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new maid has no money for her holiday??!!! [複製鏈接]

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原帖由 scotia.nova 於 09-5-29 23:21 發表
I lend money to her because she has to go back to agency for training in first 8 weeks. That's fine with me. But she can't say other boss gave money to other maids - no need to return.. and poor he ...

hey, you should be giving her the list of things to buy, not ask her what she will buy?! otherwise, she will just buy what she likes to eat and you will suffer~
I think of the dishes everyday and write the shopping list and amount for her to go to the market, she just follows and ticks off from the list of things.
Of course it is difficult for you at the beginning coz your old maid is 'automatic'.
This is the 3rd year of my maid working for me and I'm still using this method, no confusions no arguments! The only difference is I ask her what we've used up and needs to refill in the freezer, and she tell me when garlic & ginger & spring onion & fruits when finished.

I think your maid is too bossy, you need to monitor her closely to make sure she does the right thing. Tell her whatever she eats she needs to get your permission, even she doesn't like rice she eats what your family eat at night.

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比著我？唔好話比錢佢，借都未必會，睇下有幾緊要，係唔係必需出街先算。無錢味放假都唔好出街咯，邊個叫你窮？咁係要頂硬上架啦！

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佢地short short 地, e+佢放假出街, 借$俾佢仲想點, 佢唔like 可以唔做.

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樓主, 你個工人真的很過份, 要求既野似我個仔! 點似係工人講既野!?

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Scotia.nova

Thank You.

我個 bun bun 都 30yrs 啦..佢都唔係咁架..佢星期日放完假返黎都做家務架..咁好既表現就有好回報啦...

原帖由 scotia.nova 於 09-5-29 14:13 發表
beebee123,
I totally agreed with you...
"lend = need to return"
"good performance = can get more bonus".
For my old maid, I always give her jetso. She doesn't calculate with me (if I ask her to com ...

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原帖由 scotia.nova 於 2009/5/29 14:09 發表
No, she is aged 33. I chose her because she performed maturely in the video. I even conducted the telephone interview with her and she seemed very understanding and capable on the phone.

Talk mor ...

原本佢真係"SHORT SHORT DEI" , 成33 歲人啦.
如果你同佢直接講完後(我上文的一番說話).佢依然都係成日比較的話, 你叫佢俾RESIGN LETTER 你啦.
同埋你叫你工人下次搵工時在RESUME 上面寫明要每天飲益力多, 食CHEESE, 食蕉, 借錢唔駛還, 你咪睇吓有沒有僱員SO 佢囖. 佢到時真係食蕉啦.......

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原帖由 scotia.nova 於 09-5-29 14:09 發表
No, she is aged 33. I chose her because she performed maturely in the video. I even conducted the telephone interview with her and she seemed very understanding and capable on the phone.

Talk mor ...

年紀有返咁上下都咁....

我工人年紀都大38yrs
但從來唔會講佢前僱主d野
亦都冇request要食d乜
不過我見佢唔太like食方包,
都好少買囉
佢從來唔會食我地d零食/水果
我見佢會自己買架

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個工人係黎打工定享受呀..又食依樣食個樣..我地出去返工老闆都唔會提供食物啦.. short short 地既..講到借錢佢都有問題啦..咩叫做"借"呀...有借當然要還啦...如果佢表現好都會唔洗佢還既...我工人都有問過我借錢呀...佢湊我個 b 好又聽話我話表現好咪唔洗佢還囉...你個個咁既態度一定要佢還呀.....成日講個舊 boss 叫佢返去做囉...死既:;pppp: :;pppp: :;pppp:

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原帖由 scotia.nova 於 09-5-29 13:38 發表
don't know why I can't type chinese today here...

Last night, I told my girl that the old maid will be leaving this Sat. Then, my girl started to cry. Then, my old helper & I cried altogeth ...

工人佢地自己放假傾計就一定會同其他同鄉比較架喇....
就好似我地都會同其他朋友講自己公司有乜福利一樣
但唔應該request自己老細比返同樣福利比自己囉

你個工人好細個架, 咁鍾意compare 同眼紅人地有d乜o既

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原帖由 scotia.nova 於 09-5-29 13:38 發表
don't know why I can't type chinese today here...

Last night, I told my girl that the old maid will be leaving this Sat. Then, my girl started to cry. Then, my old helper & I cried altogeth ...

我請左工人10年

bun 同印都用過

無一個會放假時問我拿$
亦無一個我會比$佢call 返home 報到
亦無一個會隨意食我既零食

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原帖由 scotia.nova 於 09-5-29 11:02 發表
係咪真係要比錢佢地,instead of 借

仲有,佢不滿我成日係屋企,話其他人d boss 唔係咁

覺得自己咩都慘過人

又成日食我d snacks 唔食飯, 話要每日都要飲yakult, 食banana, 又每日食我女d cheese

其實我冇唔比我之前 ...

工人岩岩嚟HK打工無錢唔出奇, 但係我只會借100比佢, 出糧要還番, 佢係HK做過未? 點解會慘過人, 問番佢而家邊個係佢boss? 邊個出糧比佢? 我工人一嚟就同佢講家規, 除咗三餐同生果可以食之外, 其它零食飲品都唔吃得, 咁多個都無出過聲無問題, 我間中會買d餅比佢地做零食, 你要同佢講明, cheese係你個女既, 佢食咗個女無得食會唔開心, 佢嚟打工唔好咁多要求.....

神未曾應許天色常藍;但衪曾應許生活有力!

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原帖由 scotia.nova 於 2009/5/29 11:39 發表
All these were reported by my old maid (who had a good relationship with me. She left me because she needed to go back home - not being fired by me).

Should I ask the new maid directly of all her do ...

你舊工人同你關係好係因為佢知足, 佢知你係咪一個好僱主, 但你舊工人同新工人好明顯係兩類人. 所以你唔駛理佢, 你只要同佢直接講:如你真係有咁多不滿, 你只可考慮轉工, 因我家的benefit 係咁(同埋自問benefit 已不錯) , 我真不能永無休止的滿足你呵!!!!!
講番現實生活的自己, 我有個firend 嚮一間germay 的香港公司做, 佢地個個月都出bonus, 我只有係"善務" 她, 不可能返公司投訴我老闆話人地公司個個月有bonus 出, 點解我地無.
同埋上文我都有講因我工人工作表現令我滿意我先帶埋去食日本野, 同埋我有考慮佢做夠half year後, 我會出d bouns 獎勵佢, 但唔會佢話想點就點, 因為我先係老闆

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原帖由 scotia.nova 於 09-5-29 12:01 發表
Thank you all for your response. I feel a bit better now.
The agency said i am too involved in the maid. He asked me to comment on her performance only, don't care the world of maids.
However, are w ...

最後在頭三個月與工人保持距離, 不要太close. 看清楚她的人品如何?

有什麼不對? 妳就要清楚說明妳的立場, 和有什麼不對? 和要對她們"長話短說", 等她捉不到妳想什麼.

她的私人事一概不理妳, 她又不是妳的囡囡, 教好她, 她是不會多謝妳的. 多一事不如少一事. 有時間, 就留給妳的朋友/家人. 關心她 - 如她受, 她會感激妳, 相反, 不受, 只會覺得妳煩, 樣樣都睇住晒, 無自由.

做得她, 買些糖給她吃. 不須, 特別為她而做. 妳會好辛苦的. 何必呢?

最緊要, 不要怕她不喜歡或嬲. 將每事都說清楚, 她自然會跟, 不會再說三道四.

我經常對我家的工人說: 不要多咀, 我是不喜歡, 是聽清楚我說什麼? 她在我面前是不可說"廢話"的. 和我通常是"說完就閃". 她想找人聊天, 就去找她的朋友, 不要找我.

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