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洋房

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發表於 09-6-8 23:34 |只看該作者
我係一個單親, 全職及係大陸工作的MAMA ,
我平日星期一到星期五都要你大陸返工,
當我係家時, 就好乖, 但我不在家, 就失控,常常唔聽話,
我都有時都不知點做 ?


翡翠宮

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發表於 09-6-10 17:37 |只看該作者
I agree to let your son study in mainland, childrens need to be with mother


洋房

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發表於 09-6-9 15:00 |只看該作者
嘩! 呢樣真係唔知 !!!

因為我都沒想過! mouth:
等我問下人先 .....

原帖由 circleda 於 09-6-9 14:14 發表
How old is the kid? Have you consider to move him to mainland with you, if your job is stable. I think there is some good-quality school you can find and the kid can at least see you after work.


伯爵府

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發表於 09-6-9 14:14 |只看該作者
How old is the kid? Have you consider to move him to mainland with you, if your job is stable. I think there is some good-quality school you can find and the kid can at least see you after work.

原帖由 asiter 於 09-6-9 11:35 發表
我在呢間公司工作已經超過12年,大約一年前, 我老闆同我講大陸出現問題 , 叫我去大陸幫手睇住大陸d人 ,
改善下公司d問題 , 初初2天, 3天, 跟蹤住一星期 , 唉我知道長遠計不是辦法 , 有時佢外公都會幫我去睇下我個小 ...


洋房

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發表於 09-6-9 11:35 |只看該作者
我在呢間公司工作已經超過12年,大約一年前, 我老闆同我講大陸出現問題 , 叫我去大陸幫手睇住大陸d人 ,
改善下公司d問題 , 初初2天, 3天, 跟蹤住一星期 , 唉我知道長遠計不是辦法 , 有時佢外公都會幫我去睇下我個小朋友 , 但常常都有投訴佢唔聽話, 我都常常同佢講 解釋比佢聽, 媽媽沒辦法先上大陸工作, 我都知佢時時都想講好多野比我聽, ......

不過好多謝你們安慰我 , 其實我已經找緊工作啦, 不過好難找 .... 找都一份香港工 ,都好難 .....


原帖由 workhard 於 09-6-9 10:30 發表


from your writing, I felt that he did not know where you are, your child felt like losing you!

"engage with your son" wasn't necessary to be there yourself. of course, it will be the best to do tha ...


民房

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發表於 09-6-9 10:30 |只看該作者
原帖由 hoitak 於 09-6-9 00:08 發表
其實你有無諗過可以轉換下工作既環景呢? 我諗咁做會對個小朋友好D, 但係當然啦, 講同做永遠係兩會事, 我知道你一定有你既難處既, 但希望你可以真係去嘗試下, 去踏出你既第一步,長遠計你同你小朋友都會更好, 希望你 ...


from your writing, I felt that he did not know where you are, your child felt like losing you!

"engage with your son" wasn't necessary to be there yourself. of course, it will be the best to do that. First, you need to let him feel "you are with him" no matter where you are physically. Second, explain to him why you are doing that. "Honest to the truth" is always the best solution to any problem. Nothing impossible. Please don't think it was hard and impossible to solve, you are not the only one like that. You are not alone.


民房

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發表於 09-6-9 00:08 |只看該作者
其實你有無諗過可以轉換下工作既環景呢? 我諗咁做會對個小朋友好D, 但係當然啦, 講同做永遠係兩會事, 我知道你一定有你既難處既, 但希望你可以真係去嘗試下, 去踏出你既第一步,長遠計你同你小朋友都會更好, 希望你吾好怪我呢個過路既人多事

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