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但你都要比多d時間個女呀!!

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原帖由 Sadman07 於 09-7-25 07:38 發表

Dear Singletwinmama,

It is really not easy for you. Working and taking care newborne twins at the same time. I think in your case having a helper is the most important. Unfortuantely, my experience ...

Thanks for your advice and encouragement. I have not gotten a helper yet. Still trying to work that out, too many concerns and problems lately.

Just started on my new diet because I have gestational diabetes. It's quite tough, missing out all the sugar. Feeling quite low and lethargic. I know I just have to get used to the eating habits, then I will be fine. But sometimes, I just wonder why is life so tough. It's oredy so difficult to walk through pregnancy alone and having to worry about the future alone. Why am I even denied the simple pleasure of having a muffin with a cup of tea? Sometimes life is so unfair! Men go out and keep their mistresses and illegitimate children. Women have to bear the consequences of their fun. Sigh, sometimes I really feel so sorry for my twins. This should not be the live s for them ... they could have so much more in life, a complete family, sufficient to live comfortably, good care ... ...

Anyway, I'm just venting ... ... after the tears, I'll wash my face and get going again! Have to do some grocery shopping to make myself a nutritious, sugar free dinner for my babies' sake.

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原帖由 singletwinsmama 於 09-7-11 08:42 發表

My family is not in Hong Kong. So a good helper is really important. I just have to pray hard that if I treat her well, she will treat my babies well. I'm also getting an Indonesian helper. Heard t ...

Dear Singletwinmama,

It is really not easy for you. Working and taking care newborne twins at the same time. I think in your case having a helper is the most important. Unfortuantely, my experience tells me that it is not easy for you to meet a good one, and what she claim in the report may not be true, you will have big problem if they have no experience in taking care newborne. I can imagine how difficult it is if yuo need to change a new one during that peroid.

Have you get one already? Maybe you can consider to find one who are in Hong Kong already (I find my my current helper in HK, I mean those those finish her contract shortly, she is the best among all my previous one), at least you can see her track record and interview her.

Good luck and be strong.

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唉!我都有同樣嘅問題, 如果唔做嘢, 攞綜援,份綜援其實同我份人工差唔多, 冇乜分別!如果, 繼續做嘢, 又要睇住個女, 放工返到屋企, 個人已經散哂...

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自己繼續工作，俾囝囡去補習社托管

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原帖由 MAMAOKLA 於 09-7-11 09:49 發表
Singletwinsmama, I do understand your case and know how hard your life in the coming future. I've similar case with you ten years ago. My daughter is nearly 14 now. It's very important to share you ...

Thanks, Mamaokla :) I know I can do it. I know I can provide my twins with a happy family. If the single mums herecan do it, so can I :)

I'm going starting to build up my social network again and yes there are lots of kind souls around and I'm really thankful for that.

Here's wishing you and your 14 year old many, many more happy years ahead. Let's continue to build happy families for our children.

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Singletwinsmama, I do understand your case and know how hard your life in the coming future. I've similar case with you ten years ago. My daughter is nearly 14 now. It's very important to share your worries and unhappyness with friends. They can give you unexpected support.
Yes, you are right. Rainbow must come after raining.

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原帖由 satdonna 於 09-7-10 19:24 發表

要揾好工人真係唔易架,你重要係twins添,有無屋企人幫吓眼呀,咁會放心d既,不過點都好la,希望你可以揾到個好工人la

My family is not in Hong Kong. So a good helper is really important. I just have to pray hard that if I treat her well, she will treat my babies well. I'm also getting an Indonesian helper. Heard that they are easier to manage. I have signed my twins up for babies care centre too, just in case. Though it's not something I can afford in the long run, but just in case the helper doesn't work out ... ...

So many things to plan and worry about ... ... sometimes I do wish to have someone to share that burden with me, to go through my pregnancy with me ... ... but I guess like what I've always tell myself ... ... it's okay and normal to cry, but after crying, make sure you stand up quickly and continue walking, the twins will be here in less than 4 months and they need you. I guess life goes onthen. Hopefully, the storm will be over and the days will get brighter and cherrier..

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政府又無咩support，如果綜援可以夠生活，又可以照顧小朋友，仲有埋間公屋，可樂而不為？咪當係你long-term計劃中一個step，你可以既時候先再出黎做返野。

我請過一個工人，以后我都唔敢再請。

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