from my experience, not every maid is like that. I have 5maids in 5yrs. My first one is an old maid but she can remember everything even my girl was new born and we have many things for her to do. Her works was excellent. After her I hv 2 bad bun bun and 1 bad yan, no memory at all, fired. Now I hv a good yan yan. God bless you. I always believe there are good maids. If maids are not good, just fired and find a good one. Never tolerate. 2Yrs is not a short period of time.