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viv-viv

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我地第1次請外傭, 我家印印6月來港,當時呀b11個月最初都算主動,但9月下旬起越做越差,忍到宜家呀b16個月, 其中經典如下...

1. 佢湊呀B勉強OK,但唔算細心,成日都想夾呀B去訓,呀B訓左跟埋99坐響度睇TV...62夜晚帶呀B去公園玩,又跟我地坐響度睇TV...呀b睇beyond concert DVD N萬次,佢陪B玩同呀B坐定
定一齊睇...

2. 廣東話同英文都唔掂,聽到你傻...夠膽窒我"The Phillippino came" 唔係"come"...但係發音"UG"竟然係醜樣(ugly), "mandress"係被褥,問佢係咪"mattress"又唔答你...叫佢"UN"-button (個UN字勁強調)佢同你扣o西d紐...吹漲...

3. 我地無咩要求,夜晚響99度食,99煮,禮拜六日又唔駛佢煮(佢煮過1次我買現成蒜香雞翼叫佢放落碟去microwave "reheat", 佢用1碗油份量同我落鑊炸黎"reheat" 果餐飯連整魚片墨圓 + 菜搞左個幾2個鐘, 我火都黎埋)禮拜六日頂多煮麵/叫外賣/出街食

4. 食野好picky...唔食豬都有好多可能性,我99lunch唔想煮去food court,樣樣都話唔OK, 我99頭痕到暈...唔鍾意就食好少,跟住cc下既樣, 我老公越黎越唔妥佢,叫佢自己煮自己食,佢煮個麵都雕花講究,連埋食同洗搞你0.5 hr plus , 但又可以食白買麵包搽花生醬做早餐~~~去飲茶,炳完有時會幫手洗碗筷子,唔知幾時會幾時唔會, 唔會果陣夠膽翹埋手又唔湊b等食, 佢開始食野就唔會停低幫下手,好有原則...

5. 做野有時勁慢, 呢個Sat呀B響婆婆度沖個涼,淨係請佢tidy toilet...即係沖番趕淨個沖涼盆,抹乾個地同扭乾毛巾, 結果搞左成20分鐘有多我呀媽提我去叮佢佢剛剛去埋廁所,跟住都唔出黎,我呀媽睇到佢對住面鏡發呆

6. 無乾淨sense...呀B 10月中病,搞到病到要入醫院,入院前後竟然可以抹鼻水紗巾用足1日濕到淋佢用手揸足全日都唔換...佢去過星加坡打中國人工,但係竟然無識用滾水消毒D洗完既紗巾...響醫院我留夜,日頭佢黎到1碌葛咁坐響度唔幫手....出院我99醒我搞番掂間屋,我間屋看黎無事,但我都要多2日搞掂---住院其間佢夜番屋企淨洗佢自己d衫,我99夾佢洗bb衫褲, 同佢"懶乖 " "自發"幫bb換床單被褥+抹bb傢私 1 次咁多.....

7. 無記性又大頭蝦,成30歲人好似傻婆咁,根本唔敢俾低鎖匙佢...唔願訓上格床,第1晚試完好勉強,cc下...咁去訓廳,出入好唔方便....我就係訓bb房地下照顧bb, 成日訓得唔好....佢訓左好似c魚,呀仔臨入醫院半夜訓得唔好喊得好利害,佢都唔起身幫手,第二朝仲話聽到喊眼開唔到起唔到身....

8. 雖然係唔會自把自為玀野食,但係要你俾,生果有時要削埋皮佢食,唔係話"我好唔叫佢食",食生果要揀唔酸至食

9. 佢未黎過HK打工,好怕凍,怕到要成日搽cream,可以既話盡量避掂水,呢兩日成2X度仲係1張冷氣被同1張羽絨被...9點離開99度一出屋即變臉黑面~~~

10. 出街我地抱B,佢幫手拎袋同supermarket買既日用品,佢最初會貼身跟住幫手開商場門,宜家會翹埋手行得好慢會躲後(有時躲後成條街要我地等埋佢)我地自己抱B又開商場門...

11. 永遠唔會multi-task, 有時懶醒又響toilet洗衫又煲水,煲水用最猛火人又唔響度,又關埋門唔會間唔中入去望,好危險,要幫佢間唔中入去望下煲水!!!夜晚識乾衣唔識同時開機洗衫,到我玀埋出去話要洗佢望鐘話9點半可以洗!!!

12. 好好好吞"

ok"...呀B 既衫褲紗巾要堆到星期日至一次過洗,轉凍前夠膽1對襪著1星期,早d響99度洗件外套就懶醒好威咁, 奶樽經已我自己洽, 佢唔會幫我/bb換床單,唔會入主人房/bb房/書房抹傢私抹地,淨抹走廊,廳,廚廁同個廳(但唔抹家電同飾物櫃),廁所1星期洗1次,唔炳連抽氣扇都唔抹,見到我老公成蘿污衣唔會玀去機洗...我果d 竟然會抄要手洗既幾件出黎洗,其他照c響果桶度.....最經典成2星期都唔洗!!!!好似所有野都係我既功課咁!!!佢夠膽C 個廚房黎左5個月我強硬要求先大抹1次, 果日後尾CC地自己應承跟住個weekend會抹窗, 宜家都無抹過!!!天氣凍佢抹地好似玩平面絲帶操!!!!

我仲有n項不滿,仲有數唔完, 成日話"我唔知",唔知唔識又唔問...基本上踢一腳做一下仲要幫佢跟手尾...好多時仲好似係我功課咁!!!時時都響度等....等運到!!!!5個月啦, 咩都適應啦,每日行程/做D咩唔好話我好唔同佢講呀!!!我真係頂佢唔順, 要我下下都娥/炳我都無癮,要我地就佢, 我洗鬼請佢!!!我呀媽話佢係"太婆"仲要我湊番轉頭!!!

我地仲要買左唔少長袖衫褲俾佢迎接秋天,買佢鐘意飲既咖啡 , 燕麥, 豆漿, Mr. Juicy, 薯片等佢happy D 唔好打眼訓...我地咁無要求咁少野做都搞成咁...

我好激氣,老公都覺真係要換人,又驚一個不如一個,煩左2星期,終於去AGENT揀新人,成個人無咁DOWN, 我都費事激氣炳佢, 為免佢發顛, 到時直駁,但佢2 Dec 到期要交2400,仲要1個月3480代通知金,要駛多好多$$$....

我地掃佢果日係咪俾足$$$可以講D好行既理由交代呢? (e.g.嬤嬤話湊得掂BB唔駛請人幫手?)雖然agent派人兩個唔碰面送新人黎/夾舊既走, 如果佢發爛唔肯簽收1個月代通知金同機票錢咁點算?

[ 本文章最後由 viv-viv 於 08-11-17 18:57 編輯 ]

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My lovely boy Andrew was born!
He is a July piggy!
viv-viv = andrew-mama

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viv-viv

大宅

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發表於 08-11-20 06:15 |只看該作者

尋日我放假同我件極品and亞仔響屋企,我特登鑼買左俾亞仔既新冬衣落坌,我同亞仔沖完涼亞仔訓左我無開電視佢終於死死地氣洗左亞仔盆衫...但問題又來啦...

(1) 上晝未食午飯同我講佢"姨媽到" (我同99問住佢,提佢唔好沖落廁所另外包好丟入rubbish bin.佢勁樔自己D野同時對我講D"外星話"...我都估到佢想點...終於佢講話搵巾巾好似用完,我都驚佢無問佢有無夠唔夠,佢鑼住個袋EEOO一陣話夠用埋今次要買,話今晚要去買...佢個樣好似平時佢飲完佢D咖啡要我買新咁...好似expect又係我自動送俾佢...大姐,佢來到頭2個月我帶佢去IndoShop送過2-3次額外日用品俾佢(佢自己執,當中有巾巾) ,送電話卡又幫佢增值過 (cs...張卡50分鐘2日隊爆仲要我老公幫佢增值$100...宜家佢無提唔敢問)...我無可能接濟咁耐架...我扮傻走左去

(2) 臨出發去99前1hr,亞仔開餐, 佢突然話"姨媽痛",個樣好辛苦問要藥,我俾panadol佢,佢唔肯要,係都壓要"細細粒"姨媽痛"藥(我實在真係唔知佢講係咩藥),洗咁"o累"我響藥櫃搵俾佢,我無點俾者...我地做女果陣痛德緊要都係食panadol,我老公聽到唔happy,話轉頭同佢去睇醫生佢話唔駛,臨出門口問佢又話無咁痛唔駛買藥...唉~~~~

(3) 唔知係咪洗左盆衫+"姨媽痛",加埋天氣凍更加怕掂水所以承機薩懒,今晚竟然唔幫手洗晚飯我地D碗碟,連佢自己套碗碟筷子都唔洗(之前完全未試過),要我99洗埋佢果D,佢唔駛湊B情況下翹埋對手1個人自己睇TVB台慶....真係妹仔大過主人婆...死未!!!! 由於本人不在場同仔仔+老公+62落左街,睇唔到事發經過, 事後99拉我地埋一邊好勞氣話一定要炒左佢,99話唔止呢單都忍佢好耐, 件極品唔單止要我受氣,仲要我99服侍埋佢...99梗係ANGRY~~~

希望新姐姐個VISA快d搞掂啦....

My lovely boy Andrew was born!
He is a July piggy!
viv-viv = andrew-mama

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SandraLo

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發表於 08-11-18 21:58 |只看該作者

回覆 #1 viv-viv 的文章

佢若唔肯簽收走人, 你可call police, 因佢已無權留响你屋企！

查實有d 嘢你係可以避免到的.....
你上天書睇睇, 有d work rules, work procedures及timetable之類, 你按自己要求增減, 例如逢星期幾抹窗, 換床單等等, 俾新工人照住做; 冇呢個timetable, 精嘅工人扮唔識做, 蠢嘅就以為唔駛做！
重有, 到佢真係唔follow instruction/timetable時, 你亦有依據去出警告信！

[ 本文章最後由 SandraLo 於 08-11-18 21:59 編輯 ]

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viv-viv

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發表於 08-11-18 19:09 |只看該作者

我位極品今朝又懶醒著得好單薄去99度,
即時叫左佢番屋企添衣,佢傻笑唔肯,都唔知佢係咪聽唔明
C 啦翻左風
佢係咪特登博冷病唔駛做~~~

My lovely boy Andrew was born!
He is a July piggy!
viv-viv = andrew-mama

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werbaba

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發表於 08-11-17 21:11 |只看該作者

你請過個新工人先有新希望！

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2heiBBmama

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好媽媽勳章親子達人勳章 BK Milk勳章

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發表於 08-11-17 20:18 |只看該作者

炒工人我就一定唔會比機票錢, 買張機票安全d...

神未曾應許天色常藍;但衪曾應許生活有力!

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viv-viv

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想起呀仔入院果陣佢話唔識上去醫院canteen買野食,要我老公買埋服侍佢,老公買最貴既龍利魚柳飯佢食話似豬肉介意唔食,真係火都黎埋...

個個同事都叫我抄佢, 我仲咁仁慈掙扎咁耐~~~

My lovely boy Andrew was born!
He is a July piggy!
viv-viv = andrew-mama

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viv-viv

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佢最落力幫呀仔換片,換完15min摸下又話換,我地摸剛剛VV左一次少少濕唔需要換啦...最用心夜晚番到屋企陪我地同個仔一齊玩...

佢用黎按住呀仔落PLAYMAT黎換片(PAMPERS好動寶寶)我老公火都黎埋....宜家大部份時候係用huggies pull-up褲片啦....
呀仔出院後我經已個個星期提佢每1hr 除片"舒" 呀仔去學自己VV介片到宜家又唔見佢做...

另一經典: 我無叫佢處理,去完supermarket一入屋自己響廚房慢條斯理掛2袋食品上勾(無放入食物櫃) 跟住搞紙包維他檸懞茶(當時成條竹係衫需要去乾衣),要用刀仔慢慢界響兩包飲品中間黎整開個膠包裝膜....1包6盒連掛袋搞你15分鐘
大佬....common sense者
唔通又要教佢用把較剪剪開旁邊然後撕開10秒搞掂?
我去問佢響廚房做咩,見到呢個情景, 佢仲OGG望住我發呆,又唔放落frige,又唔行開,想點? 又等我落order呀...
"我話呢D根本唔重要,我無叫你做,點解要宜家做?你應該去做你其他功夫..." 佢先去乾衣...我宜家記得啦....果陣9:45 p.m.佢唔願做應做功夫,防礙佢沖涼訓覺...於是揀野做磨時間囉~~~

我地係有教/話佢,只怪我地太好人俾好多allowance俾佢進步,我地同99講頂佢唔順,99開始話佢,佢咪好D,但唔持久,佢為做而做最仲要係為做而做,全無成效,又唔得mulit-task,又唔識分先後重要,我叫佢做佢唔做/推起身做,唔駛佢搞又要早早講定叫佢唔好掂...

你話佢煲水唔可以唔睇住開最猛火,佢仲駁你嘴話煲水唔滿佢用黎"luk"紗巾...都唔make sense...

[ 本文章最後由 viv-viv 於 08-11-17 20:12 編輯 ]

My lovely boy Andrew was born!
He is a July piggy!
viv-viv = andrew-mama

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ilmom

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發表於 08-11-17 19:41 |只看該作者

我都和你差不多時間換人, 又係要駛一筆錢, 我以為補足給她就無事, 還有什麼要注意?

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yeungboy

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發表於 08-11-17 19:18 |只看該作者

Obviously that your maid is not proactive enough. However all the maids are not proactive. This is their characteristics.

Then the problem is whether your maid is really so bad that even if you give her clear instruction, she still can't do it? Or you do not give clear and enough instructions to her. e.g.
- Did you ask her to boil the baby towels after washing?
- Did you tell her when to wash the clothes? For example in my case, I ask my maid to wash baby's clothes and adults' clothes on alternative days. She will follow.
- Did you tell her what tasks should be done daily and what should be done weekly? e.g. need to wash toilet every day.
etc

If you've already given her clear and enough instructions and she is still like that, of course she is too bad. If not, please make sure to give clear instructions to your new maid. Otherwise you may fall into similar situation again.