制唔到或者照顧唔到亞女, 因為我見有啲兩三歲都仲要抱...但我老公就話除左外型之外, 如果佢做野ok就算啦, 唔好換, 費時搏, 再請個新工人返嚟又唔知會點....做做吓如果而家個工人真係做唔掂先換啦.....你地又點睇呢

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方方媽媽

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發表於 08-11-14 15:17 |只看該作者

如果做得到野,矮有咩問題呢?
如果做唔到野,高又有咩用呢?
如果你去到外國謀生,得5'4",或者都會比洋人睇"小"你噃.

原文章由 wko1029 於 08-11-14 14:11 發表
我個賓賓第一次嚟香港, 到而家响我屋企做左16個月, 佢嚟我屋企嗰日係我生完返屋企第二日, 我老公去接佢返屋企, 佢一入到屋, 我簡直有啲嚇呆, 問我老公係咪帶錯工人返嚟, 點降佢咁矮架??之前睇佢啲資料話有4尺11, 雖 ...

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原文章由皓媽於 08-11-12 13:29 發表
I normally wake up at 11am and will not stay at home in the afternoon until my son come back around 4 o'clock. I will go out with my friends one to 2 day a week, so I don't think I 監視距地, but 我係 ...

唉....我咪又係同你一樣...我２年換咗４個工人...２印２bun...E家呢個我到月中就俾notice佢。佢嚟咗都almost一年，我雖然有２個小朋友(5y 1.5y)但我媽咪每日都帶埋佢工人我屋企,幫佢弄lunch俾小朋友,帶小朋友返學,接放学，如果我係hk,就我接放学,買dinner,我同我老公幫小朋友沖涼等....she doesnt' have much thing to do...i tell her that I need her to accompany with the kids when I'm not at home. I need to remind her to do her job daily...but she still forget. she only do the job when you ask her...now, she even not address us when she saw us, no respon when we talk to her, choose thing what she want to do...I really can't stand her anymore and I am going to tell her that even though you don't want to work here, since you are still having the salary and you should respect us and you should finish your duty. If you choose to leave, you can choose to give me one month notice or your one months salary.

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發表於 08-11-14 15:04 |只看該作者

123BB,

haha.. I think my Thai maid is looking for an employer similar as you la~~ hahaha.. she didn't want to renew the contract with me and she said she won't look for job to take care of BB but only need to do housework bor~~

原文章由 123BB 於 08-11-12 16:39 發表
唉, 又冇野做,唔俾佢訓又可以點??我已經養懶左佢, 所以邊個請著佢就pk。

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我個賓賓第一次嚟香港, 到而家响我屋企做左16個月, 佢嚟我屋企嗰日係我生完返屋企第二日, 我老公去接佢返屋企, 佢一入到屋, 我簡直有啲嚇呆, 問我老公係咪帶錯工人返嚟, 點降佢咁矮架??之前睇佢啲資料話有4尺11, 雖然唔係高, 但我心諗都係矮我5寸, 半個頭度啫...ok啦....點知見到真人, 我諗都有4尺6

當時非常嬲, 覺得俾個agent搵笨....第日打俾個agent, 佢話唔知, 可能新加坡個agent度錯左, 如果真係唔鍾意, 可以再搵過, 當時我又驚如果再搵, 可能到我放完產假個新工人都未到, 同埋我老公又話不如睇吓佢揍bb啲手勢同埋做野態度先啦, 如果做野唔好, 請個幾高返嚟都冇用啦....

點知呢個工人到而家為止, 揍亞女都揍得ok, 啲朋友見到亞女都會話"你工人揍得幾好喎...", 不過佢做野好慢lor, 我發覺好多bk媽咪都有呢個同感, 不過我唔係好鍾意佢, 就係佢唔認衰架, 有時佢冇記性, 會話我冇同佢講, 有時我地搵唔到啲野, 問佢放邊, 佢會話我叫佢掉左, 但過兩日佢又會搵返出嚟....

有次我同佢講"你俾心機做啦, 因為你個外型太細小, 如果我唔用你, 你會好難搵野做...(講真, 如果我一早知佢咁嘅高度, 我一定唔請lor), 點知佢話"唔係呀, 我見好多菲傭都矮小過佢呀.....

同埋我最覺得唔自在就係同佢出街時, 其他人會用奇異眼光望完佢跟住望我...好似我請童工咁, 我亞媽同奶奶仲話唔好叫佢攞咁多野, 好似好陰公....大佬, 我唔陰公呀, 俾同樣人工佢, 但我又要俾人眼望望.....

佢出年7月會完約, 我响度諗到時同唔同佢續約呢? 因為到時亞女兩歲, 我驚佢控制唔到或者照顧唔到亞女, 因為我見有啲兩三歲都仲要抱...但我老公就話除左外型之外, 如果佢做野ok就算啦, 唔好換, 費時搏, 再請個新工人返嚟又唔知會點....做做吓如果而家個工人真係做唔掂先換啦.....你地又點睇呢?

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發表於 08-11-14 12:38 |只看該作者

其實依家好既工人真好少架啦,我個女依家3歲,係佢1歲時先請工人,都已經用咗3個工人,每個都最多半年,不過都有啲怪當初自己無經驗,諗番轉頭,第一個已經係最好架啦,我之前直頭怕咗請工人,第3個走咗之後就轉咗鐘點,但只係來個上午都已經要$3000,已經算平,而且假期同六日都唔來,即係我放佢又放,放工返到屋企勁多野做,放假時要一個揍兩個,我有兩個女,真係好累,最近個鐘點又話唔做啦,所以都係請番工人,而家等緊個新工人,希望好架啦!
真係心都淡晒呀

原文章由 Wing(婷婷媽咪) 於 08-11-14 11:58 發表
我都係對工人越黎越低要求, 求其搞得掂d野, 我都唔算數, 我而家都等緊細仔上k2就轉全日, 咁我到時叫阿媽過黎幫我睇一陣, 我就索性唔請工人啦, 真係貼錢買爛受, 都唔知點解做顧主要做得咁辛苦, 我已經係一個脾氣好好 ...

VANNA & BEVERLY i love u
My homepage is

http://www.baby-kingdom.com/?154716

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我都係對工人越黎越低要求, 求其搞得掂d野, 我都唔算數, 我而家都等緊細仔上k2就轉全日, 咁我到時叫阿媽過黎幫我睇一陣, 我就索性唔請工人啦, 真係貼錢買爛受, 都唔知點解做顧主要做得咁辛苦, 我已經係一個脾氣好好既人, 每次工人有大錯, 我都冇鬧, 只係同佢地傾, 咁佢地d眼淚就好似倒水咁出黎, 我好幾次真係忍住唔出聲, 但係個心入面真係媽媽聲, 我都未喊, 你喊乜呢, 真係比佢地吹到漲晒.

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發表於 08-11-13 17:13 |只看該作者

c 啦, 聽你地咁講, 真係好驚呀... 我都係 2 年換左好多個, bun 同印都試過啦... 而家屋企果個係印, 請緊果個係 bun, 諗住貪個 bun 未來過 hk, 又話想搵 $$ (佢 divorced 有個仔 aged 13, 佢連 last portion既 agency fee 都無架, 我個 agent話佢真係幾窮果只, 諗住咁會乖 d... ) c 啦, 我驚新果個會重衰過而家呢個...

好煩呀...~

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發表於 08-11-13 16:39 |只看該作者

Dear all,

Same as me. 4 agents with a maids within 2 yrs. Now waiting the 5 maids. Have try "yanyan" and "bun bun". Just need someone to do cleaning and cooking.Standard was lower and lower everytime, but still

Why bad luck all the time

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發表於 08-11-13 16:06 |只看該作者

回覆 #1 Connielai 的文章

你有所不知, 我請咁多個工人冇一個識得煮俾我食!!!!!!!!!!!!!!我放假仲要執工人既手尾-大清潔, 所以依家工人既主要工作就係睇住個囡囡。

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2023年兔年勳章畀面勳章 BK Milk勳章

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發表於 08-11-13 16:02 |只看該作者

原文章由 123BB 於 08-11-13 15:57 發表
我倒數緊, 仲有9個月, 我會安排囡囡放左學去補習社, 分分鐘連家務助理都唔使請, 一諗起到時一個月可以慳返幾千蚊, 真係由心到笑出來。 ...

但係你到時要做家務, 又要煮飯, 同亞女溫習, 會好辛苦。

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回覆 #1 Connielai 的文章

我倒數緊, 仲有9個月, 我會安排囡囡放左學去補習社, 分分鐘連家務助理都唔使請, 一諗起到時一個月可以慳返幾千蚊, 真係由心到笑出來。

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發表於 08-11-13 15:47 |只看該作者

123BB,

你捱到個女返小學轉用家務助理, 嘻嘻, 我就要捱到個仔返中學就吾用工人, 而家細仔4年級, 仲有2年。

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pollyw

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發表於 08-11-13 15:42 |只看該作者

原文章由 123BB 於 08-11-13 15:34 發表
就係因為咁, 我對工人既要求越來越低..........., 如果唔係, 我換得仲多, 是但過得去就算, 捱到我女返小學轉返家務助理。請過個好既佢又去左加拿大, 一係就來到呃飯食,依家屋企個個叫做好少少, 但係鬧兩句又話唔做。 ...

Same situation as mine. I continuously lowered my standard but still all of them just tried my bottomline and keep challenging me all the time.

My current Bun is not too bad, but everytime when I wanted to clarify something with her, which I suspect something is going wrong, (not to the stage of complaining yet) even in a mild tone, she will first of all shed her tears...the kinda manner like I am wrongfully accusing her.

You know, they are like that, not even to allow me to ask her questions.

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回覆 #1 Connielai 的文章

就係因為咁, 我對工人既要求越來越低..........., 如果唔係, 我換得仲多, 是但過得去就算, 捱到我女返小學轉返家務助理。請過個好既佢又去左加拿大, 一係就來到呃飯食,依家屋企個個叫做好少少, 但係鬧兩句又話唔做。唉.............買佢地怕。

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2023年兔年勳章畀面勳章 BK Milk勳章

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發表於 08-11-13 15:26 |只看該作者

原文章由 123BB 於 08-11-13 14:31 發表
老實講我間屋我認為又幹淨喎, 我要佢每星期抹一次窗架, 廚櫃佢都見到污漕就抹囉, 可能我要求唔係好高呱我個女未夠6歲已經換左5個工人啦。 ...

你要求吾高又會換5個工人?廚櫃外面通常都好乾淨, 但入面就會"痴立立", 抽油煙機, 微波爐我都會要工人每星期抹一次。

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回覆 #1 Connielai 的文章

老實講我間屋我認為又幹淨喎, 我要佢每星期抹一次窗架, 廚櫃佢都見到污漕就抹囉, 可能我要求唔係好高呱

我個女未夠6歲已經換左5個工人啦。

[ 本文章最後由 123BB 於 08-11-13 14:33 編輯 ]

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原文章由 123BB 於 08-11-12 16:39 發表
唉, 又冇野做,唔俾佢訓又可以點??我已經養懶左佢, 所以邊個請著佢就pk。

成間屋點會無野做? 可以叫佢將廚櫃裡的調味料執哂出來逐樽抺, 睇吓放煲,鑊既地方污吾污糟, 污糟就叫佢抺, 再叫佢執床下底, 抺玩具, 鞋櫃 (攞哂D鞋出來叫佢逐層抺), 點會有時間瞓覺？咁你間屋乾吾乾淨?

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