[yes, i same as u, b4 i so worry about the house keep, but after get one more baby, so is really tried to take care 2 kind ar, so must need to change my mean, "take it easy" "let tham go" the kind and me will be more happy. so now the sencond baby is arlady 19month lu, so next year she will go to N1 ar, so i will have more time to enjoy my life ka la. hope that time come more soon................
quote]原帖由 hazelnut 於 09-8-31 16:57 發表
我做全職媽都適應咗九個月, 莫講話你D小朋友年紀相隔近難攪, 我兩個相隔四年半都難攪, 大唔肯讓細, 細又成日撩人把火, 起初把聲都閙到沙晒, 講嘢都唔得, 後來學識let go就無咁緊要, 總之佢地無生命危險的都由佢地去 ... [/quote]
Me too. My Son is 2 yrs old, and my little BB girl is 6 months.
Sometimes I will bring 2 of them to my mother house. So I will have time to rest or go out a while with the little BB.
Or when my 99 come, then when 2 of them sleep. I will go out to shop around for 3-4 hours. Coz' my 99 can help to take care the small one.
add oil, you are not the only one even though I only have one kid (17-mth old gal), being a full time mom without maid is the hardest job I have ever performed, no rest, no privacy and 24-hr standy, I normally have my little private time after midnite (like now is 2:30am already, must go to sleep now), if possible, give yourself a short break to do whatever you like, eg. go to library, eat something you like, doing yoga, or simply take a deep breath and do nothing