But then, DriedPork, if it's a job which your husband can't change, you just have to learn to accept it; otherwise it's not good to worry all the time. Just be alert, but don't worry. OK? (If it happens, it happens.)
The problem in Mainland is "free delivery" (主動送上門). It's not our husbands whom we need to worry about, it is the hugh temptation on the other side which keeps testing them. It's not easy to 抗拒.