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我係第一次請工人, 佢做咗四個月, 做既野都ok既, 我屋企裝咗cam, 日日都可以睇到工人所做既野, 佢朝早七點鐘起身(唔係做家務, 刷牙梳洗都半個鐘, 食早餐又用半個鐘, 先求其拖地, 我起身返工, 佢先執我房. 我九點鐘返到公司係cam到睇到佢(bb瞓咗)佢都係唔做野, 坐係度, 夜晚煮完飯, 洗完碗就入房做自己野. 日頭一味暗BB瞓(BB得三個幾月), 攪到BB夜晚瞓得唔好, 我地又無覺好瞓, 有日BB離譜到零晨四點醒咗, 唔瞓覺要人陪佢玩, 我同我老公講不如叫佢起身湊, 等佢感受下夜晚無得瞓既滋味, 我老公又話唔好咁對人, 朝早個工人湊個囡, 棧個囡受番. 咁我又無出聲. 我有時只係同老公呻下, 佢好似唔係好認同我, 覺得我雞蛋裏挑骨頭. 我都無話過個工人, 只係兩公婆呻下. 到尋晚, 我平時有帶飯, 我帶咗個飯盒返屋企(我老公11點先返), 佢竟然將我個飯盒裝比老公, 而我無飯盒用. 咁我話等阿SIR返黎先裝啦, 咁我食完就入房同個囡玩, 跟住瞓咗. 咁到我老公返黎(11點幾, 我七點鐘食完飯), 我醒一醒, 我特然諗一諗啲送會唔會係微波爐呢, 我叫老公睇下, 佢話唔係呀, 微波爐得湯之麻, 你帶飯啲餸係焗爐, 佢仲好似無乜野咁喎~~~~~~ 依家係夏天, 焗住啲餸 / 湯係好易"宿". 我話生肉同熟食擺入雪柜會食物中毒, 我地中毒都唔緊要啦, 如果個囡中咗點算, 我咪覺得好嬲囉, 佢唔認同我講既野, 佢仲覺得無野. 係我小題大做. 兩公婆為咗個工人嗌交(都唔係嗌既, 係唔彩啫) 但我真係好唔憤氣囉. 我咪同C6講以後工人有乜問題我都唔會出聲架啦

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20022009,

don't feel upset, it took me more than 2 years until my husband really stand on the line with me in regard with maid's issues...... he had same thinking as your husband...the maid is living under others' roof.. we must concern her feeling... and not until he had more real experience with the maid.. he won't know.

i guess you should talk to your maid directly and give her a schedule or yes.. call home if you see she is too lazy from the cam. My 1st maid turned on the TV almost for the whole day when my 1st baby was around 1.... so, I called home and told her politely not to turn on the TV often as it's bad for my baby. Assign work for her during the day and check if she finished by the end of the day... they really need monitor often... once you loosen up.. they just have no discipline at all.

complain less to your husband.. honestly, they don't quite understand..man concerns is ..someone will handle everything and he can be free ~~ To make him know how you feel.. you have to let him experience lor....

原帖由 20022009 於 09-6-12 17:19 發表

我唔同工人講係我好驚佢覺得我好挑剔佢咁(唔知點解有啲唔好意思既感覺) 又有少少同情佢離鄉別井係第二度打工. 所以佢唔過份都唔會話佢, 我都知溝通係好緊要.

我同老公講係想老公支持我. 但佢唔會囉~~ ...

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我4年換4個啊！我手風唔順麻！你算好彩過我喇！

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8年黎換3個工人都叫你儉討?? 比着我都好鬼嬲!!

原帖由 babyjerry 於 09-6-12 17:18 發表
唉.........d男人係咁架喇........又唔係佢管工人........佢哋成日用對同事既態度黎對工人架.

我8年黎換3個工人........我老公話........一個就話係工人有問題.........連續換3個........你係咪要儉討下........我 ...

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oh ic

你咁講無錯喎! 關乎健康問題可大可小, 有問題一定要同工人講. 可能工人覺得咁係無問題, 但如果佢用咁既標準去照顧你囡囡, 你都會覺得吾妥啦!

其實同工人表達意見有好多方法, 吾一定下下要鬧既, 你又吾須要咁擔心話工人會令佢吾開心. 只要你耐心咁解釋比工人知你要求既標準同原因, 咁工人自然會明白原來咁樣放d食物係吾啱咪得囉!

至於你老公, 有時男人既衛生標準同女人會吾同, 有時細微細眼既野佢地無唸過可大可小. 如果吾想同老公有咁多磨擦, 咪自己私地下用個友善d既態度同工人講清楚囉!

原帖由 20022009 於 09-6-12 17:22 發表

生肉要放入冰格(上格), 熟食放入下格, 唔好一齊擺, 如果一齊擺, 咁好容易食物中毒, 佢將我啲餸(煮熟)就咁放入微波爐, 夏天啲食物好容易變壞 / "宿"

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I show "可憐樣" to C6. Indeed, i work till 8pm, back home, dinner for 20mins, BB cries, i hold him mostly till he sleep at midnight (bathing 15mins). That's everyday routine, my maid sleep at 8pm in her room!!! ( She may sleep in daytime too!)
C6 's work is much more relax than me. So, he show support to me and now hold more BB and feed him the last milk milk time lei. Please don;t scold the maid in front of C6, unless he also think that the maid is wrong (let him scold at the maid instead of you). I think it works.

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原帖由晟媽於 09-6-12 17:16 發表
吾好意思! 我有d吾明. 你話"生肉同熟食擺入雪柜會食物中毒"! 咁你既意思係你盒飯應該一直放係微波爐而吾係放入雪櫃?!

生肉要放入冰格(上格), 熟食放入下格, 唔好一齊擺, 如果一齊擺, 咁好容易食物中毒, 佢將我啲餸(煮熟)就咁放入微波爐, 夏天啲食物好容易變壞 / "宿"

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原帖由 RonicaKwok 於 09-6-12 16:28 發表
其實工人都數都聽女主人講野...

點解你唔同工人講, 你要點點點...
同老公講無用架~ 男人多數都無咩要求...

open D 同工人講~ 加油~

我唔同工人講係我好驚佢覺得我好挑剔佢咁(唔知點解有啲唔好意思既感覺) 又有少少同情佢離鄉別井係第二度打工. 所以佢唔過份都唔會話佢, 我都知溝通係好緊要.

我同老公講係想老公支持我. 但佢唔會囉~~

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唉.........d男人係咁架喇........又唔係佢管工人........佢哋成日用對同事既態度黎對工人架.

我8年黎換3個工人........我老公話........一個就話係工人有問題.........連續換3個........你係咪要儉討下........我嬲到喊.

對著個咁既工人.........而你老公咁既態度........真係有排嘈呀.

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吾好意思! 我有d吾明. 你話"生肉同熟食擺入雪柜會食物中毒"! 咁你既意思係你盒飯應該一直放係微波爐而吾係放入雪櫃?!

原帖由 20022009 於 09-6-12 15:45 發表
我係第一次請工人, 佢做咗四個月, 做既野都ok既, 我屋企裝咗cam, 日日都可以睇到工人所做既野, 佢朝早七點鐘起身(唔係做家務, 刷牙梳洗都半個鐘, 食早餐又用半個鐘, 先求其拖地, 我起身返工, 佢先執我房. 我九點鐘返 ...

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原帖由 alexyu 於 09-6-12 16:34 發表
I came across your same problem. I dont' think you've done anything inappropiate. Food poisoning is serious and life-threatening indeed!
I also employ as first time. My BB now few months old. In hi ...

So happy you're understanding my feeling, and I just unhappy that C6 don't stand by me. Eventhough I'm so tired to carry the baby, but I'm stand on to carry her after work. Since I don't want to see BB love the helper more than me in the future.

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