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原文章由 c-wong 於 08-11-14 18:10 發表
If you ask me now, I would say NO.
However, if it really happened to me, I may say YES because I love my husband very much and cannot live without him.

No one can't live without another person.

I thought I couldn't but I could at last. I left my ex- and felt so bad for 1 year. Almost crazy but feel very happy now. (5 years later)

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原文章由 1941 於 08-11-14 17:53 發表

他講過2個原因

我覺得唔合理

1) 佢話我迫佢搵工

(佢做份工2、3個月就唔做, 呢埋屋企打機......我見到可以當冇見到咩？而且我唔係得把口話佢, 我有幫佢, 佢d cv, application letter 係我打既, 我寄既, 我買左 ...

Just excuses.

1) Maybe he felt pressure but should tell you and you two discuss.
2) Just excuse.

You have divorced already. Forget him. You're still young, right? Under 30? You can find another man.

After my divorce, I found my present husband and got married for over 2 years. When my ex- didn't love me, it's meaningless. I can find someone who loves me at last.

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原文章由 giftfromgod 於 08-11-14 16:57 發表
你們的感情只有你們知道，婚外情出軌的一方一定是錯的，但另一方是否沒有任何責任？能否原諒對方，只有你自己最清楚，離開對方會否後悔？因為不是人人都這樣瀟灑,你自己要想清楚！除了原諒，更要找出問題所在，解決問題，若你選擇原諒，不 ...

I think both have problems but the one who has affair is worse.

It depends on whether you can work together to solve problem.
If not, divorce may make you feel better and don't be hurt by the other for years.

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原文章由 1941 於 08-11-14 16:40 發表
佢成日嘈話我衰答應左又冇原諒佢...

He still hurts you! No way! What a bad guy!

Try not to see him and forget him.

I didn't see my ex-husband for 5 years and I feel better. Just email to keep minimum contact. No bb.

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原文章由 rose-mag 於 08-11-14 14:54 發表

其實，如果你真係決定原諒佢就學下唔好再成日提住啦！
要重新開始愛番佢，因為你應承俾次機會佢。
如果你做唔到，倒不如話要時間睇定下，同佢講要有試用期，
等佢唔好以為老馮，原諒真係唔係等於忘記，忘記係要時間，
同時，你老公都要 ...

Agreed.

與其以後要提心吊膽疑神疑鬼，又或者日嘈夜嘈，倒不如放生自己，小朋友如果喺一個父母唔相愛嘅家庭長大，都唔見得會開心

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原文章由 1941 於 08-11-14 11:35 發表

我試過不只一次原諒佢.....但每次都發現佢同個女人繼續來往

我同你阿嫂個case 幾似....個時未有bb 我原諒佢

大肚果時我又原諒佢

我亦會好似你阿嫂咁....間唔中都會拎返出黎講

佢反應就係: "我錯左一次, 你 ...

he keeps in touch with that woman for very long time. No way!
CAN'T forgive and I'll leave.

I did the same thing when I was 28. I left my c6 'cos he didn't leave the woman for 6 months and I left.

I'm now 34. remarried for over 2 years and still wait for bb. I'm now very happy.

In your case, you have bb. It's difficult to decide.

I think you should talk to social worker. If he doesn't leave the woman and still keeps in touch, you can only leave him. I'm sorry. It wastes your time and hurts you all the time.

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原文章由 1941 於 08-11-14 16:40 發表
佢成日嘈話我衰答應左又冇原諒佢...

下次同佢講, 結婚時佢夠對眾親友宣誓愛你一生一世, 永不變啦. 最後又係點呀 ?

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If you ask me now, I would say NO.
However, if it really happened to me, I may say YES because I love my husband very much and cannot live without him.

[ 本文章最後由 c-wong 於 08-11-14 18:11 編輯 ]

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其實d男人真係好自私~調返轉丫~我地d女人做錯左一次,佢地係咪都可以原諒丫!?

我就一定唔得囉~錯左就係錯左,明知做左...女人會傷心既,但都要做...即係嚮度踩鋼線啦~如果識諗既,一定唔會做一d hurt對方既野囉~所以我好憎d男人出去偷完食,返黎同個老婆認錯..咁係咩意思先?簡直係不知所謂呀!!!:;pppp: :;pppp: :;pppp:

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原文章由 1941 於 08-11-14 17:53 發表

他講過2個原因

我覺得唔合理

1) 佢話我迫佢搵工

(佢做份工2、3個月就唔做, 呢埋屋企打機......我見到可以當冇見到咩？而且我唔係得把口話佢, 我有幫佢, 佢d cv, application letter 係我打既, 我寄既, 我買左 ...

你老公唔值得你比機會佢呀！
佢對你既對答似足我第一個男友，我提議你最好放手，因為佢根本就唔認為自己有需要承担任何責任，唔好比我批死，再有第三者幾會係100%。你到不如襯自己還年輕重新找過一個好老公好過啦！

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