don't hit her, it's no use, only she will learn to hit people very soon tim.
when my son was a little younger than your daughter, I told him he has to tidy up his toys be4 he goes to sleep, otherwise I'll think he doesn't want them anymore & I'll throw them away.
Then one day when he didn't tidy up, I hide his favorite toy of that time. When he couldn't find it the next day I told him I threw it away becos xxxxx.......he cried so hard that time, but after that, he always tidy up la before going to bed , or go out street or when we ask him to. All we have to do is to remind him of that thrown away toy. Now he is a little over 3 and at night he can tidy up even when he is very sleepy.
Lately, he likes bedtime story very very much, so I will only read to him after he tidy up, he can tidy up automactically la, no need to say a second time la, very save water saver strenght.
我把平安留給你們,我將我的平安賜給你們;我所賜給你們的,不像世界所賜的一樣。你心裏不要煩亂,也不要膽怯。(若 14:27) Happy moments, praise God. Difficult moments, seek God. Quiet moments, worship God. Painful moments, trust God. Every moment, thank God!!!