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bb@rabbit


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係這5年間除了第一個印印係可以完約(想續佢, 佢唔想做), 之後4個都無一個可以到尾.
第二個(22歲), 成日俾我99鬧. 當時要同99住. 99投訢佢, 做野拿西求其. 最離譜係 將我個女d燕窩倒晒. 因為我女成日嘔成日病, 所以整d燕窩俾小朋友食, 佢”簡”燕窩時只將d較大的抽出, 其餘倒晒. 99同我都非常肉痛, 都再教佢”簡”過. 都係唔聽. 無辦法, 所以換人.
第三個(20+), 一來到第一個星期就係我間房開冷氣, 我們全家人出晒街. 我心諗要開都唔好係主人房開吖, 咁咪瞓係我將床涼冷氣. 同佢講屋企冷氣不可以自己開. 點知過幾天, 我同99帶個女去學校outing. 個女話疲要反提早屋企. 佢就開晒廳的冷氣.即刻第一個月就叫佢走.
第四個(30+)無工作經驗, 諗住會定性d. 來了十個月屋企係史無前例咁污濁, 廚房的乾貨(菜乾/冬菇…)生晒蟲, 仲要話係我老公d花, 生虫飛入去. 十個月蒸or煎魚都係唔熟. 特然要放假就一定要放假. 仲打電話反agency話我唔俾佢放假.
第5個(36歲), 係馬來西亞做了4年, 仲係做完屋企要出舖頭再做. 我心諗佢來到應該會覺得比以前好, 應該做得長. 點知都係好我8個月, 還晒錢後. 朝早唔知醒起身(多次), 已經俾2個alarm clock佢但無用. 全天失憶, 失魂落魄, 無厘頭四點煮晒晚飯. 一日洗晒全屋床單, etc… 叫agent warming 佢, 而家d態度好似迫我炒佢咁.
嗄……………………….
而家等緊個賓賓, 希望會好d.
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coreymami


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tpmak


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發表於 08-11-24 18:33 |只看該作者
我都好黑, 在短短4個月, 換了兩個工人,
一個後悔要照顧兩個小朋友, 要resign
上星期, 第二個, 做了4天, 我請了4天假協助佢,
第一天, 都正常, 第二天, 去toilet 去了20幾次,
佢冇幫我收拾床, 算, 冇掃地, 算.
冇依時比個女食藥, 冇洗廁所……
因為要上班, 冇老人家幫手, 死忍,
點知工作第4天, 一早cry, 講唔鐘意照顧小朋友,
唔鍾要我細女, 唔做.
等了她一個多月, 假已請, 加埋現在比機票比佢,
又要賠錢, 當初面對面見佢已經講晒, 咩都ok,
原文章由 bb@rabbit 於 08-11-21 11:37 發表
係這5年間除了第一個印印係可以完約(想續佢, 佢唔想做), 之後4個都無一個可以到尾.
第二個(22歲), 成日俾我99鬧. 當時要同99住. 99投訢佢, 做野拿西求其. 最離譜係 將我個女d燕窩倒晒. 因為我女成日嘔成日病, 所以整 ...
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terrenz


複式洋房

積分: 175


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發表於 08-11-24 16:13 |只看該作者
原文章由 bbcats 於 08-11-22 12:04 發表
樓主,我絕對相信你係個好僱主
我的經驗都同你類似
唯一一個好的最後玩約唔續到現在連續換了幾個
有陣時都唔之佢地想點
我又重未有BB,只需要照顧兩隻貓
晚餐煮一餐飯(重要好多時無係屋企)
工人一日見到我的時間都唔之 ...


我個工人都係得3個鐘見到我,做嘢都係得1個鐘到,其餘時間就瞓覺& msn,我就有個仔要佢煮下下晝飯比佢食,放學就我個仔狂睇電視唔做功課,佢就係自己房柵埋門,各不相干,非常融洽,只係我呢個太太唔識做人,成日話佢呢樣唔好,嗰樣唔好.

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bbcats


複式洋房

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發表於 08-11-22 12:04 |只看該作者
樓主,我絕對相信你係個好僱主
我的經驗都同你類似
唯一一個好的最後玩約唔續到現在連續換了幾個
有陣時都唔之佢地想點
我又重未有BB,只需要照顧兩隻貓
晚餐煮一餐飯(重要好多時無係屋企)
工人一日見到我的時間都唔之有沒有3個鐘?......
其實佢地來香港做事or做大小姐?!
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Yonah


複式洋房

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發表於 08-11-22 11:08 |只看該作者
原文章由 yeungboy 於 08-11-21 18:29 發表
Same to me. I've changed 4 maids in the past 2 years. Frankly I am never a harsh person and always be polite to the maids. However a maid disappeared after borrowing money from financial agency, anoth ...


yes, totally agree
sometimes even our best friend, they won't understand (if they didn't hire a maid) they just think we are so harsh to the maid (because they have no experience being suffer from the bad maid) for the 1st philipine maid, when she arrived to my house till she left (I lose 28 pounds), for the 2nd Indo maid when she come till she left (I lose 12 pounds), now the maid has gone, I gain weight rapidly up to 130 pounds. ha ha ha...........
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coreymami


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Yonah


複式洋房

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發表於 08-11-22 10:56 |只看該作者
原文章由 pollyw 於 08-11-21 12:16 發表

Polly, you've pointed out exactly what we have suffered!!!!



I feel sorry for you after reading your post. You are not alon, 'cus many employers out there are suffering the same thing like the way you are. Poor employers (sigh..)!

But we are only a small ...
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pollyw


侯爵府

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好媽媽勳章 大廚勳章


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原文章由 coreymami 於 08-11-22 00:02 發表
我比你地更慘, 4年裹面分別炒左同自己唔做既, 共有10個, 而家好小心咁搵緊第十一個.

淨係今年都換左3個, 有兩個係自己唔做, 一個係炒.

想問下大家, 你地知唔知我地換得多工人既, 會受到工人同工人既咀咒架??

...



coreymani,

你未講完我都已知你想講乜,因為呢樣野亦同樣係我身上法生。

我毎日出入,都会比屋宛d印記怒ロ卑,講兩句Ji　Ji　jum,　又再bear。　我啅号叫Terminator,係我而家個Bun姐話我知既。但我唔会理拒地。

But..拒地会影响我家エ人既心態,條路真係好難行…唉!

[ 本文章最後由 pollyw 於 08-11-22 10:34 編輯 ]
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味兒


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發表於 08-11-22 00:58 |只看該作者
樓主 如果我係你 我就會同個d講衰你d工人僱主溝通下 la 我工人餵bb食飯餵到出門口同隔離工人吹水 我知道後 我都同個僱主講 有咁ga 情況 怕佢地作反 最好以後都唔好la 費是大家ga 工人講得太多野 仲有1次 我工人湊bb返學 又係有d印印 自行比d衫我個工人 我個日馬上一齊同工人接bb放學 仲比返袋衫個個印印 咁q 個個印印個僱主老爺又同個印印一齊接佢個孫放學 佢唔很認袋衫係佢 之後我就問老師攞左我個仔個同學仔個媽咪電話 打比佢 話佢知佢個工人 成日周圍吹水 又攞衫比我個工人 d衫仲有d似佢太太架 之後個工人都係唔認 依家個個印印見到我個工人都唔敢同我工人講野 我仲同老師佢地講左 要留意d工人 有咩野就打比我 我會用盡辦法 去監管我工人ga行為
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coreymami


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yeungboy


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發表於 08-11-21 18:29 |只看該作者
Same to me. I've changed 4 maids in the past 2 years. Frankly I am never a harsh person and always be polite to the maids. However a maid disappeared after borrowing money from financial agency, another got home sick and requested to leave after 1 week. The attitude of next one was terrible. She never replied me and gave me black face all day. Seem like I killed all her family members.

My friends just don't understand and wonder if I requested too much or not. One of my maid stayed overnight outside without permission. To me, it's a really big mistake and I gave her warning letter. However my friend just said I was too stringent. She said that staying outside overnight was no big deal. She said that I over-reacted. Am I???? I really don't think so. If she got pregnant, I'm the one to suffer. However the friends just don't understand.
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pollyw


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原文章由 ChuChu0808 於 08-11-21 17:28 發表


呢個moment, 我唔止見想嘔, 仲見暈添呀!



咁得末呀!小姐!

我唔会産架!最多係咁!
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ChuChu0808


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原文章由 pollyw 於 08-11-21 17:04 發表

係ロ羊!　我都唔好意思!
咁你宜家見点呀?


呢個moment, 我唔止見想嘔, 仲見暈添呀!
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pollyw


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原文章由 ChuChu0808 於 08-11-21 15:05 發表


Pollyw, 唔好意思都想講句, 我睇親你d post都見到你果兩位公主副尊容真係好想反胃..... 你可唔可以剷左佢呀?


係ロ羊!　我都唔好意思!
咁你宜家見点呀?
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mimibunny


洋房

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發表於 08-11-21 16:48 |只看該作者
ha ha....

原文章由 ChuChu0808 於 08-11-21 15:05 發表


Pollyw, 唔好意思都想講句, 我睇親你d post都見到你果兩位公主副尊容真係好想反胃..... 你可唔可以剷左佢呀?
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jadechant


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發表於 08-11-21 16:45 |只看該作者
原文章由 123BB 於 08-11-21 11:49 發表
每換一次外傭, 我就將我既要求降低一格!!!!


還要將自己的EQ提高, 否則, 好容易變為"short"人, 得到神經病.

始終言語是不同, 通常我罵她的第一. 二句, 她是聽到/收到, 跟住第三句開始, 她已關了耳朵不聽, 任得我發癲. 所以, 我對住極品只會一句起兩句止, 說完就踢她入廚房做野, 免自己越來越激氣, 亦不會給她機會駁咀或黑面.

[ 本文章最後由 jadechant 於 08-11-21 16:57 編輯 ]
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睿睿豬


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發表於 08-11-21 15:09 |只看該作者
pollyw,

睇到你嘅post, 簡直係講晒我心聲, 我係2年幾裡面, 用左4個工人, 第一個黎幫我照顧初生, 佢已經係兩個小朋友嘅媽媽, 但都唔識照顧BB, OK我教佢, 嘔左好多血, 過左大半, 先叫上左手, 到左一年零二兩月, 佢申請到去加拿大, 要走, 當時我心想人望高處, 好難怪佢, 佢走時仲話: "Mum, thank you for teaching me so much", 佢走時我買左禮物比佢d仔女, 我媽媽比佢大利是, 但後來先知佢原來一心黎香港做踏腳石, 目的係去加拿大!!!!!!

自己挨左兩個月, 等到第二個到, 佢冇經驗, 咩都唔識做, 教到我喊左好多次, 日日要煮埋比佢食, 仲要樣樣都話好好食, 叫佢煮, 佢話唔識, 仲要係傻傻哋, 又唔多識英文, 一個月後補錢炒左。

又挨左兩個多月, 等到第三個黎, 佢好好, 唔係好使教, 算係自動波, 但開心左一年, 又去加拿大

到左第四個 , 我簡直身心疲累, 咩都唔識, 浪床單摺四摺浪, 比晒timetable佢做嘢, 佢啋你都傻, 叫佢mark底點做, 佢扮mark其實冇mark, 最簡單清潔都唔識, 已經做左兩星期, 有日7點半放工返到屋企佢都可以未洗菜, 問佢點解佢話要熨衫 (我個timetable已經講晒每日嘅工作), 做嘢又超級慢, 最後又係賠錢佢走。

到而家, 唔想再博, 唯有要媽媽辛苦d幫手照顧BB, 都唔想再請工人, 再賠錢 , 你真係講得好啱, 好彩請到好工人幫手嘅朋友, 真係以為你唔知點折磨工人, 所以人哋先走, 冇工人的朋友, 更加唔使講啦 , 所以樓主, 好多人陪你唔開心!


原文章由 pollyw 於 08-11-21 12:16 發表



I feel sorry for you after reading your post. You are not alon, 'cus many employers out there are suffering the same thing like the way you are. Poor employers (sigh..)!

But we are only a small ...

[ 本文章最後由 睿睿豬 於 08-11-21 15:13 編輯 ]
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ChuChu0808


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發表於 08-11-21 15:05 |只看該作者
原文章由 pollyw 於 08-11-21 12:16 發表

I feel sorry for you after reading your post. You are not alon, 'cus many employers out there are suffering the same thing like the way you are. Poor employers (sigh..)!

But we are only a small ...


Pollyw, 唔好意思都想講句, 我睇親你d post都見到你果兩位公主副尊容真係好想反胃..... 你可唔可以剷左佢呀?
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cowkingb


大宅

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發表於 08-11-21 14:18 |只看該作者
原文章由 bb@rabbit 於 08-11-21 11:37 發表
係這5年間除了第一個印印係可以完約(想續佢, 佢唔想做), 之後4個都無一個可以到尾.
第二個(22歲), 成日俾我99鬧. 當時要同99住. 99投訢佢, 做野拿西求其. 最離譜係 將我個女d燕窩倒晒. 因為我女成日嘔成日病, 所以整 ...


I am sorry for hearing your bad experience too. Me too, with similar bad experiences as you.

My current maid is an Indo, she intended not to take her regular day off as she said she wants to earn more $$ for her family.

It was our intention too as we don't want her to be 'polluted', however her performance was unbelivable bad... forget this & that though we have reminded her over thousands of times, lazy... etc, which made us angry.

My husband has to be on duty on Sat from Dec onwards, I then need to face up with her alone with my baby. I hope not so I bear the risk to release her on Sat as her regular day off.

I have prepared for the worst that she will be 'polluted', however I can do nothing.

All HK employers are poor, we can't argue or complain, even we did, nothing the Govn't can help...POOR US!
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