原帖由 circleda 於 09-6-9 14:14 發表
How old is the kid? Have you consider to move him to mainland with you, if your job is stable. I think there is some good-quality school you can find and the kid can at least see you after work.
How old is the kid? Have you consider to move him to mainland with you, if your job is stable. I think there is some good-quality school you can find and the kid can at least see you after work.
from your writing, I felt that he did not know where you are, your child felt like losing you!
"engage with your son" wasn't necessary to be there yourself. of course, it will be the best to do that. First, you need to let him feel "you are with him" no matter where you are physically. Second, explain to him why you are doing that. "Honest to the truth" is always the best solution to any problem. Nothing impossible. Please don't think it was hard and impossible to solve, you are not the only one like that. You are not alone.